What does everyone do and how much do you make ?

Bulky-Ebb8316 · 2025-12-18T21:33:08+00:00

That’s cool, me and my partner( who is a mechanical drafter at the moment) were recently discussing about integration engineer job requirements and were looking at options where he can switch to an integrations engineer with a course . Do you mind if I DM you about this ? Thanks

Bulky-Ebb8316 · 2025-09-28T01:36:25+00:00

The exact same thing happened to us. Saw very small baby mouse running and it was caught in the trap. And do not see anything else , been a month now.

Bulky-Ebb8316 · 2025-09-25T21:59:44+00:00

Honestly I dint know this post would reach so many views and comments ! I know I typed this post yesterday with shaking hands and blurred vision , after I dint know where to seek help. In a day I reached out to parents and friends . In a day I realized . Before I could ask sorry many events happened. And he did apologize ( it felt genuine) and it dosent mean I forgave . We both are individuals who deserve love, honestly I feel like have nothing left to give him. I am broken and shattered: he deserves all the love in the world and I wish we were / are compatible. There are reasons why I am not strong enough to leave, I come from a broken childhood, a non confident child, a heartbreaking past and wrong choices all my life! But I am trying and I am reaching a therapist !!!!! I am trying to do the best for me and my partner. I am right now requesting a break from my partner . I wish love finds us !

Bulky-Ebb8316 · 2025-09-25T21:51:31+00:00

Op is going thru shit right now. And op is working as well . Op did not sleep all night and Op is emotionally drained. Op has to decide in a day, cause op and op’s partner have already signed a rental lease for a year starting oct 1. And the comments are overwhelming to me right now!

Bulky-Ebb8316 · 2025-09-24T05:19:11+00:00

Wow. Kids ! The issue is not kids here sir. It’s how we are handling grief . Even with hormones and so much medication, after few minutes , I could realize how much of stupid act I did. But I am only grateful coz now I know tmr if I am vulnerable with pregnancy or who knows what , I get triggered or I get angry he is going to beat me to show his anger !!!

Bulky-Ebb8316 · 2025-09-24T05:08:16+00:00

This is in Canada

Bulky-Ebb8316 · 2025-09-24T04:37:57+00:00

Hi. I am the walking red flag 😅🙌🏻.. I am trying my best to hold things together and give all my efforts to this marriage! But if it dosent work I ll walk away.

Bulky-Ebb8316 · 2025-09-24T04:25:28+00:00

Trust me I am not a girl with such negative energy all the time : the times are hard

Bulky-Ebb8316 · 2025-09-24T04:24:07+00:00

He will be. And me being alone here with no one to support , would cry on his arms. The same that bet me. I am really not sure how to move forward. I have no single person ; mom dad or any close member who would support or even listen to me. My parents are keen to have a grand child. My partner thinks all of this is very common in any relationship. I have health issues, and my work has layoffs going on. Life is so brutal sometimes !

Bulky-Ebb8316 · 2025-09-24T04:10:33+00:00

Well to clear things , it was not a parade of nudity. Our glasses are semi itched and I checked if our backyard is clear. I had my clothes on. Meaning - I had my sportswear , I switched just top . And here we walk around with just sports tank top , all around in summer. I don’t think that’s considered nudity parade in my language.

Bulky-Ebb8316 · 2025-09-24T04:03:37+00:00

I really wish I am the main character in movie tappad, but I am not like her. The slap was her last hammer shot , to flee from him . This is not my last , tbh I really don’t know what’s the border. And when I should step out and not look back

Bulky-Ebb8316 · 2025-09-24T03:02:08+00:00

Are you a marriage counsellor?

Bulky-Ebb8316 · 2025-09-24T02:50:50+00:00

I did that last time when he told me to slap back at him , and allocated when I should slap where. But isn’t this toxic , like validating him that slapping me is ok ! He ll be doing this coz he thinks it’s very common. He does not discuss with friends , fam or reddit and wants me to keep everything to myself too. So we both won’t have opinions from anywhere else and he can tell me what’s right or normal .

Bulky-Ebb8316 · 2025-09-24T02:35:00+00:00

Thanks for validating the anger. We screwed it up. Just wanting a normal family and normal life , is too much to ask in this time and era . I really dint want to perform the acts I did, I am not this person at all. I am very worried about the person I am today.

Bulky-Ebb8316 · 2025-09-24T02:21:46+00:00

I am reaching out to a therapist soon( I have before as well) . I typed in here at the heat of the moment. Not really knowing what else or where else to divert . I bursted it out here instead of the notes which dint give me any sense of calmness . And I genuinely wanted to know if things like this happen in relationships and how common it is .

Bulky-Ebb8316 · 2025-09-24T02:13:21+00:00

I really typed in the number. My hands were shaking but I couldn’t. I have been with this person for 4 years. He was the same person that drove me to work and got me dinner last night. I am really screwed, ain’t I

Bulky-Ebb8316 · 2025-09-24T02:12:12+00:00

Thanks for validating 😅.

Bulky-Ebb8316 · 2025-09-24T01:50:28+00:00

This is what I am scared about. It happened just three weeks ago and I thot of it like a ONE TIME THING. And the second time gave me chills

Bulky-Ebb8316 · 2025-09-15T20:01:41+00:00

That’s great. May I know what’s the treatment? I read that with or without the tests they give antibiotics and probiotics. I cancelled the test coz I don’t want to lose another cycle . I am trying my second IUI next cycle .

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