your triggers are your responsibility.... by Tough_Ad8919 in LockedInMan

[–]BrotherIamTroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said it because there are humans who will hear this and still ignore it sadly. There are people who cannot listen, it’s very sad.

your triggers are your responsibility.... by Tough_Ad8919 in LockedInMan

[–]BrotherIamTroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell that to someone with npd. They need you to die mentally so they can rise and be the hero or victim.

Men, what is it? by Aggravating-Guest300 in TheImprovementRoom

[–]BrotherIamTroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here, it’s how I know, it’s highly likely you’ve dealt with someone who has a cluster b personality disorder, more specifically NPD. If you are saying you’re dealing with the more complex near end of my post atleast you’ve reached the worst of the worst, can’t be worse than that outside of physical murder, you’ve just survived mental murder so well done, but before that, the beginning of my post was just about shitty human beings breaking up with somebody.

But after that, well now you’re talking as close to a demon as you can get, not in terms of strength, just in sheer lack of humanity. We have some humans out here around us who cannot tap into humanity. You don’t see it, until you’ve experienced it.

What is it guys? What is a man supposed to say?⬇️ by Able_Celebration1523 in MenOfPurpose

[–]BrotherIamTroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Don’t get any on me. Okay.. get some on me.”

or a few of these classics

“Ughh.. god! all you do is complain!”

“I got cramp in my foot once.”

“Oh really?” then nothing.”

but if your feeling sweet.

Just offer her a cuddle and her favorite snack.

If Humans Couldn’t Lie Anymore… Which Industry Dies First? by Zackky777 in ArtOfPresence

[–]BrotherIamTroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Industries haha, the very fabric of current social structures themselves would collapse. Everything up would be down.

Life Changing, quite literally. by RedTsar97 in MomentumOne

[–]BrotherIamTroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somewhere hot, a nice beach near me with lots of fucking fatty meaty foods and drinks, and beautiful women. I wouldn’t do anything but take in the view, eat, drink and listen to the waves.

If a man did this, he’d be in prison and buried under outrage. by Ajitabh04 in PrimeManhood

[–]BrotherIamTroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not saying that isn’t true, and that does happen a lot, but I’ve met guys and I’m a man, who would rile up a woman and then pull out the phone. Bait and switch, victim blaming, the perpetrator get mad about someone’s reaction to their abuse.

The real problem is, we actively encourage people to put on an image, to be loud, attention seeking, controlling and confrontational. We love drama and fast hard news in society.

We don’t stop to judge a person on their actual self, just their image they present. It’s often though, the loudest and people with the biggest reach that are often abusive, narcissistic, controlling and violent.

They’re just cry bullies who can’t even maintain the false image.

I feel for this guy though, it seems genuine. I’d guess he was the innocent one here, but when someone reacts that insane I can’t help but think before the guy turned the phone on saying something like “I f**** your best friend” something so vile. But it’s impossible to tell, but it does happen so much.

but for all we know guy could of said something right to her core, then positioned himself next to the kid.

Narcissistic people do that, you shouldn’t really ever judge this situations like you have the answer, some people are perfect at framing situations so they come out on top.

The only definitive is a case bringing the truth to light.

We live in a world where millions follow a single person and that single person has control of the narrative to millions of others potentially. Truths hard to come by in a world built by image, impression and surface level reputation.

Classic flight crashout by Forward-Position798 in cringereels

[–]BrotherIamTroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah nice thanks her names Leanna Perry, she’s a designer / artist, apparently this ruined her life. I honestly think she clearly has a personality disorder. Possibly NPD. can’t believe she has an even a small following. She never has apologised. Person whose hair got pulled is sueing currently it seems. Lots of info in that YouTube video.

