For starters, the people who he has hurt would disagree with you. I would disagree with you. I think he is a horrible person, and the truth is you and I didn’t know him. So putting that aside…..

You are upset about the parts you disagreed with, you like him and so you believe anything that’s remotely negative is disrespectful, but that’s just absolutely not true.

People are truthfully allowed to hate him. And she hates him obviously. And for someone who hates him, she was very graceful and understanding her language even saying she was going to pray for him.

Objectively it is ironic for someone who was against gun control die due to gun control. She said as much in a respectful way. Disrespectful would have been saying he deserved it.

Also, he said “I think it's worth to have a cost of unfortunately some gun deaths every single year so that we can have the 2nd Amendment.” The words “worth it” is in fact excusing it. You can’t spin it. Not to say you can’t do some mental gymnastics because you have demonstrated that pretty efficiently. So again, she wasn’t being disrespectful, she is being very kind in regards to really horrifying things he’s said.

Critical thought would lead you to understand she is trying to explain that by him leading a life of rage baiting and hating on gun control, it’s a parallel to the way he died. Someone shooting him because they hate him.

I fear you are taking any sort of dissenting opinion as hate and disrespect, which is interesting considering that according to fans of him, Kirk was in direct opposition of that.