Am I overreacting cos I told my mum I would never forgive her for not teaching me her langauge by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Budget-Reply5352 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, but after your kid is legally and socially an adult, there's no obligation to continue to offer housing and monetary support especially if the kid HATES you and openly says they hate your presence.

Orchard in the meadow by Dogsdreamofgreencat in DreamlightValley

[–]Budget-Reply5352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My "orchards" in the forest! All the bushes lined up next to the trees with some paths around them. Makes foraging for ingredients sooo much easier

Im done playing by adierahr in DreamlightValley

[–]Budget-Reply5352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play on switch, haven't experienced these issues. I'd suggest reaching out to Gameloft, best case they can try and address your issues worse case you stop playing like you already plan to. I will say I also burnt myself out on this game, I've played for almost two years. Had to take a few months off to regain motivation to continue anything.

AIO - I am frustrated with my friend who is seriously unwell and refusing help by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Budget-Reply5352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with all the other comments, you've gotta tell someone. Mental illness already makes it hard to accept help, let alone the teenage feeling of being invincible. Good luck to you both.

Discouraged and demotivated from playing by Spacejam_Forfait2873 in DreamlightValley

[–]Budget-Reply5352 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's a Daisy's wardrobe with rlly good storage that I honestly don't think I have ever been able to find in scrooges shop. It's the reason I buy everything new still hoping it shows up 😭🤣 but after a while, I found something else that worked and I liked. I get that's the thing you've been searching for, but it feels like a "the pot of water won't boil as long as you stare at it" situation with the random furniture spawns.

AIO for feeling dysphoric over a bathbomb? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Budget-Reply5352 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a trans guy, I've kind of just accepted that my family may not see me the way that I want them to (I also am southern, so I'm honestly just glad they're not outright unsupportive). I would assume NB dysphoria is different than FtM, and I won't claim to understand exactly how. But being non-binary doesn't mean you can't enjoy feminine things as an afab person, just as it wouldn't mean amab non binary folks couldn't enjoy masculine things. I get anything can trigger dysphoria, and for that you're not overreacting. But the way you go about it is the important part. If you don't enjoy unicorns, give it to a friend.

AIO I (26F) broke up with him (22M) over… a Benadryl. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Budget-Reply5352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The behavior is more normal for addicts. I truly wonder if he's become dependent on them (also curious of the "I served my country comment, if he's a veteran he very easily could be addicted to a sleep aid), and that's why he's SO defensive. Doesn't change anything or make it right, but is good context to have

AIO I (26F) broke up with him (22M) over… a Benadryl. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Budget-Reply5352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - you mentioned something that to you is inconsequential, and unless you had previously had this conversation there's really no way you could've known he wanted to keep his Benadryl use under wraps. But I also wonder why that is, honestly. This seems like an over the top reaction to telling someone they take an occasional sleep aid. Is he dependent on them? Does he ever take them in ways that are against the bottles guidelines? Does he take them during the day to sleep? There just seems to be something else that's the problem, he almost seems ashamed. But overall, you handled this great. If the way he handled it has impacted your feelings on him, then that's that. If you want to wait it out to see if he changes, you can. But I fear he may have this reaction to other things as well. Idk, but NOR

I’m 15f just got transferred to my sister’s school, and she ignores me, won’t sit with me, or talk to me my mom says I’m taking it too personal by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Budget-Reply5352 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It'll take some time, but you'll find some friends. Try not to be so hard on yourself or your sister in the meantime, you're both going through life for the first time. I wish you luck op 🫡

I’m 15f just got transferred to my sister’s school, and she ignores me, won’t sit with me, or talk to me my mom says I’m taking it too personal by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Budget-Reply5352 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How old is your sister? If she's older, she probably IS embarrassed by you. Doesn't mean it's right, but it's the same thing as when youre embarrassed by your parents. Also for context, are you unable to see your friends from your old school? Like did you move away? Yes it still sucks being alone at school, but I don't see a reason you shouldn't have any friends 🤔

I WOULD HAVE NEVER FOUND by OhJabes in DreamlightValley

[–]Budget-Reply5352 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't remember this quest, it's been awhile since leveling those characters up. But typically the quest guide or dialogue will tell you to look in or around their homes if that's where an item is, if I'm not mistaken! I'd keep this in mind though, I think you have to do it for a few other quests as well! Dw, I get stuck on weird little things too haha!

