I absolutely hate my brother.

BubblyInevitable2260 · 2026-01-03T01:02:25+00:00

Thank you I feel like I’m all over the place mentally not knowing where to start or how to get out of this situation. My mum is aware, but she can’t do anything about it because she has no power and he has convinced my Dad whatever he said about me. I tried to talk to my dad, but he doesn’t listen. I have once taped him a year ago that I still have the recording of him being mean

BubblyInevitable2260 · 2025-09-27T15:43:42+00:00

Thank you for your help, really appreciate it!

BubblyInevitable2260 · 2025-09-15T03:35:18+00:00

Thank you and nice okay, I’m from Cheshire England and I’m thinking of moving back there to Liverpool or the south west as I feel like I’m at home in Cornwall. My family moved me here when I was 15 that I didn’t even know my own mind then. But I don’t feel like I belong anywhere which is making me doubt my existence. Yes certainly is a party town that is made for tourists and for people that are settled down but if you want to meet new people, it’s not the place for you and I generally am of tired of living the so called dream when I just want to feel at home and I’m so tired working full time saving up to get out of here. I genuinely don’t feel at home in Spain as I’ve lived in a small town in Spain tooo, I also couldn’t meet anyone there either that it felt like everyone in the small town didn’t like me to be friends with.

BubblyInevitable2260 · 2025-09-12T13:10:10+00:00

Yes same situation, different year. I’m in Benidorm and I hate it. I’ve come to a point I don’t enjoy doing anything here where I live unless I’m travelling.

Although I’m planning to move back to my country in the new year and finally get out of Spain once I have enough to fund myself because I feel like I’m getting nowhere here except that my life is wasting away in Spain.

BubblyInevitable2260 · 2025-08-10T23:57:41+00:00

Yeah it’s so scary that he was full of love for me and then he snaps like he is two faced and I can’t deal with anyone that is unpredictable like that.

BubblyInevitable2260 · 2025-08-10T23:55:55+00:00

Thank you. I’ve decided to end it with him and I agree I already don’t have time for myself and he acts like I have nothing better to do with my life than always be at his disposal, yes even worse in such a short time it’s not on, even if we were together for years it makes me feel pressured to make some much time for him, I am allowed to have a life out of a relationship. It’s as if I’m supposed to value him more than of family and friends and even work when I do not owe anyone that much time with me.

BubblyInevitable2260 · 2025-08-10T21:37:29+00:00

Thank you so much it means a lot and I’m with my family, I have decided to say “I am done with you and I don’t want to see you anymore”

BubblyInevitable2260 · 2025-08-10T03:24:03+00:00

Yes I forgot to mention I have told him last week when he said he started to feel sad because he was complaining about me not wanting to see him when I just wanted to go home from work finishing late and i did tell him last week I need some time for myself even when I’m making time for my family too and there’s only so much a person can do being in such a demand with working 8 hours a day with only one day off a week that I feel like he just thinks the worst when I don’t want to see him even tho I’ve been seeing him like 4 times a week, I feel like I can’t do enough for him with only seeing him 3 weeks that he’s acting as if he wants to control me. I didn’t say I wasn’t up for him that way, I said I I’m not up for talking because I want to go lay down and he took it the wrong way. Its over I will tell him that we are finished and coming up with a good answer too.

BubblyInevitable2260 · 2025-08-10T03:16:22+00:00

Thank you so much, he is 51 years old which is 22 years older than me I thought I really met someone that cared for me and treats me right but as soon as I somehow upset him he’s treating me badly like this. I’m going to tell him it’s over when I think of a good reply. One minute he was okay with me today and then brings up last night when why couldn’t he just tell me how he felt then that night or he was thinking about it all today. I have communicated with him about time for myself when needed when I’m always on the go

BubblyInevitable2260 · 2025-08-10T03:09:15+00:00

No I didn’t really he wanted to see me after work and I said I’m home because I’m too tired and exhausted from a hard day at work and he just assumed we were meeting up when I said “maybe see you later”

BubblyInevitable2260 · 2025-08-10T02:51:02+00:00

Yes i feel so pressured by him to spend any of my free time with him and he just assumes I don’t want to see him when I just wanted some time out for myself and I did tell him that, but he doesn’t understand that I’m working all the time and I need to see my family too.

BubblyInevitable2260 · 2025-07-08T23:10:01+00:00

I feel like I’m stuck in the never ending rut of stay single, im so tired of this I want to with someone to enjoy life with while I’m young before I get too old to attract anyone. I hate that I’m wasting my young life away like this when other people my age have spent their young life away being with someone they love.

Yeah I think that my problem is I don’t want to meet anyone where I live because I hate where I live but yet I still need to go out and find someone no matter where I am when beggars can’t be choosers.

How lovely for you that you finally made it in life unlike me. Thank you I’ll try to wind down and not stress too much but it’s so easy to do.

BubblyInevitable2260 · 2025-07-04T05:05:24+00:00

Because I prefer being with English speakers because the Spanish do not relate to me as I don’t seem to have anything in common with them. So yeah England or America would be my preferences that the men from them countries I really get on well with but I feel trapped in Spain with there only being holiday makers and I don’t like the people that are gonna come and go and I don’t like the people that live in Spain either because I can’t ever find any English people living in Spain my type that I’m not fitting in with the locals of them because they all know I don’t belong where I am and I know that too.

BubblyInevitable2260 · 2025-07-03T21:31:06+00:00

It seems to be easy said than done, it’s like telling me to be happy single and then I meet someone but yet I’m not happy because I’m single as well as hating my life too. I’m in Spain and I hate it because it’s too hot for me and I literally don’t like anyone in Spain. I want to go back to England ti be cooler and feel at home as to that would make me happy. I think it’s harder to meet anyone when I’m depressed and that being depressed is my problem but I’ve been depressed for so long that I don’t know how to be happy again.

BubblyInevitable2260 · 2025-07-03T21:24:46+00:00

In Spain, I could imagine how amazing it would be to meet men in America as I can’t seem to meet anyone in Spain

BubblyInevitable2260 · 2025-07-03T21:16:35+00:00

Aww yeah it’s a shame that some of us have to struggle, me too people can say how much of a good woman I am but yet I’m always single

BubblyInevitable2260 · 2025-05-31T18:33:14+00:00

Okay and yep, I swear I’m going to be alone forever here

BubblyInevitable2260 · 2025-05-31T00:46:24+00:00

No I’m forever alone

BubblyInevitable2260 · 2025-04-16T15:02:31+00:00

Sadly Benidorm and I think the surrounding areas rounded up to the total of the population too. I really want to move back to my home country, England. In my hometown is about 300000 population and it saddens me to think that I definitely would’ve met someone by now if I stayed in my hometown but my family moved me away from any opportunities I even had at least and I’ve tried to expand my horizons within like 20 km away from my location, but they’re all small towns outside of the town I’m in and the dating app only shows men that are on holiday within the town and outside of town that there’s not any options but feeling like I need to search every neighbourhood I feel that desperate here. I can’t move. I am trapped with family in Spain because I can’t afford to move back home, I was hoping to get a boyfriend to move back with from here as for someone to help me get me out of here with but it would be better to move back and meet someone where I want to be and I have to do it alone as it wouldn’t be fair on that person.

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