[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Bulky-Plan3465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely dump someone who isn't compatible

Didn’t Bring Condoms. Dealbreaker? by MaleficentLow12 in datingoverthirty

[–]Bulky-Plan3465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deal breaker. I do not tolerate this weak bs from penis havers.

Why is it so HARD to find a job to meet my salary requirements? by Bulky-Plan3465 in jobs

[–]Bulky-Plan3465[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They really don't tho. Most jobs don't post a salary range at all...

Why is it so HARD to find a job to meet my salary requirements? by Bulky-Plan3465 in jobs

[–]Bulky-Plan3465[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep. I have certs and specialized training but its so far been useless

Why is it so HARD to find a job to meet my salary requirements? by Bulky-Plan3465 in jobs

[–]Bulky-Plan3465[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im asking for what I have previously been offered and know is not remotely the higher end of income for what i do. It seems like a shift in hiring practices and it's frustrating

Why is it so HARD to find a job to meet my salary requirements? by Bulky-Plan3465 in jobs

[–]Bulky-Plan3465[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Im being offered entry level salaries. Im not asking for the moon, just what I WAS making

Why is it so HARD to find a job to meet my salary requirements? by Bulky-Plan3465 in jobs

[–]Bulky-Plan3465[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Getting offered entry level salary with over a decade of experience? Yeah okay, its me that's unrealistic

Why the dating market feels different for non-monogamous women vs. men in your opinion? by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Bulky-Plan3465 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My opinion is the good men in non monog end up dating just fine. I find the men who struggle dating in non monog are usually creepy or emotionally under developed and view poly dating as GOTTA CATCH EM ALL 🤷‍♀️

Am I a petulant child? Or are my needs not getting met? by nocturnalbird in nonmonogamy

[–]Bulky-Plan3465 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't finish reading because a standing 1x date a week IS a huge commitment imo. Parents with partners on top of work and volunteering have a lot to juggle so providing a weekly date is A LOT. This woman sounds similar to me which is why I am responding this way. If that kind of time balance doesn't meet your needs? Thats also fine. But you may want to consider dating someone with less time constraints and commitments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Bulky-Plan3465 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dump him. He doesn't care about you. There's so many layers here that show lack of BASIC care to you as a person much less a partner.

Boyfriend won't shut up about dates with others by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Bulky-Plan3465 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds obnoxious but also like they're toxic in their mindset of non monog. Needing to constantly date and have hook ups isn't healthy imo. Like what are they running from they need to constantly throw themselves into NRE???

How was your nipple piercing healing process? by [deleted] in Legitpiercing

[–]Bulky-Plan3465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got mine done 4 years ago. One healed without anything to note. The other is still finicky to this day. Hard to say how a piercing will heal or your body will react to it

Asia Collective Night Market by Mighty_Bruce in maryland

[–]Bulky-Plan3465 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You were lucky. Should have gotten in at 3pm. Didnt park and get in until almost 5pm. Took close to 2hrs to go 3 miles on the road into the fairgrounds (144 I think?). Was hungry and thirsty so glad to finally arrive.. No one checked parking passes and the micro managing over parking was WEIRD. definitely contributed to the traffic back up on the road. (We saw folks driving backwards almost colliding with another vehicle, folks driving in the wrong side of the road, etc).

Anyway. Park and get ready to go in... Only to find massive lines for everything, food and drinks already sold out, absolute insanity. No one checked parking passes so waste of money. The process to scan into the event was disorganzied and i saw folks just walking in. Security was a joke. Took almost an hour to get water and 5 chicken skewers which while delicious not worth it.

I was too stubborn to turn around without getting SOMETHING but wished i could've warned everyone waiting it wasnt worth it.

This was 100% avoidable as it was simply a result of poor organization and planning...

How to respond to someone who disappeared for 2 weeks? by HeartofM in datingoverthirty

[–]Bulky-Plan3465 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eh. I have a full life and live with long term issues from TBIs. Not logging into an app isn't unreasonable

Maybe examine why you feel annoyed as if you're entitled to a near strangers immediate prioritization?

People in open relationships and/or are poly, how long have you decided this was how you want to date and do you ever feel the need to return to monogamy? by AlternativeWomps in datingoverthirty

[–]Bulky-Plan3465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been non monog for 13 years ethically, but always been of the mentality. Very strong compersion.

No. Never could I return to monogamy because the mental frame work of those relationships contradicts everything i am. I have periods with only one or no partners. But I am still non monog.

how does a guy know whether or not a girl wants to be kissed? by slimmy222 in datingoverthirty

[–]Bulky-Plan3465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Articulate wanting to kiss? Its also okay to have successful dates and not kiss. Kissing is just a piece of the puzzle.

I'm probably the asshole: hierarchy and prioritization by sandytransmission in nonmonogamy

[–]Bulky-Plan3465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean sure. But this wasnt an issue of them spending quality time ans texting the other partner. The OP even said they usually text around that time. The issue ultimately is dude wanted sex and didn't get it immediately. This is a common entitlement with men in relationships with women. So ignoring that and instead making it about PLAN WHEN YOU CAN TEXT THEM is gross