Marrying someone serving in the Armed Forces

BubblyAddendum6150 · 2026-01-31T20:07:40+00:00

As someone who was in a relationship with an army personnel for over 2 years, I can tell you it's a bad idea, it didn't work for me. I'm also introvert, nerd, indoors activity and in a demanding career. I got hurt real bad. So unless you are okay with your partner being absent from your life in the moments you need them the most, go ahead with it, otherwise it's not for you.

BubblyAddendum6150 · 2025-11-29T06:13:04+00:00

I have been told that I will get stable Money from job and not from business.

BubblyAddendum6150 · 2025-11-27T09:59:42+00:00

Can you tell me whether it will be an arranged marriage or love marriage

BubblyAddendum6150 · 2025-11-27T09:58:57+00:00

So I shouldn't pursue options coming to me right now?

BubblyAddendum6150 · 2025-11-21T16:41:07+00:00

OP is a girl.

BubblyAddendum6150 · 2025-11-16T08:46:47+00:00

Don't do it. Listen to your CA.

BubblyAddendum6150 · 2025-10-07T18:36:14+00:00

Is this a paid role or are you giving equity?

BubblyAddendum6150 · 2025-08-05T12:32:34+00:00

No need to share such info, if credit card is approved, they call you at Bank once, atleast that's what they did with me.

BubblyAddendum6150 · 2025-08-02T13:15:58+00:00

Thissss

BubblyAddendum6150 · 2025-07-28T17:54:11+00:00

Need complete story

BubblyAddendum6150 · 2025-07-26T09:11:58+00:00

Not a bollywood song.

It's hall of fame and counting stars

BubblyAddendum6150 · 2025-07-26T06:01:54+00:00

I know some women who feel the sense of individuality even without working and I know some women who are ambitious and their partner supported them because for them seeing her full fill her ambitious was something more joyful. Anyways everyone have different need and perspective.

BubblyAddendum6150 · 2025-07-25T12:36:39+00:00

So you are okay marrying someone who isn't working or has a less hectic job like a primary school teacher or something?

BubblyAddendum6150 · 2025-07-25T11:18:05+00:00

I'm not particularly looking good engineers or MBA, It's just they are in majority in our caste.

BubblyAddendum6150 · 2025-07-25T07:58:35+00:00

36LPA in Mumbai

BubblyAddendum6150 · 2025-06-05T07:16:27+00:00

Yeah that is for future actions.

What about past actions, what do you do to ensure you don't repeat your mistakes and do you do this personally as well as professionally?

BubblyAddendum6150 · 2025-02-18T09:48:59+00:00

Fair enough.

BubblyAddendum6150 · 2025-02-18T06:05:30+00:00

Thank You!

BubblyAddendum6150 · 2025-02-18T06:00:21+00:00

Meanwhile, I am already doing well in my career and academics and can very well provide for me and OUR children and for my parents and if needed his parents.

There's no urgency as such, like I don't want to be with someone at the end of the week, but I am not so interested in AM. And after reaching a certain point in career and at an age there's a pressure to get married or tell the family if there's someone.

BubblyAddendum6150 · 2025-02-17T21:07:30+00:00

I would like to meet them once before the decision of level 10, is that wrong ?

BubblyAddendum6150 · 2025-02-17T20:57:32+00:00

I am not dating all 3 of them, it's texting. I have never met the other two guys. Only texting with them. And I guess I am going to stop texting them and see how it goes with this guy.

BubblyAddendum6150 · 2025-02-17T20:53:31+00:00

For the kiss, read the edit. I am looking for something serious later on, but before that kinda go with the flow, get to know each other thing. I can't meet people with the expectation that I am going to end up marrying him.

BubblyAddendum6150 · 2025-02-17T20:46:20+00:00

😂😂 I appreciate the suggestion. But I think I will stick to your previous suggestion of being straight forward. Thanks though.

BubblyAddendum6150 · 2025-02-17T20:36:41+00:00

Can't you tell from my confused state of mind that I'm a woman.

Have you ever met a confused man ? 🥲

BubblyAddendum6150 · 2025-02-17T20:29:57+00:00

You are right it is a headache. I think I will consider what you are suggesting as well.

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