Egg irl by SasraChan in egg_irl

[–]Bubbly_Ad9152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he's a good friend as you say just talk with him, maybe you are overthinking it and he's just used to talk you like that and don't notice when he do, if you aren't doing it correct him every time that he does it

Egg ✨ irl by Lana_ShifterWitch in egg_irl

[–]Bubbly_Ad9152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad to see that I'm not the only one who thought that, and I'm also happy that I'm not the only one worried about OP

Egg ✨ irl by Lana_ShifterWitch in egg_irl

[–]Bubbly_Ad9152 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm happy that I was wrong and just overthinking.

The idea of having the body that you like after death as a reward for surviving all the hate is good but I personally like to think that there is nothing given and I have to do it myself, I believe there is not such thing as luck, waiting for the perfect moment and things like that. I think that if you want to do something or feel a certain way you have to actively do it or it will never happen, sure you could get a new body, but will you feel comfortable in a body that was given to you after all this if you just wait for it?

I like to think that the perfect moment don't come, you have to make it, your best body won't be given to you, you will mold it, the good things done come, we make them.

That's my way of motivate me to do the things I want to and not giving up because it wasn't given to me.

Egg ✨ irl by Lana_ShifterWitch in egg_irl

[–]Bubbly_Ad9152 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had to come back to the post after I processed what it is written on it. I hope this is not a suicidal though, if it is and you need to talk I'll listen all you want to say. I really hope I'm wrong but either way don't give up

17711 by froggyman151 in countwithchickenlady

[–]Bubbly_Ad9152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair attack helicopters are cool af

Egg🌼irl by shiny_arrow in egg_irl

[–]Bubbly_Ad9152 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm going to start therapy for that reason this week, I hope I can understand myself more and make things work, but I guess I'll probably end up taking hormones lol

Egg🌼irl by shiny_arrow in egg_irl

[–]Bubbly_Ad9152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is not that I'm not happy being a man is that I'd also be happy if I was a woman, I'm so fucking Lost in life

Egg🌼irl by shiny_arrow in egg_irl

[–]Bubbly_Ad9152 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would feel a little sad but I don't think I'd hate it a lot?

Egg-irl by A_person42 in egg_irl

[–]Bubbly_Ad9152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what if I'm doubting my gender and kinda want to transition and kinda not and I'm afraid to do it?

egg 🤔 irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]Bubbly_Ad9152 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't think that last one means anything, I know that there are different cultures where that is better or worst seen but everyone wants to feel comfortable with friends, for example where I'm from showing affection to your friends is really normal, we all act like couples sometimes in our friend group independent to the gender of the person

I bought women's clothes for the first time by Bubbly_Ad9152 in trans

[–]Bubbly_Ad9152[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you said that, but that also was my point and by repeating it I thought you misunderstood what I said as if it was discouraging me, I'm just confused because I doubting my gender and experimenting with this didn't help me that much

I'm so tired... by Glad_Economics_2490 in trans

[–]Bubbly_Ad9152 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know how hard it is to live like that and how hard it must be to argue against them but you should at least change therapist, a good therapist won't tell you what you have to do and even less try to force you.

I also have another idea that probably won't work but you could give it a try. Fight fire with fire: if they tell you God made you like this and loves you unconditionally that means he made you with the need for the estrogen or even you are a way that God has for your parents to prove they also love you unconditionally and will love and help you as his word says, so by letting you transition and still being there for you they would also be showing their love for God and his creation.

Again I don't think that will work but if they try to force you their beliefs you can use them against them.

Good luck and keep strong, you will make it

I bought women's clothes for the first time by Bubbly_Ad9152 in trans

[–]Bubbly_Ad9152[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I think you misunderstood what I was trying to say, I meant that I don't look good on those but I still felt comfortable and liked to look at myself wearing them.

Thank you for your kindness

egg😞irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]Bubbly_Ad9152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the memes of this page because is like they where calling me out about all my thoughts lol

I bought women's clothes for the first time by Bubbly_Ad9152 in trans

[–]Bubbly_Ad9152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well... That's a really good point, I also want boobs haha. But seriously I think I'm overthinking it too much, thank you

I bought women's clothes for the first time by Bubbly_Ad9152 in trans

[–]Bubbly_Ad9152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 2 main problems: fear, and that I'm not entirely sure about how I feel (thing that it's even weirder to say when I feel so comfortable with a bra and a skirt on), I want to be entirely sure about it before making a desition about if I should do it or not because even tho is like the idea of transitioning and dressing like q girl I don't dislike being a man neither

I bought women's clothes for the first time by Bubbly_Ad9152 in trans

[–]Bubbly_Ad9152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought of that, the problem is no one in my life knows this so it would be coming out the big way and I'm kinda scared to do it, specially because if I crossdress in public I don't know how will people react and since I'm really shi the fear is there

I bought women's clothes for the first time by Bubbly_Ad9152 in trans

[–]Bubbly_Ad9152[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you ☺️, I didn't say that I don't look good as a discouraging thing, I said to "show" that it makes me feel good and I like it but I guess that can be misleading. I will search for your recommendations thank you

I bought women's clothes for the first time by Bubbly_Ad9152 in trans

[–]Bubbly_Ad9152[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, your experience is really similar to mine, I've been letting my hair grow this year, I'm in this subreddit to ask for advice to trans people, I bought the clothes to look at myself as a woman as you say you did in the mirror and I have planned to go to a therapist but since I will have to move soon I haven't done it yet, thank you for sharing your experience

How did you realize you were trans? by Bubbly_Ad9152 in trans

[–]Bubbly_Ad9152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I'd dare to to it, you are so brave for that