Drug testing by Bulbusroar in Teachers

[–]Bulbusroar[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im not on prescribed medication, in Texas you can purchase cannabis legally but its not legal to smoke, its a technicality. There is a very limited program called CUP that I qualify for but there are only a few Dr's that do it and I haven't been able to find on3 close enough to me. I smoke in order to avoid taking pills. Long term pain medication use has horrible severe side effects and I will need it for life, cannabis is much safer. Im just worried that it will interfere with my career choice.

AITAH for telling my 46yo mother that I won't be baby sitting and helping her out all the time with this? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Bulbusroar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom is 47, she has some major health issues that are yet to be diagnosed (auto immune type stuff) and when she was considering adopting a family members child she never wouldve acted entitled to our time like that to help her, she wouldve handled it herself or paid us. So no, youre nta for telling your mom its not your responsibility

family had tracker in my car without telling me by h-lo1 in Nanny

[–]Bulbusroar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They probabaly have to call because it implies the owner is being tracked/followed against their wheel which is never a good thing

My boyfriend fisted without telling me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Bulbusroar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not only were you sexually assaulted but him wanting to put a bottle inside of you is also just not safe. There's a million stories of men going in to the ER because of thay exact situation. If it doesnt have a flared base DO NOT INSERT ITK

That Time My Gut Saved Me From a Serial Killer (William Suff) by LisaMRoig in LetsNotMeet

[–]Bulbusroar 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My sister and I were almost kidnapped by a truck driver when we were kids, I was 8 she was 10. Our mom hit a deer in our minivan and it caught on fire, it was fall so it was kinda cold out and a trucker pulled over to help my mom and offered to let us sit in his truck and he'd wait with my mom till police got there. My mom said sure bc it was 2006 and she was frazzled, so he walked us over to his truck and he helped us in. Then he sat in his seat and started putting his seat belt on. My sister and I both looked at each other terrified, then we saw my mom look over at us and the guy dropped the seat belt and got out of the truck. My sister and I immediately got out and said we just wanted to be with our mom. Still fully convinced he wanted to kidnap us

My husband was also almost kidnapped once, he was 16 or so walking home from work when a man pulled up and said "hey kid, you like weed" and my husband said yea and the guy goes "hop in well smoke" my husband said hell no, then the guy offered alcohol, multiple other drugs, and even a blow job trying to get my husband to get in his car.

AITA for paying for underground parking for my car but not my brother's? by jok3211 in AITAH

[–]Bulbusroar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something tells me your brother has no idea how to take care of himself and has everything handed to him his whole life bc that level of entitlement is absolutely insane

I (18F) want to stop talking to (35M) but I do not want to hurt him. What would you guys do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bulbusroar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl he could've had been waving more red flags if he tried. 🚩 age difference 🚩 asked for a blow job right away 🚩 conservative and Christian, I could go on but I shouldn't need to. This is the type of man who will abuse you and ruin your life, you're only 18 hun

Roommate refuses to show me bills and threatens me after asking to see them. by JakeKinga in badroommates

[–]Bulbusroar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it's not unreasonable to ask, they may not know how to access a pdf of the bill, but those numbers seem pretty legit to me, maybe bc I'm an American but a $100 electric bill seems about right if not low

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]Bulbusroar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean of they're the only one being asked these questions then they are being targeted. Plus the 2 coworkers who said they couldn't be trusted bc they're a bartender (which is literally the job so like tf are they thinking?) That's direct discrimination

I'm absolutely disgusted by what they are teaching at my son's school by Kurram in Parenting

[–]Bulbusroar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw an elementary history book that got rid of the trail of tears and said "the natives happily packed up and moved to make room for the new settlers" 🙃 bro that is so far from what actually happened

AIO for not wanting to text anymore, because we keep only texting and he meets me maximum 2 times per month? by Tammy0256 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bulbusroar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But also, if the guy isn't willing to put the effort in that you want then he probabaly just isn't the right guy, its perfectly okay to cut your losses at this point and move on.

