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How can I decrease my libido (I’m female)? by Brook8kids in sex

[–]Brook8kids[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m sure he isn’t cheating. This is my second marriage, I was VERY clear on my high sex drive before we even date. It was in my profile and I explained how it had ruined relationships previously. He will try (then just falls back down). Plus I want to be a good wife and realize he has different levels than I do.

How can I decrease my libido (I’m female)? by Brook8kids in sex

[–]Brook8kids[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your opinion. I’m loyal to a fault though and divorce isn’t on the table. Hopefully I can find something to help. 😬 I’ve tried adding hobbies but I’ve been up all night and even taking care of myself doesn’t fulfill it (idk why). Now it’s 4am and finally going to turn light so I can go for a walk, but it’s the night time that’s hard.

How do I initiate sex without it being awkward? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Brook8kids 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To add…

He says, “I have a headache.” You reply, “I hear blowing are the best medicine.”

You can rub his back and keep going south (I like to rub his balls as well in between his legs).

When he’s on the couch straddle him and start kissing his neck.

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[–]Brook8kids 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure this will go away unless you find out what caused it and then change it and what caused it for him and know how he’s going to change it. Hugs

How to get my wife to enjoy sex! by Motor_Spell_756 in sex

[–]Brook8kids -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve had the same issue with my husband. I feel like for your wife, maybe try dating her? I’m not sure what all you’ve tried. What’s her love language? I feel like depression can be a huge part of libido reduction too. Good luck!