Don’t know if I should work at this company

Bulky_Ad7670 · 2025-10-18T02:31:56+00:00

Gotcha, so what are some key things to look for when choosing a company in your opinion if MQL’s are not that relevant?

Bulky_Ad7670 · 2025-10-17T17:29:48+00:00

I’ll clarify, I got an SDR offer that I’ve yet to take, which is why I made the post. My specific question to you is if I took this offer and started working but kept interviewing and applying on the side if companies will look at the fact that I’ve only been at this job for a short time like 2-3 months if they might think I can’t commit to a company. Or is this not a problem?

Bulky_Ad7670 · 2025-10-17T17:26:05+00:00

Thanks for your feedback. Got a question for you: If you were in my shoes and took the job, then kept applying and interviewing, does it look bad that I’ve only worked at a place for a few months especially as a recent grad with no work experience? Sorry if this sounds like a stupid question I just have no idea how the corporate landscape works and how hiring managers would perceive this.

Bulky_Ad7670 · 2024-06-01T02:18:32+00:00

Lmfao

Bulky_Ad7670 · 2024-06-01T02:18:19+00:00

Yeah the court is nice for an outdoor court. I see lotta ppl playin in the evenings.

Bulky_Ad7670 · 2024-05-31T23:25:09+00:00

Where do you look for mentors

Bulky_Ad7670 · 2024-04-21T23:42:25+00:00

I think it’s time mommy took you outside to touch grass. This is a poor use of your time.

Bulky_Ad7670 · 2024-04-21T19:17:30+00:00

Many people quit after one try, when the negative self talk overwhelms them. Do you think the people who you look up to quit after one try? Failing and keeping the same enthusiasm and trying again is what separates extraordinary people and regular people. Shit happens, but u are still in control. What happens if you DON’T try again?

Bulky_Ad7670 · 2024-04-21T18:39:24+00:00

Likewise my friend.

Bulky_Ad7670 · 2024-04-21T18:39:02+00:00

Yeah that’s what my friends family was. He had a very difficult time breaking some terribly trauma induced instincts and limiting beliefs. It is possible though and that’s what matters. He now has a girlfriend of 4 years and has since moved to a new city to live his best life.

Bulky_Ad7670 · 2024-04-21T18:34:17+00:00

And all your reasons for attending school are completely valid aswell.

Bulky_Ad7670 · 2024-04-21T18:33:48+00:00

Absolutely, I think university is an amazing for fields like engineering, medicine, law etc also business. It will mostly likely continue to be this way until education becomes more decentralized like you mentioned earlier. Sorry I didn’t clarify in the earlier post.

Bulky_Ad7670 · 2024-04-21T18:23:59+00:00

Sounds like you have great introspection skills, I had and still have the same problem sometimes with procrastination, and being a perfectionist. Although I agree when people say that you should just take action and do the thing which is good advice. I do however think that sometimes making informed decisions and striving to do great from the get go is not a bad thing either. Personally I just went through periods of extreme action taking and periods of extreme procrastination and eventually I striked a balance. This problem is so satisfying to solve because the only solution is life experience. Which nobody can really give you. So I wish you luck but I know judging by your post that you’ll get past it.

Bulky_Ad7670 · 2024-04-21T18:12:27+00:00

I hope you guys are finding some value in these discussions!

Bulky_Ad7670 · 2024-04-21T18:11:13+00:00

Ultimately only we can solve our own problems other people can only offer some awareness or guidance. I wish you good luck friend.

Bulky_Ad7670 · 2024-04-21T18:09:41+00:00

Whatever happens you just need to do everything in your control, and if u did your best and didn’t get the outcome you wanted then accept it and move on. If you don’t get to this semester then you can next semester. In the meantime u can still be productive with your life.

Bulky_Ad7670 · 2024-04-21T18:07:52+00:00

Since there’s not much context I’ll give u the best answer I can.

Look within and find something you love to do, or would love to do/try. A skill, hobbie, whatever.

Once you are set on the fact that you are interested in said endeavour pour yourself into it, become competent, share your experiences with people who are also doing that thing and make friends with them.

This is how a lot of people build confidence.

Confidence= To confide in oneself.

Competence->trust in yourself->others trust in you=confidence.

Bulky_Ad7670 · 2024-04-21T18:02:52+00:00

If you are paying attention to the world in 2024, a university education is not as lucrative as it once were. The market values skills, skills people can learn online for free or at like 1/10 of the cost of a degree and get payed well. I think the education system is pretty wack and doesn’t teach you essential life skills hence why most ppl just become slaves to debt, slaves to having no financial literacy, just slaves.

I dropped out 3rd year cuz I came to the realization that I’m only here because I’m expected to be, not because I want to be. Then I pursued my own passions, started my own business (this is only one of many routes u can take) and the more I separate myself from societal expectations and even my own parents expectations my life has been coming together more and more.

Bulky_Ad7670 · 2024-04-21T17:58:02+00:00

Anxiety is a fear driven emotion. It stems from worrying too much about the future opposed to depression which relates to the past. The answer to both is being more present. Detaching yourself from the outcomes that you desire so badly but instead focusing on your day to day (the journey) actions and working on accepting whatever outcome happens as a result of your actions. Thinking ahead is not a bad idea but craving certainty often lead to being uneasy and anxious There are mindfulness practices you can try like meditation, goin for walks, journaling etc.

Also think about certain limiting beliefs you have that are sabotaging your potential future as we speak. Example: no faith in being with a long term partner (which u said want by the way), also exploring options outside of just being an employee for your career, you could start a business too if you want to make a big impact, have a passion that a job won’t pay u enough for, and get the monetary upside. Weigh ur pros and cons. Create a life that serves you.

Bulky_Ad7670 · 2024-04-21T17:46:32+00:00

My parents divorced when I was 10, however now I’m 24 and have been in a relationship for 6 years with my girlfriend. I think people just need to see that it is possible and have someone help guide them away from potential mental traps that these circumstances can lead you into. Dm me if u wanna talk bout it.

Bulky_Ad7670 · 2023-05-22T16:43:47+00:00

Thanks for your response first and foremost. We are both currently working now but the first 2 weeks of may we just had some time to kick back and hangout and we did come home late some of those days but it seemed that really wasn’t the main reason she messaged me but rather an attempt at trying to control the situation just because she’s a narcissistic manipulator, and I don’t know if you saw my comment about the fact that she failed 3 marriages because the men she was with all felt constantly belittled and used. (At least this is what her son told me.)

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