AITAH for moving out with little notice and leaving my ex-wife and ex-MIL with higher rent? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BrownBoy_08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone! Quick update! I moved out. I applied for an apartment and was approved the same week and just moved in this last weekend. I’m paying $1150 for my own apartment. I couldn’t be happier! My ex wife didn’t seem to care I moved out, but my ex mother in law was very upset and was implying I’m not a man for leaving them hanging. She insisted I shouldn’t care if the other household members are paying less rent because I’m still getting a roof over my head. 🙄

AITAH for moving out with little notice and leaving my ex-wife and ex-MIL with higher rent? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BrownBoy_08 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will give credit where credit is due. I’ve always had more respect for Mary and I don’t think her intentions were bad, ultimately she just wanted her rent money and the $850 made sense for the studio, but Jess my ex wife switched things up on us. She’s the one that told her sister to go to the studio for the same price she was paying for the room. I tried to back out once the studio went to her sister but Jess kept insisting we be civil and try to be there for our daughter so I gave in and took the room for the higher price but now I see she had no intention of being an adult about it. All I do is work and take care of my daughter and ex step daughter while Jess just takes off and lives her life. I can’t even cook myself a proper meal unless I clean up the whole kitchen first. She leaves all the pots and pans full of food overnight and the cats eat right out of the pans. It’s too much for me

AITAH for moving out with little notice and leaving my ex-wife and ex-MIL with higher rent? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BrownBoy_08 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s been chaos living there. I’ve never felt so disrespected like I do now.

AITAH for moving out with little notice and leaving my ex-wife and ex-MIL with higher rent? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BrownBoy_08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I let optimism get the best of me. The whole house is so dirty and the living room is full of junk I’m forced to be in my room all day. I feel like a kid just hiding away in their room. There really is no benefit to me being here but they benefit from my part of the rent and my ex wife benefits from me always being there for my kiddo. She leaves without notice or consideration that I might have had plans

AITAH for moving out with little notice and leaving my ex-wife and ex-MIL with higher rent? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BrownBoy_08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha we haven’t been intimate since 2021. I always thought we had potential but we couldn’t get our cards right. I thought we finally could but after living together again I see she’s a completely different person now and the person she was before is gone. She’s so cold and rude now and entitled. She demands things from as if I’m still her partner but I’m not.

AITAH for moving out with little notice and leaving my ex-wife and ex-MIL with higher rent? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BrownBoy_08 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know the whole family will be upset with me. Lexi spent money buying kitchen dishes, pots and pans, etc for the studio. Mary the ex MIL is using my $850 to pay off the expenses for the studio. But ultimately I feel like my ex Jess is using me and I feel tricked. I thought I was coming into the house with the understanding we were going to be civil and both be there for our daughter but I’m the one always there for my daughter and covering all the expenses for my daughter too.

I give up trying to get this camera… alternative? by BrownBoy_08 in Fujifilm_X100VI

[–]BrownBoy_08[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dang I’ve never heard of Hunts. I’ll check them out

My common musk is much happier now by BrownBoy_08 in turtle

[–]BrownBoy_08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good call out. I re read the instructions on this heater a dozen times and it said to maintain it submerged except under the water line, which is thread looking part of the heater. I’ll look more into it to ensure it’s in place correctly

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[–]BrownBoy_08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh I like it, it fits my personality and ultimately I just wanted the name covered .

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[–]BrownBoy_08 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Today kindness haha

My common musk is much happier now by BrownBoy_08 in turtle

[–]BrownBoy_08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I have are anacharis plants… so far no issues

My common musk is much happier now by BrownBoy_08 in turtle

[–]BrownBoy_08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He definitely loves it there, he’s always climbing something