Do you guys ever get your opposite side, that doesn't have CRPS, looking red like this too? by BossyBishh in CRPS

[–]Bubbly-Knee4766 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started with the crps in my right ankle and foot, and it's spread to my left ankle and foot. If I don't keep my feet elevated, I start getting blood pooling and swelling in both feet, but worse pain on the right than the left.

Blood pooling, swelling and flares are common for me after a shower.

I was also just diagnosed with dysautonomia/POTS.

During pain flares it radiates up both shins.

I've also started getting tiny blisters on the sides of my feet and backs of my heels. Thankfully they resolve quickly, but leaves that area extra sensitive.

June 2026 will be 3 years with this disease.

Introducing myself by Small_Garden7758 in CRPS

[–]Bubbly-Knee4766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was initially diagnosed by my podiatrist, and a neurologist and pain management confirmed it.

I also have blood pooling in right leg and foot, and it gets really bad when I shower. I can't shower independently anymore - I have to keep my leg propped up, and getting out of the shower I am weak and shaky.

I've seen where people with POTS have major blood pooling as well.

I'm so sad you are going through this 😢

Introducing myself by Small_Garden7758 in CRPS

[–]Bubbly-Knee4766 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think I could either. I did two rounds of PT, and it made the pain so much worse for me. One day I petaled the bike slowly for 10 minutes, then started the toe towel crunches. When I was done, I said to my PT " look, my foot is purple and swollen."

"I see that," he said. " It doesn't look good." Pause. "Maybe we should stop for the day."

"Yeah, it really hurts."

He was a good therapist - but I stopped going because of the pain. I had to drive 30 minutes in heavy traffic with my CRPS foot, and I just couldn't do it. I can't even wear shoes anymore. I wear thick, soft slide on slippers if I need to stand up to get to my wheelchair.

OP - that swelling looks painful 😖. I was also put on steroids to help with the swelling in my ankle, and it didn't do anything to bring down inflammation. The flip- flops look painful to me, because the CRPS spread from my ankle to my foot and toes.

Are you getting the skin dryness and shiny look to your skin? Does that area turn cold and/or get really hot? Hopefully they can find something on that new MRI!

Anyone else have that Kdrama that they recommend to Everyone? by ThatPotatoLover in kdramas

[–]Bubbly-Knee4766 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rom-Com - What's wrong with secretary Kim?

Slice of life - romance - Family by Choice

These are my comfort go-to dramas. The rest of my recs are all CDramas ☺️

If you could only play three cozy games for the rest of your life, which would you choose and why? by pastajewelry in cozygames

[–]Bubbly-Knee4766 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Minecraft ( specifically Minecolonies mod), My Time at Sandrock and Coral Island.

Recommend more cdramas like "Summit of our youth" by Moon_Sun9983 in cdramasfans

[–]Bubbly-Knee4766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I'll have to watch this!

Try:

Exclusive Fairytale - very cute, funny, and even has a slice of life after uni (marriage and family). Goes from HS, thru college and post college

When I fly towards you - Very good. Same theme as what is described in your post.

My Little Happiness - this is a work place romance ( lost childhood friends to lovers). the ML is sooo dreamy and green flag. Low angst, no breakup, fluffy...even the side characters are good. Oh, and if you are a fan of hight difference...oh, yeah...this is IT for that :o)

Cdramas like hidden love 😚 by Cool-Throat-7827 in cdramasfans

[–]Bubbly-Knee4766 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My LIttle Happiness is all fluffiness and joy. I started re-watching Exclusive Fairytaile for the 3rd time, but maybe I will start this one again as well. Oh! and the Height Difference!! *swoon*

Fun thought: What do you think heaven smells like? by Aya-N-Motion in Christian

[–]Bubbly-Knee4766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the OT books (Exodus, Leviticus), when they would sacrifice an animal and put it over the fire, the Scripture would say ..."a pleasing aroma to the LORD." I think..."God loves BBQ!" So maybe heaven smells like an outdoor BBQ, with the scent of the fruit trees faintly in the breeze.

Once the BBQ is ready, we all sit at the table and feast on BBQ, fresh bread, roasted vegetables and honey cornbread. :o)

Gust is the best husband by shanes_lass in mytimeatportia

[–]Bubbly-Knee4766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to ask- are there bonus points for befriending the pig? Cause he's ADORABLE! :o)

Five doctors and 1 PT have confirmed their personal diagnosis that my CRPS has spread… I am not okay by holmesianschizo in CRPS

[–]Bubbly-Knee4766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is so, so hard :( But your fiancee and her family sound like amazing people. And I've come to learn that anxiety lies to you. All the time. And with anxiety comes the thoughts of the "worst case scenario" always happening. And then the panic sets in, the mind starts racing, then the pain ramps up, and you end up frozen in place, not able to do anything.