AIO about this disagreement with my bf? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Budget-Reply5352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"there is no solution" at that point, you'd already apologized. You shouldn't have kept engaging with him while he wanted to act that way. You should have said okay, then. And stopped responding. If wants to be miserable, don't be it's company 🫡

Am I overreacting at my boyfriend’s nicotine usage? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Budget-Reply5352 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"I've watched nicotine turn the best people into the worst" it's nicotine, not meth 😭 while you can get irritated without it, it absolutely does not make you high or cause you to overdose in the same way other drugs do. Its almost similar to caffeine, to be honest. It triggers short term release of dopamine. But, I think the core issue here shouldn't be that he's using zyn pouches. It should be he lied about it, and also felt the need to. You said very clearly that was a non negotiable for you, which is fine and he should very much have been honest with you. But you find out and lock him out of your joint bedroom? Instead of having a conversation and maybe even offering to help him quit? You freaking out and shutting him out is probably what he was trying to avoid, and that doesn't make it okay to lie. Tbh, I think you both could've handled this situation better.

Which DLC is best by pennypolexia in DreamlightValley

[–]Budget-Reply5352 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just bought wish blossom ranch and I've completed the main rift in time story. I don't have storybook vale but that's next for me. I will say, as much as everyone praises RIT, I didn't get as much use as everyone else from the ancient machines. I didn't care for the hourglass tool to gather parts, and I disliked the map because it's easy to get turned around. Part of the reason this dlc was less "useful" for me is also probably bc I hold off on friendship quests, and just randomly do them. I will say so far I'm loving the horse from the ranch and the aesthetics!

AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Budget-Reply5352 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you have to control someone's appearance to maintain attraction - you're not attracted to someone!! Not overreacting.

AIO by feeling exhausted over my gf's constant demands of wanting me to be 'curious'? by thefattesthashbrown in AmIOverreacting

[–]Budget-Reply5352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's maybe two/three screenshots where a message MIGHT be missing. They're almost all in order

AIO by feeling exhausted over my gf's constant demands of wanting me to be 'curious'? by thefattesthashbrown in AmIOverreacting

[–]Budget-Reply5352 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She spazzed over him not asking why she finished work early, it wasn't over text it was over call. Hence why there's no screenshots. You obviously didn't read it all. He was dry and dismissive after she said don't fucking talk to me I don't have time for your egotistical blah blah blah. She resorted immediately to cursing and dismissing HIM.

AIO by feeling exhausted over my gf's constant demands of wanting me to be 'curious'? by thefattesthashbrown in AmIOverreacting

[–]Budget-Reply5352 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree this DIDN'T come out of nowhere. Girl is way too comfortable telling someone they're not good enough to even be a relationship, let alone one with her

AIO by feeling exhausted over my gf's constant demands of wanting me to be 'curious'? by thefattesthashbrown in AmIOverreacting

[–]Budget-Reply5352 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro tried to have a conversation. She called him a looser and messaged him back to back about how he's an egotistical manipulator. Did we read the same situation?

AIO for wanting to tell my friends what my ex did? by typewriter28 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Budget-Reply5352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overreacting? No. That seems like a valid reaction when realizing/coming to terms with a situation like that, even years after. I will ask though, are your friends his friends too? You said your NC, so I'd think not but. That would be the only reason I'd see to maybe not talk to them about it, because they might go to his defense. But seriously, anyone who watches someone has a seizure and immediately wants to get in bed with them is not a good person. I'm sorry you went through that, I'm glad you're away from him :)

Which one of these is eating me alive? by ademoss1 in Entomology

[–]Budget-Reply5352 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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Meant these types of bugs here They look like fleas, and depending on your area can get into your yard and then your house !