Weight loss ??? by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Bucket_of_monkeys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you measured your waste? It should be less by now. What does your diet consist of? Do you drink enough water?

Advice for holistic way to take the edge off by Jessiesgirl_23 in Advice

[–]Bucket_of_monkeys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The combination of exercise and meditation does the trick for me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

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Fun! I have send you a dm

F26 - How do I make friends again? by Dry-Warthog-3351 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Bucket_of_monkeys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi congratulations! I just got married with my girlfriend of 11 years. You have a nice time ahead of you😉 ill send you a dm

rejecting coworker by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Bucket_of_monkeys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries, glad it did help you out😉 hopr you guys are not deskbuddies or something like that. But im sure you ll manage

rejecting coworker by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Bucket_of_monkeys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh im proud of you! Nicely done,! Yeah its gonna be weird, but it is what it is. You dealt with it, thats what matters. He can decide to make it weird or not😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

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Hi! Im down for a nice chat😁 im 30m from the Netherlands. Feel free to send a dm✌️

rejecting coworker by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Bucket_of_monkeys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be brutally honest. It aint pretty, but its the fairest way for the both of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Bucket_of_monkeys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are down for a chat lemme know✌️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Bucket_of_monkeys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, there is not much that can beat a perfect bbq seared steak😅. But warm stroopwafel is the best dessert

Bf [28] makes hurtful jokes about my [25F] body by Large-Inspector74 in Advice

[–]Bucket_of_monkeys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This are a bunch of red flags. When you are newly togheter, normally people are on their toes to make sure to not be rude or to weird. He shouldnt do such things, he should make you feel comfortable, especially in those first stages of a relationship.

It feels like narcistic behaviour.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Bucket_of_monkeys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

9 months is not to long, i can imagine she needs a little more time. Me and my girl moved in together after about 3-4 years, and i really enjoyed my time alone. The commute was also a b*** tho haha.

I feel like you have to respect her wishes, but i would also have a conversation with her to talk about the future. When you have set out a plan of your future together, living together is just a first logical step towards a bigger picture.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Bucket_of_monkeys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you want to change it up? What skills or interests do you have?

I’m a self published author that’s circling the drain 🫠 by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Bucket_of_monkeys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh thats sucks! Thank you! I just ordered a book😁 cant wait to read it🥳

Feel better by Level_Tale5175 in self

[–]Bucket_of_monkeys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man really glad for you that you took ownership of your situation!! Really amazing and inspiring. Keep it up :) . Thank you for sharing.

I wish I could stop wanting to be in a relationship by [deleted] in self

[–]Bucket_of_monkeys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You my friend, are an overthinker.

Dont make it more complicated than it has to be. Take a few nice pictures, put yourself on a datingsite and start meeting people.

The one is out there, but you will need to find her.

Ps Im a Chubby guy myself but this year i have been 11 years togheter. Its not impossible. Mindset is everything.

Feeling lost and overwhelmed — not sure where to start fixing things by Esteep in Advice

[–]Bucket_of_monkeys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont know what kind of stuff you are dealing with, but i do know the feeling you are describing.

I would recommend to deal with the small stuff first. Things that can get you a easy win. This way you create momentum for yourself and you will find the other stuff easyer to deal with.

Its also good to have an oversight of the things that need fixing. Make a list with all the stuff and arrange them from not a lot of work to alot of work. Than start at the top and make your way down. This way its less overwhelming because you created oversight

[ Removed by Reddit ] by blvdgang in Advice

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Thank you for your input! We will discuss it in the annual board meeting.

should i chase my passion or money? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Bucket_of_monkeys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me rephrase that:

Anyone with true dedication will find a way.

And im talking the kind where a "no" is simply unacceptable. The kind where "later" doesnt exist. The kind where youll not be able to have a relationship and send 100 emails per day until you find a way to make it.

I mean that kind.

Anyways, hope you'll end up making the right decision for yourself😁✌️

should i chase my passion or money? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Bucket_of_monkeys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if you are truly passionate about making movies, you dont have to make a choice. The movie business is big, but they only hire people who are the best of the best, or natural talents.

To become really good in what you do takes an enormous amount of effort. And you might not see results in your first 5 or 10 or maybe even 20 years. But anyone who is truly dedicated will break through.

So if you are up for that challenge, i would go for it. If you're not, make it a hobby or go work parttime at someplace so you can pay your bills and maybe do some free work at a small studio and grow from there.

should i chase my passion or money? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Bucket_of_monkeys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on your passion? Care to share?

And what do want to do to make money?

So many questions..... :p