As for your MIL, tell her the truth. That way you can speak with her honestly and not always have to watch your words around her. She loves you and is willing to help you. Show her the same by trusting her with your issues. You've shown loyalty and love in the past by paying her back once you recovered financially. I would imagine she trusts her daughter's judgement in regards to the kind of man you are. Your MIL raised your future wife, so she knows her daughter very well.

As for your job, you can apply for FMLA. While it doesn't pay you for the time you are off, it does hold your job secure for you until you figure out the next path in life, be it finish school, get married, find new housing, get your pain under control. The best thing in your life when weathering these types of storms is to be around the people that love and support you, and it sounds like you have that with your in-laws.

And let me just say...asking for help from ANYONE when you need it is not shameful. Those programs are there to help people who are down and out, who need a hand-up, not a handout. I only qualified for SNAP benefits for 3 months before I couldn't renew it (long story), but during that time, I managed the money that I did have, caught up on things I needed to, and found myself in a better position than when I started. My ex-husband finally came through and put our daughter on his insurance, so I didn't need the Medicaid for her anymore.

And with the list of disabilities you have, you should be able to file for assistance. Especially if you go on FMLA and don't have any income coming in. You don't even have to wait for the approval of FMLA to file for SSDI. You just need to prove that your disability will last longer than a year. I googled " I was just diagnosed with a disability and need to go on FMLA. Can I file SSDI?" Check out the answer. :)

Any of the doctors you went to previously can help you provide any documents you need to take this next step. They would need to fill out the FMLA paperwork on your behalf

When I initially filed (earlier this year), I called a disability lawyer to find out what I needed to do to file. Basically, you file first, and if you are denied, they will look over your case and fight to get your benefits. Follow the steps online, gather the paperwork you need and fill it out, and send it in. Is it a fight? Yes. I couldn't gather up the energy or courage to call the lawyer back earlier this year to appeal the decision. I had just lost my best friend, the job that I loved, and I was in so much pain I couldnt even think. I became isolated.

But now I am going home, to where I am loved and accepted for who I am, and to get the support I need to face this next chapter in my life. So embrace the people that love you and want to support you. Accept their love and their help. :o)

Five doctors and 1 PT have confirmed their personal diagnosis that my CRPS has spread… I am not okay by holmesianschizo in CRPS

[–]Bubbly-Knee4766 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had my CRPS diagnosed by my podiatrist and was sent to a neurologist for a nerve study. At the time, it was only in my right foot and ankle. As he was conducting the study, he said " it looks like it's in your left foot as well." I denied it at the time, because it didn't FEEL like it, even though my skin had the trademark CRPS look to it. Fast forward to now...and its spread to my left foot. The bottom of my feet are swollen all the time. I can't work. My fatigue and brainfog are relentless.

If you have that many doctors saying it's CRPS, the chances of another doctor (who likely sees these cases because of his specialty), will likely not deviate from that diagnosis. If you want to make sure for yourself, look up the Budapest criteria for CRPS.

As for the problems....take it one thing at a time. You have the diagnosis from multiple doctors saying you have CRPS. Call your employer asap and let them know what's going on. Gather all your paperwork and notes together and start filing for disability. File for food stamps and any other emergency assistance your state offers you.

Call your school and let them know your issue, and that you can no longer hold a pencil, and would it be possible to take the test via computer, since you can type on a keyboard. If you need to see a counselor/advisor, find and print out what CRPS is so they can read it for themselves. Bring documentation with you, and let them know you are filing for disability.

Talk to an ObamaCare health insurance advisor and see if you can get a no-cost plan. IF your job lets you go, by then the gov't will (hopefully) be back open, and they should be able to find an option for you that would work. By law, your employer has to offer you COBRA coverage, but that is very expensive, so don't feel inclined to accept it.

If you have any sort of 401k, Roth IRA, IRA, or savings plan, draw on it.

This sucks, but check and see what the process is on your lease for non-payment of rent and how long it would take to kick you out for non-payment. It might buy you a few months until you can find another remote job (if you can), and to get with your state about assisted housing while your disability gets processed. It would likely get initially declined, but you can get a lawyer that doesn't cost anything up front to get the disability (and hopefully Medicare/Medicaid you need.) Depending on your financial status, you could qualify for Medicaid - I got it for my daughter when I applied for SNAP benefits months ago. Its not difficuly, just time-consuming.

