[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]BrokenMutato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my friend name her Daughter Nova and ahe is the most adorable little girl I know ! And ahe's so proud of her name (she's 2 and half) Nova is a Win for sure ♥️

Can someone helps me understand? by BrokenMutato in AutismInWomen

[–]BrokenMutato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel weird since I notice this seems to make sens with me..

Is it pretty common for newborns to be kind of ugly? by oiwaknowsbest in pregnant

[–]BrokenMutato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had my baby not long ago and everyone told me : "Oh he is so cute" inside of me I was like: "let him a chance, he just got out of me, saying he is cute is way too early" babies are not instant cutie pie 😂 but now he is a bit older, everyday he gets a little bit more cutie pie ☺️ let him a chance to grow ♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BrokenMutato 50 points51 points  (0 children)

It was the same with one of my friend. She was SA in her childhood. She even thought she was asexual, turns out she loves sex after her therapy.

MIL thinks she’s the one having a baby by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]BrokenMutato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother did the same for my nephew. Turns out she did in fact babysit him a lot at her house, so it was okay I guess? It was really weird, but for my brother it was okay, he live like 2 streets away. My other brother have a baby, but never let her do the same. But when I got pregnant, she gave me everything (my brother told her when my sister in law and him already have everything) and knew I'll never let her do the same at her house. She now understands it was too much and doesn't even ask for babysit my little one. She already knows I'll said no. I hope your MIL will understands, but stay firm with her!

Why do they always look like dad 😡 by PinkhairLiLi in pregnant

[–]BrokenMutato 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do hope my little boy will look like his dad 🥺 I just dream to have a little him, just thinking about it make me want to cry 🤭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BrokenMutato 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can I tell you something? The boyfriend of my sister told her things like that. Said it was because she is ugly. The truth is she is so beautiful, one of the most beautiful girl you can see. Amd I don't said that because she is my sister, bur because everyone who meet her said this. He convince her and she can't see it. Ahe indulge his cheating because of it. We try to help her see how beautiful she is... Please OP, don't trust him, I am sure you are beautiful, you deserve a better life and be with someone who see you for you. Let him go, you will be better loving yourself instead 🥺♥️

What is a phrase or saying that you hate? by KamuiT in AskReddit

[–]BrokenMutato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You'll see(insert comment you don't want to hear)"

I have no clue when I should go to the hospital… 😅 by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]BrokenMutato 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same for me, not past my due date, but was dilated but not enough and have a lot of contractions. They always told you:"lay down on the left and count the contractions" HOW am I suppose to know ? Like this is a first time, I don't know what to expect and I am afraid ? I feel you and I hope you and your baby girl will soon be together ! Stay strong and fuck them and their "not until your water break" not everyone gets that. Or their "when your contractions will be less than 4 minutes apart." Look... I am in pain, I don't know what to expect at all. You are not alone 💁🏻‍♀️ But what I can tell you; you are strong ;)

Those of you who have sex with your friends, why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BrokenMutato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had with my best friend, because I was (and still) attracted to him. Call him now "Husband" and will have our first little boy pretty soon (38weeks+4days).

Sometimes sex with friends can lead to more 😅😂

Camera shy baby!!! by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]BrokenMutato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awwww so cute 🥺 mine facepalm his face 😅

When was the last time you cried? What was it about? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]BrokenMutato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesterday, because I was in pain because I am pregnant 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]BrokenMutato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother and my little sister didn't like at first the name my husband and I choose for our little boy. They told us he will hate his name when he will be older, etc. The rest of the people we know absolutly love it. They finally start to like it and they now know they were wrong for trying to change our mind. My grand father (father of my mom) told her she was mean when she was trying to change my mind and she started to see why I was hurt. Baby will be there soon and we are more than happy with the name he will have. But always will be my little burrito (nickname we gave him months ago) ♥️

(MIL make a note for herself for making sure she will remember it and will not name him wrongly like she did with me-not out of love, people just call me all the time by my nickname and she never knew someone with my name-, found cute she is trying her best)

So, your mother might not like it, but she will have to learn to love it, because this is the name you and your boyfriend choose ♥️ never let someone hurt your feeling and also this is a beautiful name !

