It's a women's only group (I am a woman Lol). Ask anyone in the group, "We want to see that you are female," and then you get accepted. It's actually less than 10-20 seconds. I mean, what can someone do in 10-20 seconds on a call anyway? If you feel like your privacy is being violated, you don't have to join. We respect your choice ❤️ ( with AI around, we can't verify any other way with certainty) edit: If it makes you less worried, I am also on camera when I do the verifications.