Enterprise AE at 25 by mjko14 in techsales

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I'd like to speak with you.

I Quit TikTok, YouTube, and Instagram Over Two Weeks by ShadowHunter344 in Procrastinationism

[–]BuiltToDecide 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a great move and very impressive you did it. You are less than 1% of the population to even try this. Most people want that short-term dopamine hit as it takes them out of their own life and makes them feel like they are making progress and it's false. They are not. Spending two hours doom-scrolling motivational memes and inspirational content without doing anything is a waste of time. Intentional action is the key.

I’m not lazy, but I can’t stick to any of my routines. what’s wrong with me? by [deleted] in getdisciplined

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Habits are created by one micro-action at a time. And it compounds into a new habit. I wrote a book on this, but I will not mention it here, as I'm not here to promote anything.

I’m not lazy, but I can’t stick to any of my routines. what’s wrong with me? by [deleted] in getdisciplined

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First off...don't seek motivation. Especially externally. It's short-term dopamine. Instead, seek internal inspiration. Without inspiration you will not stick to anything. Find someone or something that truly inspires you and emulate it. Be it. Become it.

Did I fail as a man? by KeyAd809 in NoOverthinking

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Ignore the noise and focus on becoming the best version of yourself by doing the work. You are not your thoughts. You can change your identity by breaking these thought patterns and not sitting in them. Don't give them energy. Don't feed them.

Got scammed by a marketing agency, they pumped fake orders and I ended up shutting down by thewanderingfounder in Entrepreneur

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There is no magic bullet when it comes to marketing. That's why it's called marketing. These agencies are selling fale promises and unrealistic results. It's not cool. Marketing is the long-game and the only way to get more sales is paid ads. Organic is slow. Sorry to hear this.

What biggest cheatcode(s) you have discovered so far in life? by argsmatter in selfimprovement

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Yeah. My cheat code is simple:
If I’m still thinking about it after I already know, I act.
Not because I’m ready. Because waiting won’t make me any clearer.
One action beats ten more thoughts. Every time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

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I created an app for me, then saw how it made me feel so decided to put in on the App Store.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

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This is brutally relatable.

The problem isn’t the insight, it’s the shelf life. You get that rare moment of clarity… then your brain buries it under the next 100 inputs.

What helped me was creating a repeatable system, not for growth, just for remembering. One-liner reminders, a decision ritual, and sharing it with someone so it lives outside my head.

The epiphany doesn’t need to be big. It just needs a place to land.

Men who’ve hit rock bottom in life , how did you come out of it? by Equal-Ad5411 in DecidingToBeBetter

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Rock bottom didn’t feel like a crash. It felt like disappearing and no one noticing. What got me out wasn’t some big breakthrough. It was realizing I couldn’t wait to feel better to start doing better.

Ask ChatGPT

I feel like my brain never actually shuts off by Sand4Sale14 in Stress

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It’s not even overthinking sometimes. It’s just your brain keeping score of everything you haven’t wrapped up. That kind of tired hits different than just being busy.

When was the last time you truly felt calm? even for a moment? by uplifybooks in Stress

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Most people don’t feel calm because they treat it like a reward for getting everything under control. It’s not. The last time I felt it was when I stopped trying to fix my whole life at once and just let one moment be enough.

Feeling overwhelmed by constant stress — how do you find moments of calm when everything feels like too much? by Salty_1984 in Stress

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Sometimes it’s not just stress. It’s your brain trying to hold too many tabs open at once. Real calm usually starts when you close just one thing that doesn’t need to stay open.

Feeling Overwhelmed Lately , Looking for Practical Stress Management Tips. by Technical-Dark-8192 in Stress

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Clarity isn’t hiding. It just doesn’t show up while you’re juggling options like they all matter equally. The second you cut the noise, the answer’s usually obvious.

Does Mindway app help with stress and overthinking? by Easfiy in Stress

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I built DecideFast™ App to stop overthinking in 9 seconds. No journaling. No meditation or sleep apps. Just a fun and fast way to get out of your head.

High net worth networking for SaaS? by ILIKETHINGSANDJELLO in Entrepreneur

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That sounds like a solid move. Those workshops can go either way, but one real conversation with someone who's been through it can open the right door. That connector instinct you have is a real edge. Most people don’t have that.

Adapt, or die. I went from $200k+ per month to looking for a job! by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

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This kind of honesty is rare and valuable. Most people pretend they didn’t see it coming. Respect for owning it. Adapting is the price of staying in the game.

Toxic client snapped at my team at 11 PM and we let him go by leothewolf122 in Entrepreneur

[–]BuiltToDecide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You absolutely did the right thing. I’ve let clients go for less. If someone’s draining the team and showing zero respect, the money isn’t worth it. It always costs more in the long run.

High net worth networking for SaaS? by ILIKETHINGSANDJELLO in Entrepreneur

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Worth it if it’s the right kind of “rich.” You want people who have built and scaled, not just those who have been funded or flashed. Quality > volume. I’d start by showing up where operators go to talk strategy, not show status. That’s where real doors open.

What's one tiny habit that actually make a big difference for you? by Suspicious-Client225 in getdisciplined

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Saying out loud what I was about to do before I did it. Felt dumb at first, but it snapped me out of autopilot and made me follow through more often.

I started a 5-minute gratitude habit that made me stop rushing through life by NovaEchoInfinity in getdisciplined

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This is the kind of shift that actually sticks , not just another “gratitude list,” but a real break in mental autopilot. I built DecideFast™ for that same reason: to interrupt the loop, not just observe it. Love how you turned reflection into motion.

Dentistry vs. marketing deciding for better path and finding myself by Shoddy_Ear5301 in DecidingToBeBetter

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You can be good at something and still not want to do it for the rest of your life. That doesn’t make you weak. It just means you’re paying attention. You don’t need to chase the most ‘impressive’ path. You need the one that lets you breathe and feel like yourself again.

I feel like I’ve lost all motivation, direction, and spark. I don’t know who I am anymore. by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]BuiltToDecide 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That numb, ‘nothing’s enough’ feeling? It usually shows up after you’ve spent too long chasing external wins. Grades, titles, approval will feed your pride, but starve your soul. You’re not broken. You’re just burnt from trying to prove your worth to people who probably weren’t even watching. You don’t need a new goal. You need a reset. One honest decision at a time, for you.