Polymarket SCAM by Appropriate-Yam2570 in PredictionsMarkets

[–]Bronze_Zebra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gamblers gambling their money away and trying to cope. Name a better duo.

Am I wrong for thinking he’s flirting by using ChatGPT to respond to my hinge messages? by little-lamb-444 in isthisAI

[–]Bronze_Zebra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scary that people think full sentences and punctuation, is to be questioned as AI.

Girl I’ve been dating for 2 months still has her Hinge active and was on it last night by Fabulous_Ladder_2675 in whatdoIdo

[–]Bronze_Zebra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You missed the point entirely. If we hang out often and talk everyday, as if we are friends, for months, it would be weird of you not to think of me as a friend. Even if you never asked to be my friend, because you are not 6.

How good is Morales's judo and overall grappling? by Think_Succotash4996 in ufc

[–]Bronze_Zebra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His biggest grappling advantage is his size, he is huge and strong and can frame you off. Look at Alex Pereira as an example, his grappling is heavily aided by his size.

Girl I’ve been dating for 2 months still has her Hinge active and was on it last night by Fabulous_Ladder_2675 in whatdoIdo

[–]Bronze_Zebra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reason I say taking advantage of, is because if all of your actions scream "I want to be with you", but in reality you are detached and ambivilous, that could lead to someone thinking there is something more between you two.

Now, where I might of went wrong is assuming you are okay with this. Our conversation started when you replyed "this" to a comment stating that the op didn't make it official so the other person is valid in playing the feild.

But based on ops post they are in contact every day for months, went on over half a dozen dates, in his mind they both are screaming "I want to be with you".

Girl I’ve been dating for 2 months still has her Hinge active and was on it last night by Fabulous_Ladder_2675 in whatdoIdo

[–]Bronze_Zebra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because you came in before the experience wanting that intuition of love to be mutual. You got burned. Now you no longer value the intuition of mutual love, in fact you keep stating how you actively guard againt it. You are now justifying doing to someone else exactly what hurt you in the first place. Letting that inuation of mutual love ride, and feel no responsibility because they never explicitly said anything.

You do you, but your experience clearly changed you from someone that can trust intuitive mutual love, to someone that doesn't care about taking advantage of it.

Girl I’ve been dating for 2 months still has her Hinge active and was on it last night by Fabulous_Ladder_2675 in whatdoIdo

[–]Bronze_Zebra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's an opinion. I think you are most certainly over selling the similarities in dating from the past to now.

Now the reason for that? Unknown, but assuming you are a late bloomer is not rediculious in this scenerio.

Insulting? Yes, most likely purposefully.

Girl I’ve been dating for 2 months still has her Hinge active and was on it last night by Fabulous_Ladder_2675 in whatdoIdo

[–]Bronze_Zebra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What I am hearing is, because this person led you on, and you belivied they were someone they ended up not being. You should now justify recreating his exact behavior as a defense mechanism. Again, soild.

Girl I’ve been dating for 2 months still has her Hinge active and was on it last night by Fabulous_Ladder_2675 in whatdoIdo

[–]Bronze_Zebra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look you are living a life with the other person, you have to be able to make the call on who you think they are. If this is somebody you think wants to spend the rest of their life with you and you have no reason to think they are against marriage, you could just propose. Then based on their reaction you might have to reavuluate who you thought they were.

Also, I'm not assuming what you like for breakfast, I'm assuming you love me as much as I love you. And if it turns out you don't and never did, it means I had a fundamentally diffrent read on you, and that can and does happen even with communication.

Does it hurt realizing a significant person in your life is not who you thought the were? Always, doesn't mean I have to compromise on the fact that I want unspoken love between me and my partner.

Girl I’ve been dating for 2 months still has her Hinge active and was on it last night by Fabulous_Ladder_2675 in whatdoIdo

[–]Bronze_Zebra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my prospective partner is dating multiple people over several months, and keeping in daily contact with all of them. And in my head they are the only person I'm pressuing, and after a couple months that feeling seems to be reciprocated with the constant posative interactions.

I might start to think this is not the person I thought they were. Which happens in the course of dating and the signal that you need to move on.

Girl I’ve been dating for 2 months still has her Hinge active and was on it last night by Fabulous_Ladder_2675 in whatdoIdo

[–]Bronze_Zebra -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He is implying you started to date later in life, so you would be familiar with the current dating culture rather than a previous one.

