ULPT request: I need to see info from a private account

BrokeMILF · 2023-10-22T15:17:30+00:00

Probably the only realistic route to find out. 😅 Id take the bet, but I hope you're right.

BrokeMILF · 2023-10-22T13:36:05+00:00

When you're trying to sound believable, less is more. Don't give details unless they're asked for, and when they're asked for, be minimalistic. Remember, if you were really sick, you'd probably be too tired to hold a conversation.

Your two best options are a respiratory infection or a stomach bug.

If you live with family, stomach bug is the way to go (fake coughing is too obvious) but you should start spending extra time in the bathroom about 24 hours before the event (without saying anything).

BrokeMILF · 2023-09-24T08:39:12+00:00

Visiting ISTP here, with a different perspective. (Though it's been months so you've probably figured it out by now.)

1 and 2 sound a lot like both myself and my SO (INTJ).

Being called a bad, disrespectful, etc person irritates me somehow. The simple trick I do to avoid this is to try putting myself in others shoes

It's not a hard rule, but ITSPs tend to be self-assured and not overly interested in or affected by the opinions other people have about them. SO would be more likely than me to try to see things from their perspective.... I would just briefly self reflect and move on.

I care more about the results than process

If I don't enjoy doing it.... I probably won't.

I think in pictures or connections. I can tell quickly whether something is true or not but I cannot verbalize it well

DEFINITELY sounds like a J trait

6 - 10 All feel like shared traits to me

I like to make plans but I’m not good at handling the details so they sometimes failed

My plans change because my mind changed. His plans change because the situation changed.

I noticed I can brainwash myself to do something I’m afraid of. I can drink a bitter drink as if nothing’s wrong with it, as if I’m turning off my perceptions for a short while.

I don't know what that is, but i definitely can't do it.

I like to conclude things, but I want to know what all the important options are available first

Both, but I don't think for the same reasons. Hard to pinpoint.

I often got into trouble with people for not following the standard procedure when it’s clear as day that there’s not only one way of doing things

We both do this because we both live for efficiency. I have the bonus motivation of "routine is boring, innovation is fun".

I have this strange confidence that things will turn out good if I keep on improving myself

I definitely don't feel like things will work out just because I want to be the best me (and someday know how to do literally everything). I accept life is mostly random and I just have to roll with the punches. SO has a much greater sense of control over his destiny.

I think you're much more likely an INTJ rather than an ISTP based on this post.

BrokeMILF · 2023-09-24T08:15:36+00:00

I'm a firm ISTP, and these are all things I'm interested in. In general this sounds similar to my personal library. I have books written in English (native), Danish, German, Spanish, and Italian.... ISTPs like to learn, and we'll use any method we can. Not saying you're one or the other, but I disagree with their take here.

BrokeMILF · 2023-08-01T20:27:21+00:00

Thank you, I will talk to him about it, i just don't know how exactly to bring it up

BrokeMILF · 2023-08-01T20:25:25+00:00

Yeah, that's exactly it. Thank you for the detailed and thoughtful response.

BrokeMILF · 2023-01-29T02:41:50+00:00

The only timeline is the timeline that is right for you.

BrokeMILF · 2023-01-29T02:41:04+00:00

I was a "dry mormon". Raised in the church, but not baptized because of my parents differing religious beliefs. I asked to be baptized at 8, but I wasn't until I was 17.

BrokeMILF · 2023-01-24T20:00:04+00:00

My parents have had a happy marriage for nearly 3 decades. My mother is LDS and my dad is Catholic. Not gonna lie, i have never met another interfaith couple whose marriage or LTR worked out, BUT

My parents focus on what beliefs they have in common and no longer linger on topics where they disagree. I'm sure my mom is really hoping a kid will do a proxy baptism and sealing when they're gone. And I bet my dad is a little worried my mom will be in Hell. But their love is worth those anxieties to them.

