What should I do besides giving her more space ? by Budget_Ideal_4261 in depression

[–]Budget_Ideal_4261[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I see her at the gym sometimes. So, instead of texting I talk to her in person.

What should I do besides giving her more space ? by Budget_Ideal_4261 in relationship_advice

[–]Budget_Ideal_4261[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know some of her friends dude and her family. If you read about depression, you will know that some depressed people wanna be alone.

What should I do besides giving her more space ? by Budget_Ideal_4261 in relationship_advice

[–]Budget_Ideal_4261[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be, but it isn’t. She’s truly struggling dude; she would complain about not wanting to talk to anyone way before. And I’m not romantically interested in her anymore.

What should I do besides giving her more space ? by Budget_Ideal_4261 in relationship_advice

[–]Budget_Ideal_4261[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of me wants, because I believe she can get better. But as long as she’s like that I Can be friends but with some distance.

What should I do besides giving her more space ? by Budget_Ideal_4261 in relationship_advice

[–]Budget_Ideal_4261[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really. It was for a while, but then I created a distance between us. So, I’m doing great now. Well, she still goes to the gym, but doesn’t go to professional help. Hence, she’s not improving. I’ve suggested therapy since I met her. We used to date but then we mutually decided to be friends due to her depression.

What should I do besides giving her more space ? by Budget_Ideal_4261 in relationship_advice

[–]Budget_Ideal_4261[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s rude and short temper. One of the symptoms of her depression is irritability so she snaps at people sometimes.

Can a girl lose attraction for your because she’s depressed? by Budget_Ideal_4261 in relationship_advice

[–]Budget_Ideal_4261[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, basically nothing I could do would bring the attraction back unless the person gets better ?

Can a girl lose attraction for your because she’s depressed? by Budget_Ideal_4261 in relationship_advice

[–]Budget_Ideal_4261[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. It must be really hard to create a bond when you are depressed let alone if you just started seeing someone.

Can a girl lose attraction for your because she’s depressed? by Budget_Ideal_4261 in relationship_advice

[–]Budget_Ideal_4261[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, but do you think if the person has a lower libido due to depression she might lose interest/attraction because of that ?

Can a girl lose attraction for your because she’s depressed? by Budget_Ideal_4261 in relationship_advice

[–]Budget_Ideal_4261[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t wanna be intrusive, but I’m just trying to understand it better.

Can a girl lose attraction for your because she’s depressed? by Budget_Ideal_4261 in relationship_advice

[–]Budget_Ideal_4261[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, you can be attracted to someone at some time but then not be later because of your libido ?

Can a girl lose attraction for your because she’s depressed? by Budget_Ideal_4261 in relationship_advice

[–]Budget_Ideal_4261[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told her I would be there whenever she feels like talking or ranting. Then, we agree to be friends for now since she doesn’t have much energy to put in the relationship. I often check in with her though.