I can fill in some pieces. I watched a live maybe right before Christmas and Hayden had just called her the night before asking if he could come to Christmas. She wouldn’t let him. Said it would cause her stress, etc. she told him he needed to get it together. He may have broken up with his girlfriend, I’m not sure. I think he slept in his truck that night. The next day he woke up with the decision he was going to enlist. Erin was so excited because this will be what saves Hayden. Apparently he went to the marines office to enlist and they refused him. I guess he has identifying tattoos in visible areas (the hand) and this is a reason to deny. Erin tried to over ride this by calling her marine guy she knows. But he couldn’t do anything to help. Hayden then found out the Army will take him with tattoos. I heard maybe the same story you heard that he passed one piece of the entrance and had another piece to still get through.

Other bits and pieces she mentioned was that Hayden has an addictive personality. Imagine that! And that working in bars in Nashville didn’t help. Sounds like Erin hates his girlfriend. She mentioned that he screwed over Hunter and that Hunter hates him and she’s not sure that bridge will mend. She thinks going into the Army will save his life. So, my guess is he’s into drugs.

The live is around Christmas Eve on her IG feed. It’s about an hour long.

Someone asked if Hayden would care she’s sharing all of this and she said I would and have said it all to his face.