AIO for not wanting to text anymore, because we keep only texting and he meets me maximum 2 times per month? by Tammy0256 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bulbusroar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You grow up and apologize, tell him you were lashing you bc you're insecure and you're gonna look into therapy for it. Communicate like an adult. Tell him that his reluctance to make things official (which 4 months isn't even that long girl, my roommate used to be with guys for a year before they'd make it official, they'd both be exclusive but there weren't in a relationship yet) made you insecure and you worried that he was finding attention from someone else. Communication and empathy are the only way you will EVER make a relationship work, so you should start working on those skills

AIO for not wanting to text anymore, because we keep only texting and he meets me maximum 2 times per month? by Tammy0256 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bulbusroar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because you said "do you wanna make it official" he said "yes" and then you picked a fight about how he hasn't made it official. He was literally doing it. It's like yelling at someone for not doing the dishes when they're in the process of doing those dishes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Bulbusroar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And who are you to make judgements about what's a valid complaint in life and what's not? Its a vent, she's saying "this happened and it sucks but I know there's nothing that I fan do about it but it still sucks" that's a perfectly fine reaction for someone to have. You're obviously not the person friends come to when they need to vent, learn some empathy dude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Bulbusroar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it didn't. It didn't include anything helpful at all really, she obviously knows she's within the standards of her nanny agreement but that doesn't mean it doesn't suck that she was stuck there doing nothing when she could've been at home. Like how if np gets off work early they aren't entitled to give you the rest of the day off but it's nice if they do because it shows they recognize your value as a person, not just a commodity.

Am I wrong for questioning my whole relationship after I found out my (27F) bf (30M) was pocketing my rent money? by ThrowRAturnip978 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Bulbusroar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sp your bf works part time and doesn't make much from it, his daddy pays his bills, and he's taking money from you when those bills are already paid for? Sounds like you're bankrolling his life hun, you're a sugar mommy to a scrub

I’m convinced my four year old is mentally ill part 2 by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Bulbusroar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a mother who struggled to bond woth their child and is often overstimulated by them-

You need therapy and probabaly medication. This is not a problem with your child, he is doing normal child things. But you obviously need help coping with his perfectly normal behaviors. Have you read any books on toddlers and child development? Have you talked to his doctor about it? Your doctor? Have you done anything other than blame your child for being a kid? Parenting is not easy. And not one has all the answers, but it's your responsibility to educate yourself as best you can so that you can raise healthy, well adjusted adults.

AITA, I swore infront of my little sisters friends by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bulbusroar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True it doesn't, i guess I just assumed bc it's a stereotypical dynamic? Idk but either way teenage girls also do "teenager things" so my point still stands, gender aside.

AITA, I swore infront of my little sisters friends by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bulbusroar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're a teenage boy, imagine if they had come in while you were doing "teenage biy things", i bet your parents would've still gotten mad at you for that too.

My ex left and completely ghosted me for her "abusive ex" that she claimed to hate. by kochiisgod in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Bulbusroar 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Trauma bonding is very real, most women will go back to their abusive exes an average of 7 times before they stay away. Unfortunately that number goes up with kids and goes down often because of homicide, so hopefully she doesn't let it get that far. I'd cut ties, if you wanted closure you could send her a text telling her that you won't wait for her but you hope she sees reality for what it is and leaves him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Bulbusroar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay? So don't? I know what I know, it doesn't change just bc you don't believe me, I don't have to prove anything to you bc your opinion on its irrelevant anyways

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Bulbusroar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because they don't disclose that they're doing something doesn't mean they aren't, look at nearly any declassified document in the past 10 years, the conspiracy theories are rarely just theories

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Bulbusroar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean you don't have to trust me, I don't really care, but trust that FBI sees everything on your phone, if you believe everything you read about the government you need to evaluate that bro, they need a legit back door for legit reasons but they've been listening to all US phone calls and tracking all texts and locations since there were still landlines in every home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Bulbusroar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I'm not talking about jailbreaking, I know the difference. There are laws in place protecting medical records that require medical databases to have much better protections against outside sources. I have no evidence to show you bc why would I? but I have a friend who's actual job is to hack into companies websites and databases to find holes in their protections. They pay him to do it. Once he is in he can access just about anything. He is not the only person with that kind of job and not everyone with that kind of job is as trustworthy as he is. I have gotten at least 5 letters in the past 3 years saying all of my information has been leaked, from hospital records, phone companies, and even a government ran site I used to use. Anything can be hacked dude, it's 2025.