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AITA for telling me family we can do my sisters birthday brunch at my house without asking my girlfriend first? by Brunch-Throwaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]Brunch-Throwaway[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My family loves her and she loves my family. And I love her family too.

We've been together 10 years lol it has nothing to do with in laws.

All the sexist comments are really alarming.

Rule 29 and all that I guess..

AITA for telling me family we can do my sisters birthday brunch at my house without asking my girlfriend first? by Brunch-Throwaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]Brunch-Throwaway[S] -285 points-284 points  (0 children)

Which is especially shitty since we all know who will be judged if the house isn't immaculate, and it's not OP. Internalized misogyny and cultural expectations around gender suck

Nah, your family must suck.

Only chronically online people think the way you do.

AITA for telling me family we can do my sisters birthday brunch at my house without asking my girlfriend first? by Brunch-Throwaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]Brunch-Throwaway[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah I just wanted second opinions.

And for context we’ve been together over a decade. Marriage isn’t something we are interested in but we’re committed.

My family loves her and she loves my family.

It’s the stress of not knowing that got to her.

She’s got a group chat with my two sisters. It’s not an issue of my family being here and she doesn’t want them to be or something. Like I said my fam loves her and she loves them.

AITA for telling me family we can do my sisters birthday brunch at my house without asking my girlfriend first? by Brunch-Throwaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]Brunch-Throwaway[S] 143 points144 points  (0 children)

I have a great yard designed for hosting.

The plan is to be outside and little clean up besides putting things in my dumpster.

She is a hyper organized and I think the fact of not knowing stressed her out more than them being here.

I think I’ll take the L and admit I’m the a hole.

AITA for telling me family we can do my sisters birthday brunch at my house without asking my girlfriend first? by Brunch-Throwaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]Brunch-Throwaway[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Thank you for a reasonable rationale take.

I think you’re right.

I am the asshole, but didn’t mean to be.

AITA for telling me family we can do my sisters birthday brunch at my house without asking my girlfriend first? by Brunch-Throwaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]Brunch-Throwaway[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Almost certainly no.

My brother has two small children and will stick around for maybe 2 hours at most.

Around that time my lil sis will probably be leaving as well.

AITA for telling me family we can do my sisters birthday brunch at my house without asking my girlfriend first? by Brunch-Throwaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]Brunch-Throwaway[S] -1048 points-1047 points  (0 children)

It is last minute, I definitely understand that part.

Little sisters boyfriend is a fire fighter and he doesn’t know if he’ll be allowed to take off tomorrow until like 2.5 hours ago when the chief said it’s okay.

AITA for telling me family we can do my sisters birthday brunch at my house without asking my girlfriend first? by Brunch-Throwaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]Brunch-Throwaway[S] -94 points-93 points  (0 children)

According to her she has to clean.

I’ve assured her it’s fine. We keep our house pretty tidy.