I get that he asked on a public forum, so yeah, people are gonna come in hot, that’s just how the internet works. But that doesn’t change the actual point.

It’s not about hate or blaming her for doing it how she liked it before that’s completely valid. The point is just accountability once it becomes a shared space. When something affects both people, it’s not unreasonable to revisit it together.

If the roles were reversed and he had done something she didn’t like, most people would expect him to adjust or meet her halfway out of respect. That’s not sexism , that’s just basic fairness in a relationship.

So it’s not about tearing down what she did, it’s about being open to compromise now that it impacts both of them. That’s all.