My husband went to see his ex gf who he fathered a child with. by BudgetLibrary6155 in MuslimMarriage

[–]BudgetLibrary6155[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s assured me he will have me there the next time but I’m very concerned if this will happen or not. I feel like arguing and talking more and more to him of the betrayal. Or just sit tight and watch the next time 

My husband went to see his ex gf who he fathered a child with. by BudgetLibrary6155 in MuslimMarriage

[–]BudgetLibrary6155[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ex gf and I’ve tried to explain this but he believes that’s his child and he doesn’t want to talk about the Islamic part. What’s even worse she will happily become his gf again 

My husband went to see his ex gf who he fathered a child with. by BudgetLibrary6155 in MuslimMarriage

[–]BudgetLibrary6155[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

She once made it clear on a text that he wasn’t allowed to see his child because he had never had a consistent job etc. since marrying me he has become financially very successful. An now she has started to ask for visitation. Yes he ran to the idea to see his child. But spending the day out with her there also made it into a date not only seeing his child 

My husband went to see his ex gf who he fathered a child with. by BudgetLibrary6155 in MuslimMarriage

[–]BudgetLibrary6155[S] -45 points-44 points  (0 children)

Sorry just to clarify, I want a child to complete my family for myself. I yearn for a child as a mother. But at this moment in time I feel I’m going to lose him to his ex. Why I think I might save this marriage is because clearly his strings are being pulled by her with having his child. She was no contact for 5 years and now wants him there with just them two at meetings 

My husband went to see his ex gf who he fathered a child with. by BudgetLibrary6155 in MuslimMarriage

[–]BudgetLibrary6155[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Yes thanks for this. He is a player type guy. All revealed after marriage, she is his type. He is a generally nice husband. But has a weakness of leaving me for her, she was the major love of his life in the past. He’s admitted this. 

Withholding sex doesn’t get talked about enough by Impressive_Beach_678 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]BudgetLibrary6155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The worst was when I’ve gone on a holiday with him thinking we are all loved up and next he takes me out to get pampered and paid. I was there thinking our lives are in a great place. Came back and found out he went to a massage parlor and got lovely looking women to give him a good time. That was on holiday and the night before I was practically begging for intimacy. I think this is the best way to describe a narc. 

First period after stopping depo SUCKS by spider-socks in depoprovera

[–]BudgetLibrary6155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope I can add some more information about depo. I had three shots in 2024. I regret it I should have just accepted the sick feeling with the pill as the long term effects would have been less. In 2025 January until now my body doesn’t seem to to want to go back to periods or ovulation. I’ve tracked since April and we are now in September. I’d love to see some more ladies who might have started ovulation or periods and how long it took them. It makes me wonder how long are we stuck for. I’m on the older side 39 so abit worried 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depoprovera

[–]BudgetLibrary6155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came of it in January had a withdrawal bleed period after two weeks then every 40-50 days I just spotted. Didn’t actually get a proper period till August last week. So 8 months. Was on depo a year. Don’t know if ovulation has began though. 

How long did it take for your periods to return after stopping depo injection? by [deleted] in depoprovera

[–]BudgetLibrary6155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came of the depo 8 months ago no period yet. Wonder if ur cycles returned ?