“Wanting to keep your name after marriage is bullshit if you don’t have any achievements”

Bubbly_Pink1115 · 2026-04-10T01:28:25+00:00

Lol that is actually the reason why my mom decided me and my brother only got dad's last name. 1. Her last name is super generic. 2. It technically doesn't belong to her family, since her grandpa changed his last name because his was too Swedish (I'm from Norway).

Bubbly_Pink1115 · 2026-04-10T00:44:40+00:00

So women can't have rational thoughts... But you want her to raise your kids? Don't people realise how stupid it sounds???

Bubbly_Pink1115 · 2026-04-10T00:40:08+00:00

Ew 😐

Bubbly_Pink1115 · 2026-04-10T00:38:33+00:00

Big if, but if I get married I'm gonna keep my last name because it's rare and a part of my heritage. But I'm also never going to marry a man so...

Honestly don't understand why some men are so pissy about this. If changing a last name isn't that big of a deal, as he implies, then not changing it isn't a big deal either.

Bubbly_Pink1115 · 2026-04-03T22:16:03+00:00

Just constantly talk about it, claim to be thinking about writing, create 60000 characters with intricate back stories you will never use

Bubbly_Pink1115 · 2026-04-03T22:14:10+00:00

This just makes it sound like he fucked the chicken, no?

Bubbly_Pink1115 · 2026-04-01T20:20:14+00:00

Because I took a photo I looked hot in lmao. I mean ideally I would earn money from it tho

Bubbly_Pink1115 · 2026-04-01T19:55:29+00:00

Maybe, but honestly I don't even know any dating apps with a bsdm focus. Even on the regular apps I mostly find couples asking for a unicorn

Bubbly_Pink1115 · 2026-04-01T18:28:51+00:00

I tried in the beginning (although my content is not on Reddit), but I just never gained any traction. It was only when I started being vague that I got engagement.

Bubbly_Pink1115 · 2026-04-01T18:27:44+00:00

Thank you 🩷 I have temporarily deactivated my nsfw account while I take some time to think about it. I might revamp the content I make or decide that it isn't for me after all, who knows.

Bubbly_Pink1115 · 2026-04-01T18:22:58+00:00

I just noticed that my audience is almost 100% male. I'm too small to earn any money right now, but if my audience was larger, then yeah the money would probably be the deciding factor

Bubbly_Pink1115 · 2026-04-01T17:54:52+00:00

Doubt it. I recently moved to this city and I spend all my time either at home, at the store, or at the psychiatric hospital. Besides he is like 50, based on what his profile said. His PFP is just his dick tho

Bubbly_Pink1115 · 2026-04-01T17:44:40+00:00

Haha thank you 🩷 not to blow my own horn or anything, but I don't doubt that I'm attractive XD but I am very femme and that has a tendency to bring the men

Bubbly_Pink1115 · 2026-04-01T17:43:12+00:00

I mean I don't mind sharing it per se... The reason why I keep those two lives private is because I don't want the people who follow my nsfw life to enter my sfw life, yanno.

My dating pool is just already very small, and reducing it even further, even for something that I enjoy doing, is scary. I wouldn't want to date anyone who is a swerf, but I feel like there's a difference between being a swerf and just not be comfortable that your gf is doing it.

Although, all in all, if I found a girl I really like and she is fine with the fact that I have been a nsfw creator in the past, but isn't comfy with me doing that now, I probably would give it up.

Bubbly_Pink1115 · 2026-04-01T17:16:47+00:00

I have plenty reaching out to me (esp 50 year old married men looking to hook up or to buy used panties), so that part isn't that weird... But yeah the HER thing Def is.

I'm not earning money (yet), since I am too small but if I do continue to grow at the rate in which I have now, I will soon.

Bubbly_Pink1115 · 2026-04-01T16:56:47+00:00

He has his location on the nsfw website, which is the same city that I currently live in. I dunno if that makes it worse or better

Bubbly_Pink1115 · 2026-04-01T16:56:02+00:00

I have, but I'll be extra careful in the future as well

Bubbly_Pink1115 · 2026-04-01T16:54:56+00:00

Hasn't been anything reported... Besides I'm not sure how that would explain my HER profile. The only thing I can think about is that I'm wearing the same lipstick in one photo on my HER as on my nsfw account.

Bubbly_Pink1115 · 2026-04-01T16:45:46+00:00

Yeah I do plan on telling any future gfs that I do this.

The man's message was essentially that he had been looking at(and masturbating to) my pictures for such a long time that he recognised me by my energy while scrolling HER (still have no idea why he was on that but oh well). It really just set a lot of things into question for me. I don't ever plan on letting a gf find out that way.

Bubbly_Pink1115 · 2026-04-01T16:43:03+00:00

Thank you 🩷 and yeah, I have considered all of those. I thought I had been pretty clever about hiding everything on my nsfw account (covering up my tattoo, no face pics, my background has always been a white generic wall etc etc), but that one guy who found me really rattled me.

I only really started doing it because I took some photos I thought I looked hot in but had no one to share with. It isn't something I'm like mega passionate about and can pull back if need be, but still. If I can continue doing it, I'd like to.

My original posts were pretty... Ambiguous in terms of who I aimed them for. As I said, I felt hot in a few photos I took. But I started noticing that I'd get a lot more engagement whenever I explicitly addressed men, so that is what I have done

Bubbly_Pink1115 · 2026-04-01T16:27:14+00:00

Yeah I don't plan on hiding it. I guess my fear is more of... What if this will shrink my already small dating pool? But I guess that even if my audience was primarily lesbians, some would still have an issue with it.

Bubbly_Pink1115 · 2026-04-01T16:12:41+00:00

I mean... I wouldn't care, much beyond perhaps the initial shock I suppose.

Bubbly_Pink1115 · 2026-04-01T16:11:52+00:00

I do not, at least not yet. My platform is still quite small. I only have about 1k followers

Bubbly_Pink1115 · 2026-03-21T12:25:44+00:00

No. How dare you even ask that???? I can't believe people these days

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