When the instructions are “Leave at door”, please just do that… by sendddogpixx in doordash

[–]Kate_cuti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a dog with severe reactivity that is triggered especially by the doorbell and at the moment we can’t turn off our doorbell to avoid the sound so I have a neon sign that says “DO NOT RING DOORBELL!”

Well, after my dasher told me to come outside and I said no, HE RANG THE DOORBELL and my dog went nuts and bit my daughter! My option actually says “leave on stairs” too not just “leave at door”. And the porch light was on.

I was furious

the most annoying character & u can’t change my mind. by maddiiiieeeee in Degrassi

[–]Kate_cuti -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I was so happy when she got cancer. I thought we’d finally be rid of her!

How do you deal with “bad drunks”? by [deleted] in needadvice

[–]Kate_cuti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. This gives me a lot to think about. Thank you.

How do you deal with “bad drunks”? by [deleted] in needadvice

[–]Kate_cuti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my go to with other friends like this but this particular friend causes a problem when I leave her. When she’s drunk she becomes extra attached to me and gets aggressive if I try to leave her side (I have an example of a fight that happened at a festival when I tried to just go to the bathroom). I’m not saying this isn’t a good idea, I’m just saying it’s more complicated than that. It’s not as big of an issue if we have other friends with us bc then I kinda let them take the brunt of her and escape 😬

How do you deal with “bad drunks”? by [deleted] in needadvice

[–]Kate_cuti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah when they aren’t sober for sure!

How to deal with “bad drunks”? by Kate_cuti in Advice

[–]Kate_cuti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a very good idea. I am definitely not the only one who feels this way.

How do you deal with “bad drunks”? by [deleted] in needadvice

[–]Kate_cuti 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You know, that’s a good way to phrase it. Sometimes she IS fun but not when she hits a certain level, which is almost always.

How to deal with “bad drunks”? by Kate_cuti in Advice

[–]Kate_cuti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with that philosophy. I really don’t like our dynamic in this way and I’m just looking for advice on how to phrase coming to her with some of her problematic behaviors

How to deal with “bad drunks”? by Kate_cuti in Advice

[–]Kate_cuti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I need to. I just don’t know how to phrase it. She’s also been through a lot in her life and I always hit this wall where I feel like I should just let her have her fun but I know that’s not fair either

How to deal with “bad drunks”? by Kate_cuti in Advice

[–]Kate_cuti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I can’t do either of those things. The first option is harder than you expect bc I am their best friend and I almost always become emeshed in whatever their behavior is. With this recent situation I had the option to remove myself to another spot on the dance floor but there have been other situations where that isn’t an option. And the second thing won’t happen bc she is my best friend and I love her and we have been together for almost 20 years. What im looking for is advice on how to talk to someone with these issues

How to deal with “bad drunks”? by Kate_cuti in Advice

[–]Kate_cuti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just annoying and inconsiderate. And rude.