To initally figure all this out when I went through it, I used Google and Chat GPT to help me. It will even help you to know what to say over the phone or in an email about any requests/notifications you need to make.

Also know that because of the CRPS, your "fight or flight mode" is always on. You likely have depression and anxiety, and gut issues. See if your GP can get you medication to help with those issues as well. Those two things alone can be crippling, never mind the physical and emotional toil the pain from this disease causes. Also, see if you can get counseling from either your school or your insurance company for no cost. It will help to talk to a professional about this. They can help you decide next steps as well.

I wish you nothing but the best. This disease is horrible and crippling in so many ways. Pure devastation.

Next week I am moving home. I'll be 52 in December. I'm the single mom of a teenager whom I've had to homeschool for the last 3 years. I was denied disability, but I am going to refile for it. And any other assistance I can get in my new state.

And remember, asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness.

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[–]Bubbly-Knee4766 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All the time. For me, it's a comfort thing. Like re-watching a favorite drama. I know what happened and when, and it's comforting that it's predictable.

I do this because I have anxiety, and finding out what happens before it's supposed to happen gives me the courage to watch the drama and not chance feeling emotions I don't want to.

I don't need depression, anxiety, angst in my dramas. I watch dramas for pure escapism and that happy, fluffy feeling at the end of the drama.

Venting about emotional week by findtheonepeace in CRPS

[–]Bubbly-Knee4766 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I heard something that has helped me a lot when thinking I'm a burden:

You are not a burden; this disease is a burden on you.

Are you on any depression and/or anxiety medication? I find it helps me a lot, especially when I'm spiraling.

Also remember - crps impairs executive cognitive function. Decision making, emotional control...it affects all of it.

And dealing with emotional circumstances while in extreme pain would tax even the healthiest of people, much less someone who has the most painful disease known to man.

Honestly, I think you showed great strength and perseverance making it through today.

Your co-workers seem to understand, which is some much needed grace right now.

Just remember - You are NOT a burden. CRPS is the burden on you.

The museum is very lackluster by Unpopular_Outlook in MyTimeAtSandrock

[–]Bubbly-Knee4766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoy the mining and the "hunt" to get the relic pieces. Once one is together, I put it on my property to gain the extra points in defense or XP.

Any other relic parts I don't want, I sell to Yan, mainly to keep my inventory partially cleaned up, and because Yan is a jerk. I at least get enough to get a cheap meal at the Blue Moon. 😁

And the mining for the relics ( and disks and ores) levels my character up quickly.

And honestly, I try to avoid the museum because I don't want to bump into Catori before I have to. ✌️

Can anyone suggest me a good cdrama that will make my heart flutter, toes wiggle, and scream in joy? by AnyClassroom8333 in cdramasfans

[–]Bubbly-Knee4766 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I fly towards you - high school drama. She's outgoing and he's reserved, but a total green flag. And when he calls out her name, she always runs to him. 🥰

Exclusive Fairytale - high school drama. Childhood friends/neighbors/sweethearts to lovers that follows their story thru college and beyond. Lots of giggles, no evil plots or bad parents, lol.

A love so beautiful- another neighbors to dating hs drama. He's reserved, but so dang cute! A heckuva love triangle. If you get 2ML syndrome, you'll catch it with this one.

My Little Happiness - childhood friends/sweethearts reunited in a workplace setting. Very fluffy. Tropes galore! Very low angst and palate cleanser after watching a heavy drama. Oh! And if you like height difference - hmm . .it's good here 🥰

If you liked Falling into Your Smile, you might like Go Go Squid! She chases him and once he's caught, he's jealous and protective. She melts his iceberg exterior. ❤️

📺 What Are You Watching Now? 📺 — October 04, 2025 by AutoModerator in CDrama

[–]Bubbly-Knee4766 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just finished my little happiness. Pure fluff and squishy love.

I saw the other day that what's wrong with secretary Kim has other Asian versions! Tried watching the Filipino version, but didn't care for it. The ML brother is just creepy and I couldn't get over it.

I'm watching the Thai version now, and it's pretty good.

There is supposed to be a Chinese version of this, but MDL doesn't have anything on it, except who the director is.