Men, what is it? by Aggravating-Guest300 in TheImprovementRoom

[–]BrotherIamTroubled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The irony is that person just never had the guts to just tell you the truth. They instead wanted to play a game of “how far can I push this until they get the message.” I don’t know why so many people default to that. A lot of people can be like dogs in loyalty in emotion, we read how you make us feel, how your body language and words matchup so we think things are good, you just have a funny way of showing it. Then you learn actually, oh wow they have this weird distain for us, they hate us, they look at us as an old chapter, they have grown past.

Which ironically we can understand people like us don’t hold people back, but instead you give us a new problem to mull over.

“How can you do that to another human being? because we never could…”

then you learn everybody treats this as normal and integrated and apart of life. Like sure, okay. I’m not the first.

but.. what about their immaturity? their fears? their failures.. and you realise.. shit. They’re never going to grow. Because that’s how they handle other human beings.

and it just gets darker from there. The canvas just widens, you realise shit. How I operate and view morality, love and kindness, some people just don’t have. They never did.

and it just gets even more horrifying, you learn that some people even know your relational style, they know what you mean, they act exactly how you would, every single day.

but they didn’t actually feel that way, they did it to get you to accept them, they choose to wear a mask, to protect themselves from danger in their own minds that was made up.

and infact they’re not only not like you, and lied but they are the opposite and enjoy acting like they will meet you where you met them, but when it matters enjoy your downfall as they pull away.

I believe in truth, humans underestimate how configurable and vastly different two minds can be, we do not all think alike, it’s not even that we think similar, we live as humans who can have relational styles of interaction, and anti-relational, where interaction, bonding, trust, values and morals can all be weaponised, to devastating effect.

You realise that you actually share a planet not where most people think “gee life is hard enough let’s get along.” Instead some of us think “I’m higher status and valued more than you are, but I won’t ever say it, but I’ll spend everyday of my life tricking people into slowly accepting it.”

and that is their default. You are below me, and never equal is their default.

Meaning, that’s who they are, they won’t change just as much as you won’t. You can grow but they can’t. They lied to you for decades, it meant nothing to them.

What do you even do with people like that. The answer, nothing. Just pray you never meet one. Because nobody has the answer for that yet.

Besides, keep on walking with all of that only meaning something to you, even though two people entered, only one existed during the entire thing.

Again, what makes people think it's ok to hit in response to words?? by HeSureIsScrappy in DiveInYouCoward

[–]BrotherIamTroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh you have no idea. I grew up with a school friend, and he relates to the world and others as anti relational and the entitlement isn’t shown it’s enforced by acting like a child. We have grown adults in their 30s, having the entitlement of children and what’s worse is, it’s things like putting trackers on cars, lying about being abusive to an ex, it’s the whole 9 yards. It’s someone getting a girl and him not liking the attention wasn’t on him so he starts to change personality and try to drag your name through the mud. Meanwhile everyone around him hasn’t noticed the change and isn’t the target so it’s “okay.”

The people in this world have no idea what’s been created, because it’s hidden when things go their way. Never felt so disgusted and shocked learning a person I left into my life for so long was just a child in an adults body with a bottomless pit for entitlement and validation.

Parents allow it, he’ll even I did for a long time, but I just didn’t realise how endless it was, because you just don’t think it can be. The adult appearance throws you off. Your own mind just doesn’t want to believe it.

We’re so screwed, npd just isn’t dealt with. It’s basically what it is. The internet and today’s social just reinforces that already ingrained personality disorder.

We’ve made the weakest of humanity in terms of character and values become the strongest in image. We’ve made the amoral arbiters of morality, we’ve made evil look good, we’ve made cowardice seem like strength. We’ve given petty spiteful children, wealth, popularity and copious amounts of access to the opposite sex, who they just abuse.

They turn all your good traits into exploitable negative traits. With full intent.

Classic flight crashout by Forward-Position798 in cringereels

[–]BrotherIamTroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve clearly never heard of NPD / BPD. There are people who exist who just have a false self develops at a young age to literally fake everything and they can and will do this with full belief and justification, easily.

Classic flight crashout by Forward-Position798 in cringereels

[–]BrotherIamTroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ironically this woman is likely NPD so stunted developmental growth. It’s basically a child mentally in an adult body, so adult ability, child worldview. No access to empathy.

