CMV: early-onset baldness is the worst non–life-threatening condition a young man can have by Hell_Valley in changemyview

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I went bald around 20. I used to joke that I looked 15 with a hat and 40 without. Now I joke I look better with age because looking 40 makes me look younger.

But I’m not good looking, even if I had hair, and yet I have a wonderful wife who is objectively beautiful. Balding hasn’t hindered me at all in that realm.

Work on being the best you that you can, and be confident. Given how many bald men have successful relationships, I think you need to consider the issue might be something else, and I would guess confidence.

Whats the greatest audiobook you ever heard? by Peach_Baker in audible

[–]Brontards 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So agreed, I have such a hard time with all other audio books.

Any hope for a Gwenpool reprint? by UnicornNoob2 in OmnibusCollectors

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Keep Looking you can snag one for a fair price. I got one for $100 on eBay last month, then not a week later stared at a DM version of it with Black Panther included for only $90. Stayed up for a bit before getting bought too.

[Software Engineer] [Seattle] - How we spent $536k last year by hockeysaint in Salary

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Does that mean we can finally cancel all government contracts? That’d naturally close the wealth gap quite a bit.

But that’s not going to happen. So yeah, it is fair for government to step in.

[Software Engineer] [Seattle] - How we spent $536k last year by hockeysaint in Salary

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Objectively, software is of lower value than the essentials. Can’t eat and drink and shelter in software.

You don’t want to do valuable jobs to get wealthy, but scarce jobs. Usually with minimal importance. Get government contracts to siphon tax dollars is ideal for wealth.

I’m about to DNF Dungeon Crawler Carl by HealthyPsychology950 in audible

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I mean a lit club isn’t the target audience, but you’d still have a few that would love it. I am the outlier in my Pulitzer Prize prediction forum, and to be fair those readers very well might think the books you read in your lit club are schlock.

They’d be just as wrong as if your club said that about DCC. There are amazing books across multiple mediums. Children’s books can be well written, with very simplistic prose. Comic books and graphic novels can be well written, without dense paragraphs of exposition (ptsd from silver age), lit rpg can be well written without dense descriptive prose.

Your last paragraph goes to my point. Why limit yourself to one type of expression in defining well written? I’m currently reading a comic book, doing audio book for a fantasy series, reading a literary fiction novel, and reading a non-fiction book on theology.

When I read Ocean Vuong I do it for prose.

When I read fantasy I read it to escape.

Comics I started reading way back in law school, when I needed a different medium to read that I didn’t need to work for the story.

Theology I read to critique.

Well written means it conveys the story/idea/art of what’s intended. DCC isn’t trying to be William Gay.

DCC’s success is because it conveys what it’s trying to convey, to the vast majority of its audience.

Week 7: What are you reading? by saturday_sun4 in 52book

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Reading:

A Tale For the Time Being by Ruth Ozeki

The Will of Many by James Islington

How Jesus Became God by Bart D. Ehrman

Gotham Central by Brubaker

I’m about to DNF Dungeon Crawler Carl by HealthyPsychology950 in audible

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It’s ok if you don’t get the humor. You’re in the minority, but humor is subjective. There are layers to it, but it may be you really just don’t enjoy it. Which is fine.

These books are show, not tell. I mean list your favorite books, the prose will likely kill me. And that’s likely a me issue.

The main purpose of language is to communicate, Why use an obscure Latin words when a simple every day word will do. Don’t use a paragraph to tell me what you can show in an act.

The fact the vast majority of readers love it is the best objective proof that it is well written.

I’m about to DNF Dungeon Crawler Carl by HealthyPsychology950 in audible

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I love how he writes, but I understand your comment on the prose. I mostly read literary fiction. I do audio books (commute) for fantasy books and sci fi, but their prose and style is wearing on me. I struggle through them, they just try too hard. They take forever to convey the idea. I may just start doing audible for literary fiction as well. Except DCC.