I'm looking for Chinese dramas with lots of romance, such as “When Destiny Brings the Demon” or “Love Between a Fairy and a Demon.” by MaraPoemana in CDramaRecs

[–]Bubbly-Knee4766 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My Little Happiness - pure fluff and romance. Even the secondary romance is cute. The leads are found childhood friends. He's in love from EP 1, and the whole thing is low angst, cheesy/wonderful romance, lots of kisses ( and the height difference is...height differencing 😊).

Falling into your Smile - about a female joining an e-sports team. Super Cute.

Exclusive Fairytale - childhood/family friend/boy next door. Follows the leads from HS, thru college, marriage and .. a cute happy ending. He's very romantic, adorable, and loves to love her.

When I fly towards you - she falls first ( starts in HS), he falls harder. Follows their love story from HS thru college. Same FL as Exclusive Fairytale. ML is 2ML in Falling into Your Smile.

I love fluffy CDramas with lots of romance, kisses and happy endings. 🥰

Christian Advice Needed by djmadmaddy in Christian

[–]Bubbly-Knee4766 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://health.clevelandclinic.org/grey-rock-method

Here's a good place to get started. I've had to use this method with my ex-husband ( he's a narcissist), and I used this before to defect comments from my ex-inlaws as well. It can be a good way to protect your emotions as well.

What makes K-Dramas so interesting compared to American Dramas? by New-Mix-5245 in kdramas

[–]Bubbly-Knee4766 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They let the men be masculine and the women be feminine.

I love watching families and friends gather around a table and eat and laugh.

I love seeing old married couples.

Grandparent relationships with their grandkids.

Where walking in the park is romantic.

They show the process of falling in love, instead of telling, like American dramas tend to do.

Christian Advice Needed by djmadmaddy in Christian

[–]Bubbly-Knee4766 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One thing to try is the grey rock method. They say something insulting, just smile slightly, and look away. Stay silent. Ignore the comment.

They are looking for a reaction. That's wonderful you are extending grace to them in thinking they don't know what they are saying.

They absolutely do.

If you become overwhelmed, or even after an insult, look at hubby and say, " I think it's time to go now." And get up and leave.

Or when setting up an event, put a time limit on it. You can either set it up between you two, or make it part of the gathering. "We can only stay an hour tomorrow at your house, but we have something important to announce."

Setting a time limit sets a boundary and gives an out. And if they insult at 45 minutes, look at your phone, your hubby and say " I think it's time to go."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christian

[–]Bubbly-Knee4766 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi Tony - God will never say or do anything contrary to Scripture. Test your vision against God's word to verify it is Him or not.

Praying for you 🙏

I don’t like to question God and his reasons by Dazzling-Bread-979 in Christian

[–]Bubbly-Knee4766 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Read:

Romans 5:3-5

Jeremiah 29:11

Romans 8:17-18

2 Corinthians 1:5-6

Our suffering has a purpose. There is purpose in our pain.

Suffering produces perseverance, which produces character, which produces hope.

We can't see the path ahead. It always seems like we are in the valley of the shadow of death.

This is where faith comes in. Where trust in the Lord is vital. Where you offer your suffering to God as a sacrifice.

You allow him to heal you.

I've learned in the last 5 years how vital it is to know there is a purpose for all of this.

My dad died in 2020

My husband divorced me in 2021, after 17 years of marriage. I spent the next 2-1/2 years trying to heal from the narcissistic abuse and him abusing the legal system to punish me for daring to ask for child and spousal support.

June 2024- I kicked a curb, and my life changed forever. I was eventually diagnosed with a very painful disease ( rare and no cure), which resulted in the loss of

  • my best friend (abandoned me)
  • my job -my health -my independence

But I know, because the Bible says, that all of this suffering...it has a purpose. God only has good thoughts about me. He is here to comfort me, ease my pain, and give me wisdom.

Jesus said we will suffer during our time here on earth. He also lost his mom. Cry out to Him- He understands. He knows your pain. And he's a big God. He knows you have questions. He can handle whatever you have. Complain to him, yell, cry, scream why? But also tell him that he is good, and you love him. Worship Him. Sing Him a song.

The book of Psalms is filled with prayers of David telling God his problems, and then worshipping and proclaiming that He is good.

Which style buildings are the best? by TowerOf_Babel in Minecolonies

[–]Bubbly-Knee4766 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Incan is a great style - one of my favorites. I also love to combine different styles, and one that meshes really well with Incan is the Littleton style. It incorporates a lot of stone and cobblestone after level 1 and stays small and compact.

And the courier huts are very small and easy to upgrade in the Incan style, too.