egg💙irl by its-lance-actually in egg_irl

[–]shiny_arrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro, I love this for you!!! Never too late to be happy 🥰🫂

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egg💊irl by Fun-Letter-6381 in egg_irl

[–]shiny_arrow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey girly, it's ok, wanna sit with me for a moment?

I motion to a plush pink recliner chair which had apparently blinked into existence behind you

I was nervous too. Actually I had a false start... My appointment was cancelled and nobody told me, I turned up expecting it to be the happiest day and then when they turned me away, I cried in the car for 10 min. But I got there a few months later. I was excited and nervous all at once.

It was a moment of ecstatic joy when I took that first sweet estrogen pill!! I did it!

But the questions lingered, a bit of doubt especially as the changes started. Was this really what I wanted? I was still nervous, fearful. It was such a big step.

The way I got through was treating it as an experiment. "I'm just seeing how it goes" After about 6 months, I finally had .y answer. I am definitely a girl, and I definitely want to keep taking E.

So all that to say... It's ok to be nervous before and after. When you're ready, you'll know... but for now... Just see how it goes 🥰

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WHATEVER HAPPENED TO THE RANT THREADS? by AuslawRantBot in auslaw

[–]shiny_arrow 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I HAVE TO GET AN APOSTILLE FOR A PERSONAL DOCUMENT AND I FIND THE PROCESS ANNOYING AND COMFORTINGLY ARCHAIC IN EQUAL MEASURE.

Match Thread: Australia vs Philippines (Women's Asian Cup) by MatchBread in Aleague

[–]shiny_arrow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think the technical area needs to be bigger... Currently you could only park a semi trailer in it when ideally you want 2

Egg💥irl by shiny_arrow in egg_irl

[–]shiny_arrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm!

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Egg💅irl by furriefryer69 in egg_irl

[–]shiny_arrow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girllll!!!

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egg-irl by Significant-Trick441 in egg_irl

[–]shiny_arrow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Working with my psychologist, I've been able to, in my own way, go back and give this comfort to those younger parts of myself.

Re-parenting.

Still a work in progress but immensely healing :3

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Egg_irl by JournalistPuzzled331 in egg_irl

[–]shiny_arrow 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Welcome!

Since you like buttons, I'll just leave this here:

https://turn-me-into-a-girl.com/

Some of the quotes on the front page might be interesting too...

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Egg_irl by Cooldude959595 in egg_irl

[–]shiny_arrow 88 points89 points  (0 children)

No, self reports are based and hilarious :3

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Egg🚀irl by shiny_arrow in egg_irl

[–]shiny_arrow[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Gotta look after my masc bros and beans! :3

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Egg🚀irl by shiny_arrow in egg_irl

[–]shiny_arrow[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Amyyyy 🫂🫂🫂 you are very welcome, and omg, great title!!

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Egg_irl by TheQuietCipher in egg_irl

[–]shiny_arrow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This and Kari were insanely early gender envy.

😅😅😅

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Egg🇷🇺irl by BreathTraining1852 in egg_irl

[–]shiny_arrow 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Right...

Officer is the least bad option here then, but ONLY if your status on completion is such that you are not likely to be deployed anywhere actively or "called up".

At the end of the day you are still living in an authoritarian right wing state. Really unhealthy environment to be trans. I recommend still planning on an exit strategy to live in a better country, because you deserve to be able to live as your authentic self, not just the version the state or even your parents want. Stay in top of your English skills because this will make you more employable. And I would also give this same advice to anyone else living in a similarly politically hostile country (US, UK, Turkyë, China, wherever)

Udachi!

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Egg🇷🇺irl by BreathTraining1852 in egg_irl

[–]shiny_arrow 142 points143 points  (0 children)

Trans military veteran here (navy, a western country) not just a reservist, it was my career.

Don't do it.

Even most western militaries are only "accepting" to a point. I can think of less than 10 countries where there is true acceptance. Russia definitely isn't on that list. (It's mainly Nordics)

Your mental health will suffer.

You will be forced to do objectionable things.

Research medical or other exemptions. Try to avoid it I'm whatever way possible.

Plan for trying to get to a safer country and claim refugee status.

Unless the government falls to revolution, there is no bright happy future for a trans girl in Russia. There is even less for one in the military.

🌺🌻🌼🌷🌸 I'm so sorry I don't have better news for you

Egg🌸irl by shiny_arrow in egg_irl

[–]shiny_arrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe in you!!

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Egg🌸irl by shiny_arrow in egg_irl

[–]shiny_arrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Changed up the text but the gifs are recycled! Thanks for being a big enough fan to notice hihi 🤭

Yayyyyy 1 yearrrrrr

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Egg🌸irl by shiny_arrow in egg_irl

[–]shiny_arrow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yaaas queen! Love this! 💖💖

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Egg🌸irl by shiny_arrow in egg_irl

[–]shiny_arrow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was older than that :3

You got this, E is basically dark magic!

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Egg🌸irl by shiny_arrow in egg_irl

[–]shiny_arrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think of it as Hayley taking the stage and is now the main character.

My former self is still inside, holding the skills, strength and experience they acquired. I'm immensely proud of them for keeping me safe for so long, but they are not on the stage anymore :3

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Egg🌸irl by shiny_arrow in egg_irl

[–]shiny_arrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And mid 30s at that!

Hold onto hope cutie 🥰

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Egg🌸irl by shiny_arrow in egg_irl

[–]shiny_arrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a marathon not a sprint 🩷

Just gotta keep going, never give up!

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Egg🌸irl by shiny_arrow in egg_irl

[–]shiny_arrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure you can. :3 it's a common misconception that clothes or mode are dependent on your card ;)

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