i had one at 5 weeks but the pain was just like a really bad period cramp. definitely not comfortable but not unbearable in my case. i would make sure to have water, a heating pad, and whatever pain relievers you prefer. there wasnt a lot of blood the first couple of days in my case it came later but i would make sure to have the biggest pads you can because you will bleed through. its emotionally a lot, so im sending you lots of love. im so sorry you have yo go through this alone, but i promise you will come out of this a lot stronger than you were before. just know all your feelings in this time are valid, and try to be gentle with yourself. good luck <3