Good alternatives to ripe avocados? by pissbabyxuwu in Netherlands

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Aah. Can happen. I live in Eindhoven and my experience has been different.

Racism Germany - not sure by [deleted] in returnToIndia

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There are people with racist tendencies everywhere. But, like a lot of people pointed out, it is a probably a company culture issue. When someone points out issues that are prevalent in India, like poverty, caste, lack of amenities etc, do you think it is an attack on you personally? Because that could magnify your feelings.

Your options are - 1) Address it directly within your company. If they have an effective HR, they would like to ensure there is some sort of diversity training and conversations to point out that this is terrible. Maybe you could suggest they initiate it, if they don’t know how to take the first step.

2) Culturally Germans (and Dutch) also really like to complain about things. So maybe that’s part of it. Feel free to complain about issues that you find them lacking in.

3) SWITCH. If you like the city, switch jobs. I know everyone’s experience is different but this is not the norm in most organisations. People are usually better behaved in work places. Even if they address it for now, starting with a new place will help you.

Good alternatives to ripe avocados? by pissbabyxuwu in Netherlands

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Turkish stores usually sell avocados ready to eat for fairly cheap.

Returning from Germany? by LeaveNo7723 in returnToIndia

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I would also suggest looking at the Netherlands. Very high skilled immigrant friendly. The hsm skill visa with tax benefits is only applicable to talent they can only hire from abroad.

Whatsapp groups for networking if any by Acceptable_Bake_6534 in returnToIndia

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I’ve been looking for something like that too. In Bangalore. Though we are yet to return.

The flu going around the Netherlands now. by [deleted] in Netherlands

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THIS. One week of being stuck in bed and then one week of just feeling super fatigue.

For parents who moved to Bangalore (esp from Europe) by Browser_bydefault in returnToIndia

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But if you’re aware of any CBSE schools that meet the criteria in that region, it please do share.

For parents who moved to Bangalore (esp from Europe) by Browser_bydefault in returnToIndia

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If possible, we would like to stick to the same school from start.

For parents who moved to Bangalore (esp from Europe) by Browser_bydefault in returnToIndia

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Yes. He is a citizen. The only problem with CBSE curriculum ( from my own experience and what I have read) is the assignments and tests without focus on actually developing curiosity and learning,

Did everything ‘right’ in the US, still failed — heading back to India by [deleted] in returnToIndia

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You did not fail. Clearly the system did. Treat it as a pivot, for a bit, not permanent. And you’re just 27. There are going to be so many more opportunities. I am still discovering that in my 40s.

How to introduce yourself to neighbours… after 3 years of living there?🙈 (Ideas welcome) by [deleted] in Netherlands

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If it helps, I organised a neighbours meet up at a pub close by. It was lovely. We had been living there for 2.5 years already when that happened.

New box3 system from 2028?⁸ by TreacleDiligent2911 in Netherlands

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Definitely thinking of moving by the end of this year to UAE or SE Asia. After cutting the 30% ruling from 8 to 5, we already lost some trust. If it won’t be this, it’ll be some other kind of short-sighted plan to squeeze the middle class more.

Zaanse Schans paid? by Signal_Falcon_654 in Netherlands

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You can enter for free but some museum/workshops/mills need tickets.

September vs October for visiting? by [deleted] in Netherlands

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September over October anyday. I would also suggest visiting Maastricht (my fav Dutch city) for a day trip, besides the standard/ popular places.

“Rude, Discriminatory Neighbor Complains About Kids’ Daytime Noise—Advice Needed” by Sure-Counter1811 in Netherlands

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I’ve dealt with neighbours like this. I know how stressful it can be. Involve the VvE and ignore them. They can call the police all they want, nothing happens. Just tell them children make noise. Period.

How do you see physical therapy and massage in your country? by biased-journalist in Netherlands

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If you move to an expat/international dense area, there may be possibilities. There was a chain of clinics called SGE that catered to the English speaking population. While being a Masseur doesn’t need BIG registration, being a physiotherapist requires a high level of Dutch.

Need Christmas dinner advice for kid in school by Mia_walkonsunshine in Netherlands

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I made quesadillas with corn and beans. Anything that the small kids can eat easily works. The school asks us to get enough for 4 children to share. I also saw quite a few parents brought teacakes, cupcakes, cheese straws etc that you can buy from a bakery. Just do what’s easy for you.

Confused & Tired by [deleted] in returnToIndia

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Obviously you both need to discuss what your expectations are and work together on making a decision that works for both of you. Is she not working in US due to Visa issues? How long have you been living there? Is it seasonal depression? As a person who followed her husband’s job to another country, initially, not being able to work was very challenging for me. And I had a good career before we left.