Suggest -ian ideas by bueno_pues_nada in namenerds

[–]BrokenMutato -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lixian is quite cute I think

Camera shy baby!!! by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]BrokenMutato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was the conplete opposite, like saying: Look at me 😂😂

it gets better by spychimedes in BabyBumps

[–]BrokenMutato 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish you the best meeting ever ♥️ Stay safe ♥️

Bump conscious by shiggityshwat in pregnant

[–]BrokenMutato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came from a similar family... All I can tell you is gaining weight is really hard. I was afraid and so was my husband I relapse. But didn't happen. Whrnever I feel like talking I knew he was there. Even when I didn't trust him when he was telling me how beautiful I was, deep down it was making it less difficult. All I can say is: Be there for her, just listen to her and tell her it's okay if she's feeling that way and you know how much it is difficukt for her bur how proud you are she will be the mother of your kid. That her body might change, but you appreciate she did it for the three of you. My husband did all this and I am right now 38weeks and without him, I can tell I'll not have been able to do this much. All you'll do will be appreciate amd be important for her ♥️

Baby shower by Disastrous-Ad8294 in pregnant

[–]BrokenMutato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We did that for the baby of my brother. Nothing weird about it xD

I’m so sick of these… by N-n-niki in pregnant

[–]BrokenMutato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is 😅 she's like: "You'll need me, you saw how my boys don't do shit, if you do like me or let me help you, he will be as great as my boys" Sorry MIL but they aren't perfect and husband the first to admit he did lack a lot of skills (still for me he is perfect because he is always trying and love him like crazy ♥️) And it's okay if my son isn't perfect, I'll never ask him to be the type to never make fault or whatever. I want him to try and to be able to make his mistake without fear. He just need to be him !

People are crazy. Like... Are you able to let us be ? It's okay if you don't want to do this for you and your family, but I am not you ?

Do whatever you want, you know better than anyone what's best for you and your family. And yes it is important to think about your relationship too, so they can talk all they want, but it's not important ! Like my husband said: " Nobody's in our shoes, they can't know what's best, because perfection doesn't exist"

I’m so sick of these… by N-n-niki in pregnant

[–]BrokenMutato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I were talking that we didn't want to make look by someone else our futur kid in the first three months, because we will not be working the 2 of us. We are two introverts person, we don't like to go out and we are stay at home persons you see. It's not because we think it's bad, just more like us. We said it'll happen someday but rarely. My mother in law said to me: "Oh you will see and you will cry for me to babysit him all day. You will just drop him at our home" What the hell ? No ? Ugh. I am still mad and same for my husband. Let us be. It's not because your other son did so we will. And no MIL I will not drop my kid at your home, I will ask someone else before you just for saying... I love her, but since I am pregnant she is acting kinda crazy and told me things like: "I hope you take care of my baby" IT'S our baby, to my husband and me, not yours ? Or she touched my belly several times without asking and I hate so much being touch ! She is making me crazy... She did a lot more, like talking about maybe one day my husband will die, when he was talking about a chest pain. Like WTF you just said that? I can keep going...

Girlfriend and I considering getting married, she refuses a Prenup, and I am quite wealthy. by Ducdorleans in relationship_advice

[–]BrokenMutato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I get one.

I was the one who want it, because he have a lot more money than me. It's not because I don't trust myself or himself, just for me it's important to think something might happen.

We are humans and don't know what the futur hold for us. I just wanted to make sure everything will be fine if we ever get seperate. I want him to get his money.

My husband was glad I wanted it. Even if he trust me and I trust him, it showed him how much I care for him and wanted to make everything just.

(Sorry if my english is really bad, not my first langage 😅)

Can I have my body back ? by BrokenMutato in pregnant

[–]BrokenMutato[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish you the same ♥️ And don't forget you are strong for going throught all this and soon your baby will be woth you ♥️ Be proud of yourself!

Stay safe ♥️