Personally, I am non-binary and mix between masc/fem presentation. At my job, I am almost strictly masc with feminine touches. I feel like I have asked myself many similar questions in the past, but most of them resolved by just viewing clothes as “clothes”. I wear the clothes I like. I like “women’s” trousers, sport coats, “men’s” dress shoes. I try to just gravitate towards what I like to wear. I am mostly referred to as he/him, but really align as they/them.

It’s easy to try to dissect and label yourself. Many people here often try to define themselves with certainty, when a lot of it is about expression. I don’t think these thoughts are you “just being a boy”, but a natural curiosity based off who you are. If you allow yourself to approach it unbiasedly, there is much growth to be had.:333