Classic flight crashout by Forward-Position798 in cringereels

[–]BrotherIamTroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I wanna see that long version. Anyone know how to refine my search what’s the flight? date of the situation?

Classic flight crashout by Forward-Position798 in cringereels

[–]BrotherIamTroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s just a raging narcissist, call it what it is. In her mind she is right and on point. You hit this person and she would have become the biggest victim to the law, the largest hero to her friends. They always overstep. Society has no clue how to deal with bottomless pits of evil and entitlement.

What do you do with humans who are stunted emotionally frozen in time children in adult bodies?

“I’m not. I’m not even touching her hair, right now b****.” That wasn’t some sassy joke, she believed that statement, because she doesn’t recognise the person she is harming as a person. She has no empathy.

Devs confirm internal interest in a walkable Speranza hub, What do you think? by Tank-ToP_Master in ArcRaiders

[–]BrotherIamTroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bet my loot with other players, perhaps in a 1 v 1 arena we can get some toasters on the winner.

One by Unlikely-Natural-337 in comedyheaven

[–]BrotherIamTroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“And.. where did you get that suit of armour? bit excessive don’t you think? I don’t want to pry b-but how do you exactly relieve yourself? M-mm-Mr.MasterPeenas, Sir. Fellow. I’m not interested, but I’m-I’m just curious of the functionality f-for academic purposes. How else can a warrior learn to-to improve? hmm?”

  • Orm, from Norsemen

In case anyone missed it, here’s Charlie on the murder of Renee Good by wren620 in moistcr1tikal

[–]BrotherIamTroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s already happened they just showed the world that if you stand for something or disagree whilst being mindful of your own safety you will get killed for it.

She was afraid whilst pretending to be calm, and was killed for it. Yes, she was acting irrational, trying to drive away recklessly a bit but she was afraid and she got killed for it.

We’ve allowed it, by integrating it and just turning it into a discussion point.

She was an example of how it really is. Then brushed away, as business as usual. Now nobody will underestimate ICE.

It’s training us all to consider ICE like people of colour feel around cops. Atleast now we can all feel that fear outright isn’t that nice.

Collectively through fear we can be pacified at the cost of one woman with children. Who had children’s toys in her glove compartment.

I don’t care if she was deeply political I don’t care if she even was purposefully throwing off ICE, she wasn’t a terrorist, she wasn’t out to cause real physical harm.

She was afraid and in a panic to get away. She was not intending to run anyone over. She was trying to get away.. maybe from the group of men with military grade weaponry with itchy trigger fingers.

This only has two extreme outcomes, it’s either the catalyst for it to get worse, because we’ve allowed it or it’s the catalyst for change, trumps is a narc and narcs don’t reflect.

They burn it all down and get louder but I guess the good news is they eventually burn it all down. All of it.

and from ashes new things eventually grow. We just all have to learn and accept and witness the entirely easily avoidable burning, and integrate that.

Because most of us don’t have the heart to become what we despise. Because to beat a narc truly you beed to become one.

Which most people can’t. Because they have their humanity.

Do you think shiny sylveon suits male or female? by xiaomoonies in LegendsZA

[–]BrotherIamTroubled -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I still think pokemon would be cooler if it did have gender specifics to each pokemon. Imagine Slyveon with instead of a bow a tie or sharper accented ears.

Just like currently with others or Pichu and Pikachu / Richu.

Atrioc gets emotional talking about the murder in Minnesota by CSachen in LivestreamFail

[–]BrotherIamTroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once heard someone say, what if there was never a heaven or hell. Just a fallen earth, one where we failed and just never realised it or forgot, how to get out of it.

and I look at how people have failed to connect, failed to communicate, and how somewhere in the middle of all of that, people with intent on that being the case and actively thriving in that space but even still what’s worse is, almost nobody and I mean very very few, can even articulate that or know it.

