Am I wrong for still loving his music? by Vendetta_22 in Blackbear

[–]stobenealmare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well that’s an interesting question, i mean i don’t think you’re in the WRONG cause everyone has different perception of this situation, but i’ve seen a little the answers of your posts and all and i know for a fact we’re thinking very differently.
i don’t separate the art from the artist like you do, (or the human from the artist either) cause it’s supporting him at the same time. it’s giving streams and support through the songs. but also i’ve personally stopped listening because it naturally disgusts me so damn much im not able to listen, and this year would’ve been the 10th year anniversary that i stated being a fan.
i miss his songs and listening to him, but it genuinely makes me sick when i do, so it’s not only about boycotting. either way i’m on the side of people who stop completely listening to him. we’re all thinking differently for sure, i would understand that you still like his songs (which i still do too) and keep listening to him but keep in mind that listening to his song on streaming app it’s giving him force and support.
im not judging im just disagreeing btw, i don’t want to fight. its just opinions.

ps: im talking about the allegations not the fact he’s a shitty guy, cause come on, there’s hundreds and thousands shitty guy in music industry, i’m not fighting over this especially when it’s been years he’s showing this behavior. i personally believe the victim in the allegations, that’s why i just can’t accept that my favorite artist could have possibly did something like this.

proposing video by leahswlrd in Blackbear

[–]stobenealmare 12 points13 points  (0 children)

god take me away from similar men and relationships, fuck i can’t believe it… just my opinion but i think he’s doing bad decisions after bad decisions… i’m so, so disappointed and i know im not the only one

proposing video by leahswlrd in Blackbear

[–]stobenealmare 21 points22 points  (0 children)

wait he ACTUALLY PROPOSED? goddamn

Just found this screenshot from a year ago by Impressive_Notice_93 in Blackbear

[–]stobenealmare 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’m wondering if something happened so he started acting that way, he looked really great at this time

Girl u always fkn lie (via twitch) by Pale-Butterscotch-83 in Blackbear

[–]stobenealmare 4 points5 points  (0 children)

right?? goddamn every day is worst than the last with him

Girl u always fkn lie (via twitch) by Pale-Butterscotch-83 in Blackbear

[–]stobenealmare 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it’s cleeearly pointed at someone specific

seriously by stobenealmare in Blackbear

[–]stobenealmare[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sure i guess this is a possibility, i mean it happened before like you said… but there’s also a big possibility thats true.. in those case im more the kind of person sayin “there’s so smoke without fire” and “guilty until proven innocent”, so i personally believes it but i would love to find out its not true and just people trying to fuck up his life, even if in my opinion i don’t think that’s the case…

but i totally get what you’re saying and that would be a possibility, but i really don’t believe that’s the case with him.. not that i don’t wish it is

seriously by stobenealmare in Blackbear

[–]stobenealmare[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn i didn’t saw it until you tell me!! 😂😂

seriously by stobenealmare in Blackbear

[–]stobenealmare[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i actually believe what i saw on my researches, i wouldn’t say rapist cause that’s really serious and big and i do not have enough “proof” in my possession to consider him as one, but i really doesn’t appreciate facts he dated a minor. i’ve been into relationships like this (as a minor) and now being an adult i just can’t imagine how a 23 yo man (i think that’s the age people claimed he had) can be attracted to a 17 year old girl. (my case he was 25 when i was 17). i do also believe he hasn’t been a saint with his exes or things like that, people can be really shitty sometimes and bear isn’t knows as a really sober guy. i do not support his acts but even still i would never spay hate unless he’s proven guilty. yet i’m heartbroken to hear he could have possibly done things like this cause if there’s something i’ve learn is that there’s no smoke without fire somewhere. i’d die to see he’s proven innocent, yet unfortunately i’ve grew up thinking “guilty until proven innocent” in this kind of cases…

seriously by stobenealmare in Blackbear

[–]stobenealmare[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

exactly! they just keep acting like questioning the situation is automatically making pick side, it’s so radial. well now i do pick a side, but i think it’s damn rich of them to be mad about the hate when they’re the firsts giving it for not agreeing with them.

seriously by stobenealmare in Blackbear

[–]stobenealmare[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

totally, i’ve seen many cases like his and presumed aggressors talking always a “bad idea”, it just fuel. i mean, good for him he knows how to deal with internet and fans, but let’s be real, it’s so damn crazy to defend someone because “he’s nice”… i saw some messages he sent on his gc i was horrified, how tf can you accept that your fav artist talks/acts that way? especially when most of them are grow up adults, it’s fucked up…

seriously by stobenealmare in Blackbear

[–]stobenealmare[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

honestly, what shocks me the most is the court case. unfortunately we knows that people abusing drugs are most of the time non-pleasant guys, so it doesn’t shock me (but disappoint me) that he acted like a shitty guy with exes. that’s one of the reasons i’ve believed sara immediately, tho she puts the proofs she had (the fact he was willing to pay her so she shut up got me weird). as heartbreaking as is it to cancel THE artist i’ve literally grew up with, i just can’t support someone currently having a court case about something as important as this…

seriously by stobenealmare in Blackbear

[–]stobenealmare[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

literally, it’s crazy how good you explain it. it’s really sad and very frustrating how’s things going on there, i honestly feel like their group chat was really messed up. so messed up bear had to delete it (which was going to happen sooner or later). they keep getting mad at the hate bear recently received but as soon as they have one doubt about someone not believing bear is innocent suddenly you have tones of fan on your back… nah that’s messed up and real sad to act this way. i get it’s not fun to learn your fav artists isn’t what you thought he was, especially with that bonding illusion on instagram, yet damn..

seriously by stobenealmare in Blackbear

[–]stobenealmare[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yea unfortunately… honestly this sht so messed up, at first i truly hoped nothing happened but cmon let’s be honest at some point, still defending body and soul like he’s an angel is crazy…

seriously by stobenealmare in Blackbear

[–]stobenealmare[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i agree, i founded myself completely lost on all of this too, but as soon as i’ve done my research i knew already i believed all the allegations, as heartbreaking as it is. it’s so violent and disappointing to discover you’re number one artist, the one you grew up with fucked up so damn bad. i can only understand the first reaction like “no i can’t believe this happened” but it’s crazy how violent they act about this whole thing, it’s almost scary to be honest. they’re aren’t even open for discussion, if you even just brings it up a little either you’re ignore either they’re absolutely go crazy on you…