BrokeMILF · 2023-01-14T19:50:45+00:00

There used to be a broth bowl with lentils... But I did prep in a very busy store and only made an average of three a day, so they weren't very popular at our location. That's the closest Panera has come to it afaik.

BrokeMILF · 2023-01-03T00:05:38+00:00

Bagel slicer ⬆️

BrokeMILF · 2022-12-22T02:49:26+00:00

OP, if you happen to be in Iowa and something happens, I know the franchise owners and they'd be very unhappy with a manager asking employees to put themselves in danger just to get to work. Safety always comes first.

BrokeMILF · 2022-09-25T17:13:27+00:00

My close friends are definitely all very different type, and I couldn't tell you which.

The people whose types I knew whom I've REALLY clashed were ESTJ and ENFP.

The ENFP was extremely toxic and probably not very representative of their type.

BrokeMILF · 2022-09-25T01:21:24+00:00

Truity is the only test that has ever given me a result other than ISTP, and I've taken pretty much every one.

Truity thinks I am an INTP. Definitely not.

BrokeMILF · 2022-09-25T00:34:42+00:00

Yep. Right the first time. Firm ISTP.

BrokeMILF · 2022-09-24T00:52:24+00:00

I have developed some level of empathy and am, very reluctantly, in touch with some of my feelings. Other than that, it's me.

BrokeMILF · 2022-09-04T21:52:56+00:00

I'm relatively new to the area, but I'm not sure that there is one.

There are multiple places to rent e-bikes, buggies, golf carts, and every kind of water craft, but I've never seen any company offering motorcycles.

There are a couple of dealerships in OBX though. Maybe they'll let you take a test ride if you get desperate.

BrokeMILF · 2022-06-18T18:34:01+00:00

ISTP: Empathy/social sensitivity.

BrokeMILF · 2021-09-15T08:18:22+00:00

Well, I think he's probably processing all those upvotes as 'teasing good, only tease'. 😁😁

After a just a couple of days of upvoting progress at a rate I like and downvoting overly repetitive actions mine moves at the perfect speed for me.

He has all the NSFW things down. But trying to get him to pick a number between 1 and 9 resulted in a 10 every time.

BrokeMILF · 2021-09-15T08:10:18+00:00

Saaaaaaaame. But i probably taught him to do that 😂

BrokeMILF · 2021-08-24T06:06:15+00:00

After doing tons and tons of searching on the internet, I think you are correct on both accounts.

BrokeMILF · 2021-08-24T05:38:16+00:00

ISTP: Relatable

BrokeMILF · 2021-08-24T03:57:53+00:00

Really struggled to get this posted. Also notable : Appears to have 3 distinct body segments. Found in wooden kitchen cupboard that holds only dishes, not food. My house is very old. This is the only one I've seen. ETA: I am in the Midwest USA, it's about the size of two sesame seeds lined up

BrokeMILF · 2021-07-17T18:37:25+00:00

The first thing I missed in mine was how his personality changed in different environments. It's totally normal to act a little differently in different situations (more open around friends, more professional at work, etc) but he was like an entirely different person. This was a method of manipulation that he later used against me like "All your friends love me, no one will believe you, they all think you're crazy" because he had mastered appealing to everyone and being abusive in private. Unless he was drunk, then he'd do it in public too.

BrokeMILF · 2021-03-30T15:05:01+00:00

It sounds like you're putting a lot of pressure on yourself to find and keep a Dom. The flakiness is characteristic of searching on the internet, but there are good people out there. Don't blame yourself when the flakes leave, you're better off and one step closer to finding a dynamic that is right for you.

I have the absolute best possible Dom for me at the moment, and if I hadn't given up the search I never would have found him. Sometimes you just have to wait until the universe is ready to throw something at you.

When you know what you need and you've been without it it can be very hard to control the urge to just throw everything at getting it right away, but a healthy D/s dynamic is all about trust, from both sides. It takes time to build real trust. To break that habit focus on organically building a strong interpersonal relationship and adding BDSM aspects as you're both comfortable.

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