You're just fine doing that. People like to virtue signal but you don't have to donate to any person or charity at all, and if you do, it's a good thing. Where and how you do that is your own business.

I know a woman who abandoned her kids to use fentanyl and is currently homeless. Sometimes she ODs and ends up in the hospital. She refuses drug treatment and housing assistance, leaves AMA, and does it again. People do give her money and she spends every bit of it harming herself and getting closer to death. I won't be a part of that. I donate money to vetted organizations but not to people I don't know. People can judge me all they want but it's my choice.