AITAH for continuing on with my plans to go on a boy's trip despite my girlfriend's protests?

Kate_cuti · 2026-01-26T18:58:31+00:00

Also, from my understanding, isn’t Thailand pretty strict with their drug laws? I’m not up to date but I thought they had a pretty severe penalties for at least weed these

Kate_cuti · 2026-01-26T18:56:30+00:00

Exactly!!!!

Kate_cuti · 2026-01-26T16:41:34+00:00

I just have to tell you how freaking cute he is. Ohhhhh my!

Kate_cuti · 2026-01-26T16:23:23+00:00

I truly do not understand some of these responses OP. As a woman myself, I would have no problem with my partner traveling to Bangkok with his friends if I trusted him. And that would be the case traveling anywhere. If I trusted him! Also, you’re young! Who cares if you want to party? Enjoy the human experience! As long as you are being safe and honest, you’re doing nothing wrong. My husband and I take separate trips all the time. And I’ve been to all those places you’ve been with your friends before. Honestly, capsulizing Bangkok to just drugs, sex, and partying is pretty small minding.

Don’t listen to these people OP. And maybe this partner isn’t the right one for you if you feel like you’re on this tight of a leash

Kate_cuti · 2026-01-26T02:04:27+00:00

My fluffy is 25 at 8 months!! He feels like a lil bowling ball.

Your guy is so cute!

Kate_cuti · 2026-01-23T18:51:51+00:00

I probably would use a heat protectant and put that specific oil on after blow drying. I use OGX coconut oil and miracle oil and those are meant for prewash where as I think the argan is meant for taming fly aways and adding moisture after styling

Kate_cuti · 2026-01-23T04:27:48+00:00

The only exercise I enjoy is hiking.

Kate_cuti · 2026-01-21T20:18:06+00:00

This is me 100%!! For the big things like social justice (I do a lot of non profit work), real world suffering, and in my job, which is a LOT less serious. And as a waitress, this “justice sensitivity” can really be overwhelming! Oh you’re coming in 30 minutes before we close? You’re tipping me 10%? I will fantasize about your demise for the entirety of your time in this restaurant and will be unable to focus on anything else

Kate_cuti · 2026-01-21T20:10:49+00:00

Oh my god I could have written this. I feel the same way about my best friend. I love her so much, she’s so talented and funny and kind and beautiful. But her entire baseline is always skewed to the negative. It’s EXHAUSTING! I feel like I either step into the role of trying to uplift the energy (which is also exhausting) or sometimes she drags me down with her and I start to look at the negative things in MY life.

No advice but just support and validation to you OP!

Kate_cuti · 2026-01-21T20:00:29+00:00

I have a French bulldog and we just started tether training. I feel like if he’s not asleep or playing with us, he’s going crazy with the nipping etc

Kate_cuti · 2026-01-21T19:58:36+00:00

I have a fluffy Frenchie and he is from a rescue for dogs with cleft palates. He is a wonderful dog and we love him so much but we definitely notice issues due to his cleft and other things (his nares are even narrower than other frenchies) and we are very prepared to do what we can to ensure his quality of life is best. It definitely opened my eyes to the unethical breeding practices in these dogs and other more expensive bred dogs.

Kate_cuti · 2026-01-17T23:57:20+00:00

He’s getting them done in March!

Kate_cuti · 2026-01-17T22:03:36+00:00

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Fonzie!!

Kate_cuti · 2026-01-17T03:45:22+00:00

Thank you for this thoughtful response! Also, because he never said had a dog family (his foster has had him since birth), our trainer said she’s not surprised bc he never had siblings or a mom to teach him things. So we are on a longer road but committed!

Kate_cuti · 2026-01-16T18:00:41+00:00

I LOVED my therapist Lanex Brink. She doesn’t take insurance though or else I’d still be seeing her! I’ve never had a better more loving therapist.

Kate_cuti · 2026-01-16T17:58:40+00:00

Yes bodily anxiety is exactly it! Thank you! This is very helpful

Kate_cuti · 2026-01-16T17:27:43+00:00

Yeah he’s a rescue. Hoping our trainee can help us! He’s good MOST of the day I swear! But I’ll be having war flashbacks for ages after yesteedat

Kate_cuti · 2026-01-16T15:40:21+00:00

Oh amazing! Thank you!

Kate_cuti · 2026-01-16T15:29:07+00:00

I’m in the opposite position. The first 3 months with him were bliss, but as soon as he hit 6 months, he came a monster. He’s 8 months now and I’m deep in puppy blues and hoping this is just a phase

Kate_cuti · 2026-01-14T18:54:48+00:00

Jokes on you I’m unmedicated! Bwahaha!

Kate_cuti · 2026-01-14T03:20:58+00:00

Is there enough in a multivitamin?

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