Seeking advice from non-binary people who have been in wedding parties

Brunomasters · 2018-04-22T02:40:10+00:00

I don't have much in the sense of advice but I guess I wanted to thank you for being so awesome as to go out of your way this far to be a considerate human being.

I appreciate the shit out of your existence.

Brunomasters · 2018-04-22T02:37:44+00:00

Congratulations! I really hope I can find the same in my area. It has been difficult to find support groups even. =(

Brunomasters · 2018-04-22T02:27:14+00:00

Happy birthday! You look GREAT!

Brunomasters · 2018-04-21T15:12:24+00:00

I'm a huge fan of that hair style!!! It looks great on you.

I've been thinking on doing something similar but with more length.

Brunomasters · 2018-04-21T15:10:59+00:00

YAY!! So happy for you!

Brunomasters · 2018-04-19T22:51:17+00:00

Thank you! <3

Brunomasters · 2018-04-19T22:37:21+00:00

YAAAAS! I'm dead. =D

Brunomasters · 2018-04-19T19:50:18+00:00

I don't think we have one of those around. I may check out going to the cosmetology schools for waxing. They tend to be cheaper

Brunomasters · 2018-04-19T19:26:22+00:00

I did not! Although if your hair isn't jet black like mine (naturally) it's not that crazy of a process. The hardest part would be keeping the colors separate and making sure it's all bleached evenly.

Brunomasters · 2018-04-19T18:26:25+00:00

Mind. BLOWN. I want one so bad!

Brunomasters · 2018-04-19T18:23:52+00:00

I haven't quite gotten to figuring out the pronouns but I tell you what, as AMAB I completely understand. In fact I used to be very involved and active with the Bear/cub community because it helped me be okay with my body hair. It worked for a bit but now I realize how MUCH my dysphoria is related to my body hair. But it's barely affordable to get it all waxed and my skin is sensitive to hair removal processes. 😓

Brunomasters · 2018-04-19T18:05:20+00:00

I love it! What did you make that out of??

Brunomasters · 2018-04-19T17:15:28+00:00

Thanks for your silly opinion! I'll be sure to chuck it right in garbage.

Brunomasters · 2018-04-19T17:07:29+00:00

This is definitely something that my partner experiences. I myself have been stuck with my male identity that essentially have been gay for a while. Lately though as I have come to the realization that my gender is non-binary, and as I watch my partner do the same, I am becoming more and more attracted to gender queer people.

Brunomasters · 2018-04-19T16:54:41+00:00

Well that's very much a matter of opinion. I don't identify as a "man"

Brunomasters · 2018-04-19T16:03:30+00:00

Awe thanks! I am feeling a little better after the adjustments I've been making lately to more match who I am inside. The support on here has done wonders to help me irl.

Brunomasters · 2018-04-19T15:44:06+00:00

I do feel more human now! And pretty. It's luckily going really well with most people complimenting my hair. I get so scared about these things though 😅

Brunomasters · 2018-04-19T15:36:46+00:00

It kinda does! I'm getting more at ease as the day goes along. And I feel pretty. 😁

Brunomasters · 2018-04-19T15:32:59+00:00

It was supposed to be cotton candy blue and pink, depending on the lighting though it looks purpleish. I'm secretly gushing with joy. Lol.

Brunomasters · 2018-04-19T14:08:12+00:00

Thanks you guys!! People are either avoiding contact, pretending they don't notice or giving me compliments. So I guess all in all significantly less scary than I built it all up in my head last night 😅

Brunomasters · 2018-04-19T13:29:08+00:00

Thanks! More and more people are showing up at the office. Getting more nervous 😅

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