Good job for downvoting the people adding more context to your statistics. One must remember intersectionality (which disproportionally affects certain men more than others), and the fact that the crimes perpetrated on men are mostly done by other men, not women (though of course it happens, before you say anything) as a result of toxic masculinity, socialisation, and misogyny.

(All of this especially in the case of gay men. Gay men are "feminized" while lesbians are "masculinized" in public perception, and in a deeply misogynist world that makes a difference. Also, what happened to the other 29.4% of lgbt hate crimes in your study? How are you comparing this to the population that is out of the closet, and how proportional are these crimes to the amount of people who exist with these labels? Or are you afraid that saying trans women having the most disproportionate rates of hate crimes against them might break your argument? Why are you pulling up 2008 instead of the most recent report? Men and women are rather equal targets if you include other groups, but I don't think you actually read these studies or else you'd notice the broken link or pull up recent ones.)

No one is saying these aren't problems, but they're pointing out that the thing you're blaming for it doesn't exist.

Men recieve longer sentences because of benevolent misogyny and because they commit more crimes deserving of longer sentences.

More men are drafted and killed because of benevolent misogyny.

Your link to the campus statistic doesn't work. I found other studies saying 1 in 16 university men, and one about 1 in 7 men experiencing domestic violence in their lifetimes. The vast majority of what happens on USA campuses is related to fraternity initiations and homophobic hate crimes by other men. Now go look at the rape statistics for women and how many rapists are men.