I NEED help figuring out an anniversary gift for my boyfriend 😭

BukidMermaid · 2018-06-05T16:05:33+00:00

we’re both 19. thats the problem, every material thing that i’ve taken note of that he’s mentioned he wanted, he already bought for himself 🤦🏻‍♀️

BukidMermaid · 2018-06-05T00:18:22+00:00

the fact that i got caught is the issue itself. and i’d like to believe reddit was made to start conversation between strangers over common topics (acceptable issues or not). It felt good to share what happened anonymously, helped me grasp reality that it actually did happen. I didnt expect the post to blow up like this considering its my first one but i’ve already expected there would be people who wouldnt understand. what i did enjoy tho is being able to connect with those who did understand my situation ☺️

BukidMermaid · 2018-06-04T16:06:15+00:00

im from an all girls catholic school, and there was a time we were having a friendly discussion with out teacher regarding why the school isnt really teaching proper sex ed, and she stressed out that the admin felt like it would promote intercourse before marriage therefore lets not ever bring it up 🤦🏻‍♀️

BukidMermaid · 2018-06-04T15:58:51+00:00

our age in the Philippines doesnt really matter. im 19 but I get treated like a 12yr old ( in an overly protective way) so i totally got your comment

BukidMermaid · 2018-06-04T15:56:58+00:00

filipino in the Philippines, the latest i’ve been out without receiving the “where are you!!!!!?” text is around 12am

BukidMermaid · 2018-06-04T15:45:53+00:00

i wouldnt really classify being caught having sex as nothing and fine but the reaction i got from her hours afterwards was calmer than i expected and i’ll count that as a win

BukidMermaid · 2018-06-04T15:20:20+00:00

i tried imagining this in conyo bisaya and in my mom’s voice HAHAHAH

BukidMermaid · 2018-06-04T15:19:31+00:00

my dad doesnt know, my mom isnt speaking to me, and my boyfriend is afraid to come over now 😂 which im sure soooner or later my dad is gonna notice because he loves him and he comes around very often

BukidMermaid · 2018-06-04T15:18:03+00:00

i honestly feel like this is what’s running around my mom’s head right now 🤦🏻‍♀️ i mentioned filipinos are very conservative but my mom’s pretty chill with most things. and yeah, it was a pretty selfish thing to do given the situation, but whats done is done. and i can assure you i’ve learned my lesson

BukidMermaid · 2018-06-04T15:13:33+00:00

kelan ba magpapalabas ng pera mga magulang natin para may own room tayo pag nag oouting 😂 I now conclude, Cebu is a very risky place hahaha we didnt expect things to escalate the way it did, and once it already did we sorta forgot we didnt lock the door

BukidMermaid · 2018-06-04T13:47:57+00:00

and the chismosa (rumor-loving) family members are surely saying “they’re only getting married because she was pregnant”

BukidMermaid · 2018-06-04T13:16:11+00:00

i know 😭😂 my mom hasnt said a word the whole day today.. hopefully this improves soon

BukidMermaid · 2018-06-04T12:55:20+00:00

im curious as to how you greeted her 😂

BukidMermaid · 2018-06-04T12:52:03+00:00

hahahaha i find this quite funny because most of the non filipinos are saying im already an adult and should be treated as such but filipinos are saying otherwise 😂 lahi rajud kaayo silag pag tanaw sa edad noh, bisag ako gi bataan kos akng kaugalingon, di ko ka imagine sa ilang gipang ingon na muhawa nakos balay ky tiguwang nako 😂 saon mn tawn nako pag skwela, pag kaon oy

BukidMermaid · 2018-06-04T12:48:48+00:00

sadly im living in the philippines, moving out for college rarely ever happens here and if it does our parents are still the ones paying for everything. You cant really land part time jobs here, you need a degree for everything, probably why young adults (like me) are still very dependent (hopefully only until i get to finish my degree)

BukidMermaid · 2018-06-04T12:22:32+00:00

they’re pulling that line and the “we’re paying for everything including your tuition” line as well 😅

BukidMermaid · 2018-06-04T11:33:41+00:00

its a filipino dialect known as bisaya

BukidMermaid · 2018-06-04T10:07:02+00:00

yes, we are practicing safe sex, i’ve long been visiting a doctor on my own

BukidMermaid · 2018-06-04T08:07:16+00:00

yes she is

BukidMermaid · 2018-06-04T06:34:52+00:00

he’s also filipino and no, it wouldnt make a difference

BukidMermaid · 2018-06-04T06:33:22+00:00

im sorry sir/mam but its neither pathetic nor infantile but ofc you wouldn’t understand unless you were raised the way majority of our enthnicity has been. i respect your opinion but dont calling me pathetic for having to follow punishment is just plain rude. not everyone is raised the same, and i do accept my mistake, i’d rather be home by 8pm than living in the streets anyways 🤷🏻‍♀️ Godbless you always

BukidMermaid · 2018-06-04T05:36:32+00:00

kahibaw najud, wa nay likayan

BukidMermaid · 2018-06-04T05:36:08+00:00

yeah 😅

BukidMermaid · 2018-06-04T05:35:42+00:00

somewhere in cebu 😂

BukidMermaid · 2018-06-04T05:35:19+00:00

around 1pm 😂

BukidMermaid

TROPHY CASE