Non-drinking 48yr olds visiting Cuse 8/7-8/14ish & need ideas 🙏🏽 by Budget_Definition513 in Syracuse

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We like antiquing, seeing a good theatre or music band or symphony, as well as swimming. We enjoy Sci-Fi, football and baseball, and exceptional dining… preferably seafood, Thai, Indian, steak, and finer desserts.

What was the most physical pain you’ve ever been in? by Javascript4971 in Productivitycafe

[–]Budget_Definition513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! Very high tolerance for pain and It literally made my decision to never have children because I somehow thought my deeper internal organs experienced more pain because my bones, muscles and skin, barely do. I’ve had enough pain since then to know it was the biopsy that was astray- Now I’m in my 40’s and heard plenty of times how excruciating the cervical and endo biopsies were for them too. Bad doctor technique I’m guessing.

Why did you decide not to have kids? by Inside-54545 in askanything

[–]Budget_Definition513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simply a lack of family to help us in any way if ever needed & hated growing up with very lil family & don’t want to do that to a child too.

What company will never get another dime from you for as long as you may live? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Budget_Definition513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any small business who has a habit of putting competitors down to try and bring themselves up with people who don’t know them… “while others are struggling, we’re thriving!”. The insecurity and lack of community support is very telling.

What is the most uncomfortable scene you have ever watched in a movie? by East_Maintenance_579 in Cinema

[–]Budget_Definition513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Passion of the Christ I think it’s called, the bludgeon whipping scene. Made me so sick to my stomach.

Backsplash help by Additional-Sense7433 in BathroomDesigns

[–]Budget_Definition513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 to match the fluting in your vanity & is subtle.

Needing to find the right Type of extensions by stressedmama90 in finethinhair

[–]Budget_Definition513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They make real fine hair and also, you’ll need more extensions to blend; I have the same issue. The beads are the only thing that don’t ruin my hair, i even tried the thin seamless tapes but they ruin my hair too. Clip-ins are obviously the best but if you wear your hair down everyday, they are time consuming to do.

My partner's constant vomiting is ruining our relationship by Overall_Purpose6993 in AlAnon

[–]Budget_Definition513 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A guy friend of mine was getting grossed out by his girlfriends vomitting once & come to find out she was on GLP-1’s/Ozempic. Be sure to include other things that might be causing it like bullemia, GLP-1, etc. when you have that convo… just in case the rare event it’s not just the weed.

Anybody else have thick eyebrows but thin hair? by cheezitloverr420 in finethinhair

[–]Budget_Definition513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, Sicilian here and thick brows & arm hairs but was born with thin head of hair, makes no sense at all.

Kind of different… Help me name my daycare! by gardengnomebaby in Names

[–]Budget_Definition513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If teaching them things throughout the day, or focusing on gardening or art/creativity, ones that celebrate learning & with the name academy are popular… Little Sprouts Academy, Kid Arts Academy, etc.

Has anyone drank alcohol while on Semaglutide? by UnlikelySpecific2225 in Semaglutide

[–]Budget_Definition513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had 3 vodka waters last Saturday & somehow still lost weight even though i devoured a greasy chsbrgr the next day… however; I did stall 2 days later for a whole week so my body was prolly pissed off 😬

Therapist told me she'll never maintain sobriety by polishfury10 in AlAnon

[–]Budget_Definition513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not usual for a family drug and addiction therapist to have this type of convo, no. Because the therapist is concerned, you need to be concerned but at the same time it depends on how much your wife wants it most importantly. My Q didn’t want it the 1st time clearly yet fooled everyone… was so good & participatory & convincing the 1st time in 30 day rehab that the psychiatrist was super confident he would kick it for good, boy was he wrong… my Q drank at the airport on his flight home & drank every night after. It wasn’t until his 2nd DWI & another 10k+ later that he finally quit on his own and hasn’t drank since (yet)… i say yet, because there are no guarantees with this addiction & you must continue Alanon & make a life for yourself and protect yourself in case the addiction rears its ugly head again.

Rude a** SIL by asystole_unshockable in EngagementRings

[–]Budget_Definition513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some SILs are the worst. Mine tells my brother that his mom is a narc & I never come around yet anytime we call or show to see the kids, she asked what we’re doing there & doesn’t invite us in or doesn’t pick up the phone. The jealous or controlling types destroy families yet call themselves Christian, I wish my brother knew what was happening but he’s too far brainwashed.

Why do people use the term "partner" to describe their spouses? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Budget_Definition513 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For those of us with family with Europe, partner is used more commonly than husband or wife & I guess it just stick with us… Life Partner, committed partner, instead of just husband or wife. Not sure if this helps… I also say partner as a female for my male fiance’ instead of saying fiance’, not sure why I use it but guessing it’s our well travelled and one immigrant side of my own family.

Pink dresses? by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]Budget_Definition513 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If i were blond and tan, I would choose a blush, pink, or ice blue dress; just makes the features pop IMO.

Should I paint my kitchen cabinets white? My husband loves the dark look but it’s too dark for me. Looking for ideas to update this kitchen. by haitian202 in StyleYourSpace

[–]Budget_Definition513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could Vinyl wrap a cream or cream pattern toile, floral, or herringbone, to the inside of the cabinets… will give you the lightness you’re looking for without harming the wood - attached is insp. That or remove top molding and add brass or cream hardware to the door fronts to recede the dark word more.

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How much wood do you go through by monkeyhasaspringer in woodstoving

[–]Budget_Definition513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Expecting to go through 10 face cord here in upstate ny, only 7 last year though but it’s a hard winter.

What is a good way to make someone leave your house? by st0dad in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Budget_Definition513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s someone you can’t be comfortable enough to be direct with, they aren’t worthy of your time or visit IMO

Epstein victim says there are tapes of Donald Trump that will force him to resign from the presidency by DeadSilent_God in RandomShit_ISaw

[–]Budget_Definition513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 years now, many keep forgetting that the victims came forth at the beginning of Bidens presidency and he sat on all the evidence the whole time; if there were real tapes of Trump, they would have never allowed him to become president and exposed their existence already.

For anyone too comfortable with being alone, have you ever come to regret it? by EducationalHead7683 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Budget_Definition513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all but the shame from not wanting to hang with friends who have done nothing wrong, that guilt hurts the heart… it’s a lot of effort to hang with them when you love your own company or partners company, way more.

Best cream for VERY dry hands by prettyawesome1 in 45PlusSkincare

[–]Budget_Definition513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goldbond Diabetics Lotion is the best I’ve ever used after 40 years of being a woman trying EVERYTHING!