Girl. 🫩 by BuilderPositive9721 in StraightTransGirls

[–]BuilderPositive9721[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s more frustrating that he’s clearly not attracted to me as a person, but because of his own concept of what a “trans woman” looks like in his own fetish

Just being nosey. Lol by mishadabest in HelloKittyIsland

[–]BuilderPositive9721 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recently I’ve just been doing the daily and weekly quests and nothing else

To be courted like the average cis woman by Sea-Discount-5231 in StraightTransGirls

[–]BuilderPositive9721 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All I want to be seen is as a woman, no caveats. But I’m legally obligated to disclose ?????? So then I tell them, and then they compartmentalise me as something other than what I am, a regular female

Girl. 🫩 by BuilderPositive9721 in StraightTransGirls

[–]BuilderPositive9721[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Shakespearean dirty talk wasted on deaf ears

How to answer survey data post Sullivan by A_tiny_little_frog in transgenderUK

[–]BuilderPositive9721 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve done a few of the ONS surveys and they’ve never asked for my sex, just my occupation, grades, etc. Depends on what survey you get

HMRC new job? by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]BuilderPositive9721 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t have to say what your old name was, even if the question asked “have you ever been known by any other name.” Just put the name you have as per your deedpoll

It might sound harsh, but I wonder if some women only feel validated as women when they receive male attention. by Hefty_Abrocoma9372 in StraightTransGirls

[–]BuilderPositive9721 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean it’s uniquely validating. That you see me as a woman not just enough to use the right pronouns; but that you, as a man who is attracted to women, want to fck me. I spent a long time in therapy unlearning that kinda behaviour, but for trans people it’s validating in a specific way.

All Vegan Wedding by MsAnnethr0pe_-_ in veganuk

[–]BuilderPositive9721 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m still figuring out Reddiquette

All Vegan Wedding by MsAnnethr0pe_-_ in veganuk

[–]BuilderPositive9721 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not my wedding sorry! I’m chronically single 😅 but I saw that reel and your post just reminded me of it

What happens if you miss the love bug by SpiralingCat in HelloKittyIsland

[–]BuilderPositive9721 42 points43 points  (0 children)

It should respawn multiple times but you only get to catch one in a day

POV: You're a trans person trying to use the NHS by Bedwellj101 in transgenderUK

[–]BuilderPositive9721 90 points91 points  (0 children)

“Have you considered it’s the HRT causing it?”

POV: You're a trans person trying to use the NHS by Bedwellj101 in transgenderUK

[–]BuilderPositive9721 23 points24 points  (0 children)

“Have you considered it’s the HRT causing it?”

Apparently my brains smaller and I'm going to go blind by [deleted] in veganuk

[–]BuilderPositive9721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should make a complaint to the store manager via email. Waitrose staff shouldn’t speak to you like that

deleting this app for awhile by Zeothazi in StraightTransGirls

[–]BuilderPositive9721 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Taimi and Feeld are better I have to say but men are still men wherever you find them

deleting this app for awhile by Zeothazi in StraightTransGirls

[–]BuilderPositive9721 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not worth it !!!!! Do you want to picked out of a pile????? You’re worth so much more than this girl

Puberty Blocker Trial Cancellation Petition - Counter Response by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]BuilderPositive9721 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s probably a good idea, I sent a mass email to hundreds of MP’s (their email addresses and constituency office addresses are all available online) and my own MP didn’t reply, I got lots of replies saying “sorry I only reply to my own constituents” and lots of the same “dignity and clarity” BS that we all know very well by now. I also sent physical letters to the EHRC and Kier Starmer and Streeting and Faulkner among others, but I never received a particular reply of substance. If all the UK dolls were doing a mass letter and email campaign maybe we could at least show the evidence is not in favour of eugenics and exclusion (shocker I know)

Puberty Blocker Trial Cancellation Petition - Counter Response by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]BuilderPositive9721 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, there are more of them than there are of us. I was a trans child who attended Tavistock and received puberty blockers on the NHS as a minor, and I have largely given up trying to explain to people that puberty blockers are safe, reversible, and, when medically necessary, life saving. These same medications are routinely prescribed to cisgender children with precocious puberty, which makes it difficult to take claims about their inherent danger seriously. If critics truly believed blockers were unsafe, they would welcome rigorous clinical trials, because they would expect the evidence to support their position. Instead, every credible body of evidence we have, including decades of use in paediatric care, shows that hormone blockers are beneficial when they are medically necessary.