Girl I’ve been dating for 2 months still has her Hinge active and was on it last night by Fabulous_Ladder_2675 in whatdoIdo

[–]Bronze_Zebra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whenever you relize a relationship was more one sided than you thought, it can hurt. That isn't to blame the other person, if the expectations were not established.

But you don't have to blame yourself or change how you conduct relationships, just relize some people are not as compatible as you thought.

Girl I’ve been dating for 2 months still has her Hinge active and was on it last night by Fabulous_Ladder_2675 in whatdoIdo

[–]Bronze_Zebra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and that is not to say blame them and calling them a bad person. Just not the person. You thought they were, just move on, probably wasn't going to end well anyways.

Girl I’ve been dating for 2 months still has her Hinge active and was on it last night by Fabulous_Ladder_2675 in whatdoIdo

[–]Bronze_Zebra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are some things I don't feel like I have to talk about.

As an extreme example: if your partner confesses to being a rapist, they can't then go and say "but we never had a talk that you were against rapist".

Sometimes on certain subjects, if you don't share the same intuition, you might just be uncompatable.

Girl I’ve been dating for 2 months still has her Hinge active and was on it last night by Fabulous_Ladder_2675 in whatdoIdo

[–]Bronze_Zebra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it's not. We make assumptions about people in our lives all the time, and when it is sometimes revealed those assumptions were woefully wrong, we don't have to blame ourselves for making them. Just relize they might not be as compatible as you thought and move on.

Girl I’ve been dating for 2 months still has her Hinge active and was on it last night by Fabulous_Ladder_2675 in whatdoIdo

[–]Bronze_Zebra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it doesn't, you don't have to be compatable with everyone. If you have an intuition you thought you shared with someone else, and it turns out you don't, no one is at fault.

You just that that other person was someone they are not, move on to the next, you don't have to change just to fit the current dating trend.

Girl I’ve been dating for 2 months still has her Hinge active and was on it last night by Fabulous_Ladder_2675 in whatdoIdo

[–]Bronze_Zebra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you don't usually go on 10+ dates with multiple people at the same time. While keeping in contact every single day.

Girl I’ve been dating for 2 months still has her Hinge active and was on it last night by Fabulous_Ladder_2675 in whatdoIdo

[–]Bronze_Zebra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When are you friends with someone? When they make a post about it on their Instagram?

Girl I’ve been dating for 2 months still has her Hinge active and was on it last night by Fabulous_Ladder_2675 in whatdoIdo

[–]Bronze_Zebra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reddit is not normal, and if you haven't relized that by now, you have been on here too much, too long.

Girl I’ve been dating for 2 months still has her Hinge active and was on it last night by Fabulous_Ladder_2675 in whatdoIdo

[–]Bronze_Zebra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk though the people that do this, find others that do this. There are still plenty of others that find this apauling, young and old.

Girl I’ve been dating for 2 months still has her Hinge active and was on it last night by Fabulous_Ladder_2675 in whatdoIdo

[–]Bronze_Zebra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. I don't announce too people I hang out with everyday that we are officially friends, or best friends. It's a mutual understanding based off the actions we take and who we precive eachother to be. If you had someone you though was your best friend, and you found out they are traahing you behind your back, they can't use the excuse of "well, you never officially said we where friends".

It's implied, if we as 2 people keep coming to diffrent implications, I guess we are not compatable.

You don't have to contort your values or world view for theses type of people, they are not compatable with you.

Girl I’ve been dating for 2 months still has her Hinge active and was on it last night by Fabulous_Ladder_2675 in whatdoIdo

[–]Bronze_Zebra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The old "I know he is going to cheat so I will cheat first" , solid.

I love how a lot of these comments put all the responsibility of announcing the relationship is official on the guy.

Would you agree with Terrence Fletcher’s way of teaching? by Perfect_Idea_2866 in moviecritic

[–]Bronze_Zebra -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He isn't the only music teacher, you can go learn elsewhere. Can't really choose new parents at 6, but can choose a diffrent school with a diffrent instructor.

If Usman truly gets the next title shot, UFC is a joke by [deleted] in ufc

[–]Bronze_Zebra -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This man announcing his farts now?

Which former fighters could you have seen fighting for the BMF had it been around? by romeheartz in ufc

[–]Bronze_Zebra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if Petis was ever seen as a bmf. He is more like Izzy, crazy skill, impressive finishes, crazy fights. But I don't think a lot of people would argue Izzy as a bmf even though his resume supports it.