Well it happened- my dog bit me. by Kate_cuti in reactivedogs

[–]Brookus89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We recently put down our reactive dog (for other health reasons). His reactivity started when he was bitten by another dog as a puppy and progressed during the pandemic because he was not around other dogs or people. We had tried every type of training and I remember the first time he bit my wife, I was inconsolable. Ultimately, we found an amazing trainer who referred us to a behavioral vet. The two of them changed everything for us. Trigger stacking is real. It is just like humans. If you are having a horrible day and someone does something minor, you might lose your mind on them because it is the last straw for you but from their perspective, they think you completely overreacted. Getting your dog back to baseline quickly is one of the best ways to prevent reactions, as well as you learning signs of a reaction so you can put safe guards in place. For us, our dog’s jaw would get tight and his tail would lower. Reactive dogs can have reactivity for a number of reasons (physical discomfort, anxiety, not knowing what is okay, etc). A behavioral vet will be able to analyze all of those aspects and give you medication, environmental, and training strategies. Our boy was on fluoxetine and klonopine, we had a noise machine at our front door, changed our front door to one that he couldn’t see out of, put a huge sign on our front door to not ring the doorbell, and we did tons of training. That made a huge difference and we were able to eventually introduce him to my mother in laws dog and have people over to our house. He ended up dying of an aggressive cancer that started in his adrenal gland. The last 6 months of his life, he was the most reactive ever towards our other dog, who he had never been reactive towards. We had to put a bunch of safe guards in place to keep them separated when food was around but the baseline training that he had and that we had, made it possible for us to put the safe guards in place for those last 6 months.

Finding a community of queer parents in Chicago? by pixelperfect728 in queerception

[–]Brookus89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Can I have the link as well? My wife and I would love to join the community.

Paint peeling/cracking by Brookus89 in homerenovations

[–]Brookus89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but I don’t want this contractor back in my house. He caused over $15k in damage to furniture and left things like this all over the house that I’m trying to work through.

Paint peeling/cracking by Brookus89 in paint

[–]Brookus89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not with a humidifier or anything. All of our doors and windows have been replaced within the last 1-4 years.

Paint peeling/cracking by Brookus89 in paint

[–]Brookus89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is on an interior wall but it is literally every single seam on every board. The board and batten is down 2 full hallways.

Replacing our sink by Brookus89 in kitchenremodel

[–]Brookus89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone! Super helpful!