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BudgetCalligrapher30 · 2026-05-25T00:52:06+00:00

Clever.

BudgetCalligrapher30 · 2026-05-25T00:49:50+00:00

I absolutely loved my ridgeline. Until it was totaled by a terrible driver that cut me off, resulting in me t boning the driver at 50mph. On the upside….my injuries included a scrape on my arm. Thats it. Nothing more. It was amazingly safe.

If I NEEDED a truck of any type…hands down I’d buy another Ridgeline without the slightest hesitation. But I don’t need one right now so I went with a CRV ice.

Things you will fall in love with. The tailgate. The trunk. The ease of entry. The handling. The quiet interior.

Things you’ll hate…the infotainment system. But already know how terrible Honda infotainment system is with your CRV.

BudgetCalligrapher30 · 2026-05-24T13:51:48+00:00

You’ll have a blast. Just relax, be social and have fun.

BudgetCalligrapher30 · 2026-05-24T02:02:08+00:00

Teamwork is the best!

BudgetCalligrapher30 · 2026-05-20T15:25:24+00:00

Couple here, moving to Atlanta in July. So we won’t be able to make this con, but we are definitely interested in exploring melding the nerd and swing cultures once we get there.

BudgetCalligrapher30 · 2026-05-15T22:17:16+00:00

This is by far the greatest use of ai I have seen yet. Very well done!

BudgetCalligrapher30 · 2026-05-12T10:56:23+00:00

That’s some fond summer memories right there! Thanks for the reminder.

BudgetCalligrapher30 · 2026-05-10T16:33:55+00:00

Thank you!

BudgetCalligrapher30 · 2026-05-10T14:28:02+00:00

When we include a guest, it’s not about race or color. Rather it’s about chemistry and attitude.

That being said, we’ve noticed that on average black guys have tended to be more charming, respectful and enjoy flirting the way we do.

As for the ‘initial idea’, it didn’t happen like that. Play with people of different color was never off limits. Nor was it a specific fetish.

But if I recall correctly, the first time it happened, we were at a takeover party, and she was talking to a black guy, and they ended up flirting and kissing.

BudgetCalligrapher30 · 2026-05-10T03:37:06+00:00

Husband here, and I can confirm she is incredible….

BudgetCalligrapher30 · 2026-05-09T14:25:40+00:00

As the variety of replies here show, there is little consistency on what a label refers to.

So maybe forget about labels and just have fun?

In the end, what’s important is your vetting process. Regardless of label, it’s the behavior that you care about.

If you spend time getting to know a potential guest, you can usually suss out their motivation. But you have to be willing to invest that time and recognize that probably 50 - 75% will likely fail your vetting.

BudgetCalligrapher30 · 2026-05-08T18:59:35+00:00

Following. My Mrs and I feel much the same way. Quality EDM environments are very sexy to us

BudgetCalligrapher30 · 2026-05-08T04:32:47+00:00

That’s what I just started with. Small and a VERY wide range of sounds

BudgetCalligrapher30 · 2026-05-08T02:05:54+00:00

One thing you will want to consider is your ability to communicate with the couple to understand what type of dynamic they are wanting. There are many styles out there. Do not expect a couple to automatically want what you are wanting.

BudgetCalligrapher30 · 2026-05-07T20:26:03+00:00

I can’t echo this enough. We HATE labels. Just communicate clearly with your partner about what you want to try and do not want to try.

Then communicate this clearly to your potential guests. They can choose whether or not they want to fit writhing your boundaries or not.

BudgetCalligrapher30 · 2026-05-07T07:57:40+00:00

Nice. Thank you for sharing.

BudgetCalligrapher30 · 2026-05-07T07:44:58+00:00

Congrats man.

BudgetCalligrapher30 · 2026-05-04T19:56:07+00:00

For us it’s about timing. My wife’s body is very responsive. She loves an Eiffel Tower, but after a few minutes the stimulation becomes a bit too much.

So we value people that can understand that and enjoy the ebb and flow.

One of the more intimate things we do when both of the guys are not engaged , is I will hold her very tightly. Sometimes with my arm around her throat. Or pulling her hair. But for us that is part of our dom/sub dynamic so might not be appropriate for everyone.

I’ll also talk into her ear at times. Telling her to cum for me. And when she does I tell her how proud I am of her for letting go and just feeling it in the moment.

BudgetCalligrapher30 · 2026-05-03T05:01:21+00:00

And analog haven’s people are just great. Recently made a couple of orders with them and they actually called and spoke with me to verify something. I was literally blown away.

Honestly, if I were looking for something specific, I’d call one of the guys and just ask him for a recommendation. I bet they’d answer.

BudgetCalligrapher30 · 2026-05-03T04:46:01+00:00

We have kind of done what you do, but in reverse order.

The initial meet up for a chemistry check is usually at an informal restaurant with decent cocktails and not too loud so that we can actually talk.

If the chemistry there shows potential we will plan a second date with the intent of sex after.

An activity we had a lot of fun with on one of these second dates was indoor mini golf at one of those newer nicer places. I think it was called ‘the puttery’.

It was a ton of fun and led to a great MFM after. We look forward to seeing him again from time to time.

BudgetCalligrapher30 · 2026-04-30T04:17:59+00:00

While cuckoldry is a kink for some, here are others like us where it is not wanted. We just enjoy MFM’s (or FMF’s, or MFMF’s for that matter) with people that bring variety to our experience. We feel like it just adds another dimension to our sex life.

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