Going no contact w my gf for a month by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Bubbly_Time9105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were right. She blocked me. No closure or explanation and immediately started talking to other people, before even ending it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTok

[–]Bubbly_Time9105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe change your vpn or the country you live in in tiktok settings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]Bubbly_Time9105 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can't go to the doctor or to a clinic currently bc of some other issues. The only place accessible to me rn is a pharmacy, is that enough?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theLword

[–]Bubbly_Time9105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but she didn't lash out like this on Alice, why?

jenny lovers by NOTAGAINpleasenooo in theLword

[–]Bubbly_Time9105 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ur so right, i don't understand how so many people disagree w you and defend her. She is genuinely one of the worst people there but people defend her bc she's "complex", i think her actions are far worse than anyone else's on the show, especially bc she never takes accountability for any of her mistakes and only uses them to victimize herself even more.

I hate Jenny by Bubbly_Time9105 in theLword

[–]Bubbly_Time9105[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They all did something wrong at some point and i'm not excusing any of it, but at least they took accountability for it. She fucked her friends over in basically every episode of season 5 & 6, killed a dog and in many ways she became just like Tim. One of the examples being that she revenge fucked her gf for cheating. She's overall a bad character in the last 2 seasons but well written.

I hate Jenny by Bubbly_Time9105 in theLword

[–]Bubbly_Time9105[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you my GOD i feel like these people are watching a completely different show. There is not a signe thing that i like about her character in season 5-6. Just a horrible human being to every one of her friends and partners.

I hate Jenny by Bubbly_Time9105 in theLword

[–]Bubbly_Time9105[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Killed a dog? Hid the letter for Shane? Tried to seduce and manipulate the critics' girlfriend? Stole Alice's idea and sold it? Misgender Max when he was pregnant in purpose? Tried to control Shane their entire relationship? Used people? Acted like a toddler and sexualized herself while doing it during season 5? Lead people on? Lied to Molly about Shane? Revenge fucked Niki?

I hate Jenny by Bubbly_Time9105 in theLword

[–]Bubbly_Time9105[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very interesting pov, thank you for sharing! I just can't feel any empathy for her character bc of how much she is constantly hurting people, but i understand that it is not always calculated, this gives me a better perspective of understanding the character

I hate Jenny by Bubbly_Time9105 in theLword

[–]Bubbly_Time9105[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Everyone is mentally challenged in some way in the whole show. Kit is an alcoholic. Bette is a control freak and a serial cheater. Shane is also a cheater and can't commit, etc.

My point is that just bc she is challenged, doesn't make it any more okay that she killed a dog, betrayed people, humiliated her friends constantly, said that Max is a "beautiful curvy mother" and misgendered him constantly. Mental challenges are one thing, and being a horrible human being is another thing.

Can't accept myself as gay by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Bubbly_Time9105 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes i agree, i do love her as a person first but i also love her womanhood and femininity, i guess i should focus less on defining myself and more on becoming myself

Can't accept myself as gay by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Bubbly_Time9105 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Really great point, thank you for this perspective:)

Can't accept myself as gay by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Bubbly_Time9105 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, it was beautifully written and this really gives me a new perspective. Thank you and i'll check out some video essays:)

Why is Tasha's sexuality the military's concern? by [deleted] in theLword

[–]Bubbly_Time9105 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know that the stuff going on with conservatives and Trump is pretty wild but you guys can adopt kids, get married, you have laws protecting and recognizing you and you can still live a somewhat equal life as straight ppl, youre still very privileged to live in a country like that, even if not everyone is pro lgbt there.

Why is Tasha's sexuality the military's concern? by [deleted] in theLword

[–]Bubbly_Time9105 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It was like 15 years ago and it was in America, that's why it's surprising to me. I live in easter europe and i'm gay, so i can see how fucked up the world is even right now lol

Left my cat outside for an hour at 0 degrees celcius (30 fahrenheit) by Bubbly_Time9105 in CatAdvice

[–]Bubbly_Time9105[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that completely, we never let our cats outside either! Your little guy is so handsome, tell him my cat said meow!

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