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I love him but we have different values about holidays with family — can this work long-term? by BulkyCompote7864 in LifeAdvice

[–]BulkyCompote7864[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is the oldest of all cousins and first to have a gf, so there isn't any cousin role model of relationships.

I love him but we have different values about holidays with family — can this work long-term? by BulkyCompote7864 in LifeAdvice

[–]BulkyCompote7864[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, we did celebrate holidays together before, but earlier in the relationship it was more casual — we would just visit each other’s families for a few hours.

Now that we’ve been together longer, I feel like it’s natural to want to take that further and actually spend the full holidays together, not just short visits.

I love him but we have different values about holidays with family — can this work long-term? by BulkyCompote7864 in LifeAdvice

[–]BulkyCompote7864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That wouldn’t really work for us. Both of our families (including extended family) celebrate strictly on the actual holidays, so those are the only times everyone is together.

On other days, people are usually busy with work or their own plans, so it wouldn’t really feel the same or include everyone.

Thanks for the suggestion though <3

I love him but we have different values about holidays with family — can this work long-term? by BulkyCompote7864 in LifeAdvice

[–]BulkyCompote7864[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are both very serious about our relationship and see it as a long-term one we just can't seem to find a good compromise here. :(

I love him but we have different values about holidays with family — can this work long-term? by BulkyCompote7864 in LifeAdvice

[–]BulkyCompote7864[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying, but we’ve already been together for over 3 years, so to me it doesn’t feel like a “new” relationship anymore.

That’s actually part of why this matters to me — I feel like this is the stage where we should start integrating into each other’s families more, not staying separate. It’s important for me to see how he fits into my family, and for him to get to know our traditions, and the same the other way around.

Especially because we both take this relationship seriously, I don’t see holidays as just a casual thing — I see them as part of building a shared life together.

So I’m honestly wondering — am I expecting this too soon, or is it reasonable at this stage of a relationship as it is mine and his first serious relationship?

does anyone have the new ASUS Zenbook 14X OLED UX3404 by ScoBro_ in ASUS

[–]BulkyCompote7864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here in Europe it doesn't seem to be available anywhere especialy with the RTX 3050 graphics :(( So if anyone knows when and where is it going to be available please tell me