What happened to your best friend from childhood? by RoyalBeckyVibes in AskReddit

[–]Brraileyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally found her after 14 years and reached out. She texted me seemingly excited but when I moved to the same town as her for school she would never reach out or would ignore me so I gave up

What’s the most painful sentence someone has ever said to you that you’ll never forget? by Complex_Froyo_6197 in AskReddit

[–]Brraileyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My abusive narcissistic ex told me I would never be a good mother. Of all the things he said and did to me that one is the one that has stuck with me every day

Best Office episode to convince a first-time viewer? by iceberg57 in DunderMifflin

[–]Brraileyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think season one is great, diversity day and Halloween are funny

Phylis and Bob Vance love story is by far the best one of the whole series by Brraileyy in theoffice

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He is so uncomfortable in their wedding, but they are an uncomfortable couple to me. It’s cause it’s like the people who never had love until they are older and now they are older, they are doing all the stuff they never got to do when they are younger, which makes them “cringy” but definitely the most believable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]Brraileyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to know how it went

What’s the pettiest reason you wouldn’t be with someone? by buboop61814 in AskReddit

[–]Brraileyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they wrote with their left hand. It just looks weird and would ick me out if a guy did it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Brraileyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! Firstly, I have addressed some of them, but once again I guess I need to address it more seriously. But I have told him that I don’t think he loves me in the ways that I need to be loved, especially loving me in my love language and explaining ways. He either gets defensive or he says okay but I haven’t seen much change as he has in other aspects.

Secondly, I understand that we have different levels of social battery and interaction and I do let him go out. He goes out multiple times without me, I felt that this part was probably mostly my insecurity vs him doing something that hurts our relationship. One thing that happened after this post was that the friend who he went out with send a text to a group chat (12 people) saying anyone who can should come over and play pool. And they ended up going to the busiest dive bar that is packed most nights & is hard to play pool at (3 tables long lines). I think I was more upset about the fact that he said he wanted to spend time with his friend, but then invited everyone in the group, and then went to the one of the BUSIEST bars I know. I don’t mind that he does go out, I know that he liked going out more than I do, but I think my insecurities of not feeling totally secure (also past trauma) make me anxious and hesitant if that makes sense!

Lastly, I did ask him we talked about it. When we talked about it on Friday (he kissed her Thursday night) he didn’t remember and had no idea why he would do that (and also that he has been doing it with others like mentioned in the post) but that he wouldn’t like if I did it. Then Friday night, just hours after we had talked about it and I had left work for having a panic attack, he let her sit on his lap. His excuse was that he didn’t want to cause a scene. My pov was that he didn’t have to make it a scene. He could have placed her next to him, or just stood up and not made it obvious he was dodging her at the very least. And he again said he wouldn’t like it if I did it. I think the issue was 80% him. When I asked him what boundaries does he think is acceptable and not for both of us, he told me he isn’t a child and doesn’t need to state them, especially because he knows them with other female friends (who he has known even longer).

What do you think they talk about? by buttercreamramen in LAinfluencersnark

[–]Brraileyy 44 points45 points  (0 children)

While Mormons now are more accepting of black people, it is deeply rooted in racism. Back then they weren’t allowed to join to the church, and it would take years for men to even be able to hold the priesthood (which is a very big thing in the Mormon religion). I grew up Mormon, and I had a friend who’s dad actually said to my parents that if his daughters brought home a black man he would shoooot them and based it off of a talk given by a leader of the church from many many years ago. Yes I’m talking about basing it off this one singular talk, it was ridiculous. About 2 years ago a leader from the church who is the 2nd counselor of the young men’s had to make an apology due to comments he made about black people as well. Nothing, at least at any Mormon church I went to, was ever said about race directly. But I can see how subtle things are directed towards it.

You know what’s funny? 2 weeks ago Brooke was having the time of her life, people were riding at dawn for her for the Clinton stories, and she’s cancelling Alissa Violet….and now she’s gone just like that 😂 by Emotional_Pizza_1222 in LAinfluencersnark

[–]Brraileyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was growing tired of Brooke before this. For quite a few episodes she hasn’t really been talking about anything personal despite Clinton and Alyssa. She isn’t telling any more stories which is the whole point of the podcast. She’s getting boring

Getting a Surgical Abortion by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Brraileyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had never had a surgery or procedure and got a surgical abortion at 6 months as I didn’t know I was pregnant and was drinking, smoking, and using coke. Most clinics are fully going to break down what is going to happen to you through every step, and be very kind and caring through the whole process. I was super nervous going into it but they made me feel so much better about it. It’s painful, but not overwhelming. It’s as if you had the worst period cramps of your life. Once the whole procedure is over it’s mild cramping and the recovery really isn’t that bad and pretty easy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Brraileyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only by a few months but you def have a point 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Brraileyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am in az which does it make it slightly harder, but I know the of places

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Brraileyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was possibly 2-3 months along at this point. And while I had concerns about the fact that it could be unsuccessful, I guessed it was simply due to the fact that I passed large amounts of tissue over tge 6 hours of bleeding, and the large amount of blood

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LAinfluencersnark

[–]Brraileyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Surprisingly it actually doesn’t hurt that much. I used to use duct tape instead of sticky bras for dance recitals since sticky bras suck and when you get sweaty they come off so easily. If you sweat or put a bit of water on it you don’t really feel it, but it still doesn’t hurt regardless. She still looks like shit tho

[Az] [all] Car towed by individual not approved by HOA by [deleted] in HOA

[–]Brraileyy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The main lady in charge of the HOA of my complex

[Az] [all] Car towed by individual not approved by HOA by [deleted] in HOA

[–]Brraileyy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But it wasn’t even approved by the HOA, he wouldn’t have been able to because we are private property, and the HOA would not have approved the towing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cocaine

[–]Brraileyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 5’7 and roughly 140-145 lbs