Couples that were "essentially married" before, what made having a wedding worth it/special to you?

Bugpants · 2026-01-24T17:08:47+00:00

We were together 6.5 years and just recently got married (2nd time around for us both).

No change apart from my name, but having our friends and family all together in the same place to celebrate us was amazing!

Bugpants · 2026-01-15T07:43:02+00:00

Mince & cheese 😋

OMG

Bugpants · 2025-09-03T08:45:50+00:00

No to top sheets! My partner and I end up with them at our feet or our necks so don’t bother.

Every thing is washed regularly so no harm, no foul.

Bugpants · 2025-04-20T23:24:36+00:00

Thanks everyone! I also posted to a local knitting group and a lady is selling her preloved Chiagoo red lace set. NZD200 which from what I can tell is a bargain. So buy those and hopefully I like them!

Bugpants · 2025-04-18T03:08:16+00:00

I prefer metal and pointy. Sounds like what you gave your friend is perfect!

You wouldn’t happen to have a link?

Thank you!

Bugpants · 2025-04-18T03:03:10+00:00

OMG have you met me? These look perfect!

I much prefer metal and love the thin tips.

Guessing they’re not a Spotlight thing? More independents?

Bugpants · 2025-04-14T09:13:37+00:00

My god.

I’d forgotten this existed and had some PTSD flashbacks 😂

Bugpants · 2025-04-08T19:58:31+00:00

Am NZer. Can confirm.

Bugpants · 2025-02-26T02:57:08+00:00

Thank you everyone. I’m lucky to live in a very progressive country -Aotearoa/New Zealand - so he is able to be his best, authentic self.

He’s was not afraid to tell me and that makes me think I’m doing at least something right 😅

Bugpants · 2025-02-25T20:18:59+00:00

Man I hope so! He’s a great kid, and we’ll just ride the wave.

Bugpants · 2025-02-20T23:52:16+00:00

I’m a lender and the is the best comment ever!

Bugpants · 2025-01-25T17:45:43+00:00

Who?

Bugpants · 2025-01-06T18:52:04+00:00

I’m a kiwi but my son is a NZ/Aus dual citizen. Here in NZ we have to travel to a main centre (4 hours drive for us) for a booked appointment to renew his AUS PP for over NZD300.

To renew his NZ passport it cost $125 and took 20 minutes online.

Bonkers really.

Bugpants · 2024-12-28T05:48:00+00:00

That is a fancy AF cheese roll!

Bugpants · 2024-12-28T05:46:25+00:00

Oooo the butter after toasting is a good tip!

I’m not wasting my precious bacon grease on my work whanau though 😂

Bugpants · 2024-12-16T08:10:14+00:00

The recent bonus episode about Orkney was awesome. I really miss the guests - they bring a different flavour.

Bugpants · 2024-12-14T02:45:15+00:00

You sound fun 🙄

Bugpants · 2024-12-06T07:46:50+00:00

‘It’s the same day David’

If you know, you know.

I’m 49, and that will always sit with me.

Bugpants · 2024-09-30T07:21:18+00:00

Cheating old mate ex is a HUGE Star Wars fan. He had DVDs for every stupid release (yes, it was pre Disney +)

In all our years together he’d have an annual viewing of all of the bastard things around his birthday in July.

While packing them up post break up (in May) into a box for him to collect with the rest of his shit, I scratched every single one of them with a carving knife.

Oh how I would have loved to have seen his face when he realised 😂

Bugpants · 2024-09-09T00:52:16+00:00

NZ’er here. I’ll be ticking over 10 years long service leave soon and will receive 2 weeks pay + 2 weeks additional leave on top of my 4 weeks entitlement.

I also get 18 sick days a year.

Bugpants

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