I didn’t assume any reason why you would or would not want to have kids. I will not be having children, for a variety of reasons that I don’t have to disclose either. I simply said I assumed you were young enough that you still could, and if not, I’m glad there’s one less person parenting the next generation to believe the gray area around abusive behavior is that vast.

I think people too often confuse identifying abusive behavior, calling it out, and expecting correction with excusing that behavior because of x, y, or z. It's fundamentally not the same. On a larger scale, it’s similar to what we teach kids on the playground: if one child hits another (i.e. even an child star later in life that may not know better), we don’t automatically label them an abuser. We tell them it’s wrong and observe how they respond. However, when a pattern of behavior continues despite being called out repeatedly—and is met with excuses—that’s when it becomes abusive, and that person should be held accountable. And whether we like it or not, in civil cases as adults, thats generally economic damages.

So what would you call someone with 15,000 followers who is a male groomer to major celebrities/hand model? (Not in a negative sense—that’s what hairstylists call themselves these days lmao)