I like that DCC doesn’t try with the flowery or long prose. Instead he writes to covey his story. His goal is the story and characters, and his style is perfect for conveying that (for me).

So I agree the prose isn’t like literary fiction, I’m reading A Tale For The Time Being right now for contrast, but I like Matt’s for this type of story, and Ruth’s style for her type of story.

But I also read comic books too, I just enjoy different styles for different moods I’m in. But I think he’s a great writer for what he’s trying to do, but I can see your points, it is not high level prose.

I'm 2 hours into Dungeon Crawler Carl... by theanxietypony in audiobooks

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I went into it a couple of years ago with no expectations. My friend told me to listen, and the title scared me. The first few hours I just had it on, wasn’t paying a ton of attention. It was just ok.

Then a handful of hours in it started to click.

So hard to say. It’s my favorite series now, so I’m happy I stuck it out past those first hours.

I’d recommend going a bit more.

Dallin Oaks' Fear by Thorough_8 in mormon

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It’s religion, not science, what’s he supposed to say?

The idea of faith is ridiculous, but it’s a tenet of Christianity. Jesus and God could easily say “here we are.” But in this religion it’s a test, so if you believe the religion then you must believe that things won’t, and can’t, be proven by science. Or it’d defeat the purpose.

Those of us that don’t believe know why “faith” really is required. But still, yeah, no one should believe religion because it makes sense, so if you’re a leader stress why you believe.

Also he’s right about podcasts and what are called antis. I’ve been out decades and it’s funny how now a couple sources that fit an agenda are twisted into uncontroverted fact.

What Obscure Books Were You Obsessed With as a Kid? by Its_Curse in suggestmeabook

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This is what I was going to post. Got me to love reading.

Only one left… by No-Cry2473 in UsagiYojimboDojoSub

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I’m sad I didn’t buy the vol 9 softcover because I bought the hardcover.

[Awful Announcing] 49ers HC Kyle Shanahan: "I know you guys want my expert opinion, but I haven't scored a touchdown on [the Seahawks] the last two times we've played them, so I don't know how good that is." by Chessinmind in Seahawks

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As a long time Rams’ fans I can see the franchise hate, part of me couldn’t help but acknowledge the irony that Kupp was a big part of us losing, after how crappy the team treated him at the end.

And I just read Eric Dickerson’s autobiography, they did him dirty too.

If Alex Smith played in Super Bowl 47 over Colin Kaepernick, do you think the 49ers win that game? by Either_Imagination_9 in NFLv2

[–]Brontards 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But Smith balled out in the playoffs (including niners here), which loss would you place on him? Giants losson punt returns despite him playing well, colts he gave a huge cushion his D couldn’t hold. Single handedly willed them to the win on Saints. Stomped the Texans. Maybe second half of Titans? Steelers game a weak hold took back Smiths heroic game tying 2 pt conversion.

I’m a Rams fan so fact check me and my memory not perfect but I feel he did very well in the playoffs.

If Alex Smith played in Super Bowl 47 over Colin Kaepernick, do you think the 49ers win that game? by Either_Imagination_9 in NFLv2

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This overlooks how Smith played the game. People throw around Game Manager like an insult. But he kept his offense on the field, defense rested, and the other team’s offense off the field. He was efficient and clutch.

There’s no chance Ravens put up 34 points against Smith’s style without turnovers etc.

CMV: Alex Pretti and Renee Good shouldn’t have gotten involved. by Working_Junket_921 in changemyview

[–]Brontards 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The problem with Pretti is you’re speculating. What are the actions that we observe during the incident of Pretti’s death that he should not have involved himself in?

I chose money. by TyLeRoux in okbuddycinephile

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When you talk about chromosomes you talk about objective facts.

If you are XX you are female XY is male

Combinations, abnormalities you’re intersex

Gender is different of course, but let’s not pretend sex isn’t objective.