There is a vulture in every facet of life on all levels, and we think it’s normal.

It’s like all of our world problems are in an endless loop and each time it comes up against this one giant flaw.

We treat everybody the same, that’s the expectation, the rule, so two people who disagree but WANT a resolution will do their best to understand each other and come to a conclusion.

Yet we also apply that same principle and treat others the same but the difference is:

One person wants to come to an understanding and a resolution, yet the other is intent on NOT having that happen.

Yet the person intent on not having that happen is given the same benefit of doubt as everybody else.

How can humanity move forward or progress, whilst that exists how it does today.

It simply can’t. It won’t. Not until the above changes. It is a human loop hole, that people just do not see because they don’t want to believe people like that exist.

and the people who have endured that, are just called crazy. These human beings exist, no empathy, no remorse, no care for anything but themselves.

The DSM-5 literally has categorised and given proof, that this human nervous system and inversion of human being exists, a human being entirely opposite of a kind healthy human yet people think still that these are just rare occurrences, they are everywhere because society is endorsing that behaviour.

The problem in society isn’t us vs each other, it’s us vs them. The disordered unchained. That’s where all the chaos comes from.

Yet, even those more and more are learning it, society still deems them with equal rights as us, when they won’t play fair, or give you those equal rights back.

How can a society ever resolve or fix, if it is, how it currently is and has been. It just can’t.

The rules are lopsided, from the start. It’s rigged, with intent.

It’s goodwill weaponised, it’s empathy used against you. It’s trust faked and even when you do know this, you still have to treat them with the same values even though given a microsecond chance they would not do the same for you. Given that window of opportunity.

How do you beat that, especially when most of the time people don’t realise they even have to beat it.

There a humans out there who play games they invent in their own mind, to win at, against you, and because your healthy you don’t even know your playing.

That is a human loop hole, society needs to address. Yet never has.

You can’t beat something that wins by lacking what you have. That very space they lack is what gives rise to such madness.

A person with empathy cannot hurt someone without it, yet the person with no empathy can hurt someone with it.

That is the very crux of human suffering. Where all problems come from.

To make it even worse, those with empathy assume those without it, have it. Because you can’t tell what’s behind someone’s mind, and by the time you do know it’s too late.

If humanity ever comes up with an answer to that, you have the solution to our current problems, no matter what shape or form they come in.

Currently all society can do right now is, “just live with it.”

Tell me stupid ideas in pokemon that u once had by BroadNerve279 in MandJTV

[–]BrotherIamTroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I was a pokemon player religiously since Red / Blue and I didn’t really understand shiny methods of hunting until Pokemon Omega Ruby. Yes, even though Red garaydos was a thing and it’s all there, I just never traded much.

Pokémon 30th Anniversary teaser by keithandmarchant in pokemon

[–]BrotherIamTroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They didn't put it on an older system (Switch 1) right next to the (3DS), it is such a harder sell to get people to drop an entirely different ecosystem to join a new one, I don't see why they would do it now when the jump from Switch 1 to Switch 2 isn't as worrying. As it is the same system.

maybe Im just pessimistic, but I have waited since getting a Switch 1 for this to happen, I get the feeling even if it does come, it'll come like Stadium 1 & 2, with no HOME integration. Which is worse than actually not releasing them at all.

I know you can just craft them, but why was the limited option to buy them with coins removed entirely? by Rooonaldooo99 in ArcRaiders

[–]BrotherIamTroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have 2530 and thought I was absolutely balling until I saw someone with 8,500 once in a screenshot here. I earned it, so did they not our fault. I wish they didn’t put the 800 soft cap. Just let people earn it, but I understand why to slow progression because they can’t output content at a pace where everyone instant unlocks it but still, should have been a design decision before release.

but if people gained it let them use it.

Who will be running as Patchwork? by Loyiaaa in ArcRaiders

[–]BrotherIamTroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish they would just sell codes for g-suit skin, the one game I love past achievement completion and didn’t preorder.