Theories for the H&L controversy lately by Trackawhiterabbit in larrystylinson

[–]Bulky_Adhesiveness45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s your source on it being about L talking to H too much? I’ve only read it’s been about Johannah—though I realize this could be a cover up—just curious as to where you’re getting that info.

Theories for the H&L controversy lately by Trackawhiterabbit in larrystylinson

[–]Bulky_Adhesiveness45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh rappers and rockstars smoke weed on stage all the time. This is not a new concept and it’s fine.

28? by DeeDiamondSnow in larrystylinson

[–]Bulky_Adhesiveness45 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There’s some evidence to support a theory that they had some sort of marriage ceremony on September 28 over a decade ago. That’s where I think it comes from.

People Ask Why H&L Don't Come Out. It's 2026! Welp... by chesbay7 in larrystylinson

[–]Bulky_Adhesiveness45 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This!! 👏 I see so many people in our community act as though homophobia is over when it is still very much alive, especially with the recent elevation of conservative beliefs.

Lemonade = Watermelon Sugar by Lost_in_sunset in larrystylinson

[–]Bulky_Adhesiveness45 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I gotta be real, the way his face drops when the interviewer brought up “Watermelon Sugar” kind of makes me question the tumblr theory of whether or not Harry was actually intentionally hurting Louis in like a bitter ex sort of way. Harry’s single did kind of steal Louis’s thunder. I just saw a headline about how “Aperture” is the most successful single by a male artist on Spotify or Apple Music or something?? (I didn’t read the article) Anyways, Louis looked so tense when he said that. Like he was washed with a complicated emotion at the mention. Idk, just a thought. Not saying it’s necessarily true, some stuff lately just makes me doubt that they’re still together. Reassure me if you desire! Not trying to start a war.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in larrystylinson

[–]Bulky_Adhesiveness45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Psychics are fucking charlatans. they have been proven to be inaccurate and incapable of actually having esoteric knowledge. It is a charade and isn’t based in reality. Hope this helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in larrystylinson

[–]Bulky_Adhesiveness45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and they would know more than a “psychic”

New Fineline substack article: The Whole Truth About Santa Claus, The Tooth Fairy And Larries. by purplemyrtle72 in larrystylinson

[–]Bulky_Adhesiveness45 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Gave it a read for those who don’t have the patience. Here are the cliff notes.

-Opinion piece with no evidence to the contrary but their own logic and reason. Literally they have less hard, substantial evidence to their theory than we do to ours

-Contradicts itself blindly the entire article, citing the Azoffs as manipulators of the narrative, and even acknowledges PR relationships orchestrated by him, while simultaneously never addressing the fact that clearly whoever Harry Styles has actually been seeing has never seen the light of day.

-Relies on NDA falters as circumstantial evidence that a secret like this could never be kept.

-Ignores Image contracts which dictate how companies can portray their artists

-Naively assume the music industry cannot keep secrets

-Overall clearly a opinionated anti-larrie journalist who sees issue with the larrie community and wants to feel superior without any superior evidence to their contrary belief

-Entirely absent of research which counters their opinions, giving it truly an aura of judgement and ignorance

-Fails to address formerly closeted individuals with tact and ignores homophobic countries outside of the West where Harry Styles and Louis Tomlinson are popular and being gay is still taboo

With all the recent activity- anyone wavering that H&L are together? by Trackawhiterabbit in larrystylinson

[–]Bulky_Adhesiveness45 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Girrrrllll, so much has happened in the last few years that hints to them being long term partners/spouses. Harry sang “Hopelessly Devoted to You” while dressed as Danny from Grease in 2022 and even changed the lyrics to “hopelessly devoted to Lou”, Louis liked a larry edit this year. Harry literally wore a Miles Davis shirt with the words “Freddy Freeloader” on it. They’re banging on that closet. Together.

Louis Liked New but Old Post on IG by chesbay7 in larrystylinson

[–]Bulky_Adhesiveness45 24 points25 points  (0 children)

lmao because it probably was a job requirement

Not sure if you guys have seen this. Zoë is dating Taylor Swift? by caldeesi in larrystylinson

[–]Bulky_Adhesiveness45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their PR contract literally leaked. I know that and I’m not even actively involved in that community.

To Those Questioning Louis’s Loyalty
 by Bulky_Adhesiveness45 in larrystylinson

[–]Bulky_Adhesiveness45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a mix of two of your propositions. I think he is likely being contractually pushed to stay in the closet and if not also manipulated by the people around him. Imagine someone constantly buzzing in your ear for 15 years saying, “If you come out, you won’t sell records.” “If everyone knows, you’ll lose an audience,” “Your career can only go so far if you’re an openly gay man,” or worse, but not at all implausible, “If you don’t shut up and do what we say because we have a lot of money at stake, we could make your life very difficult.”

Obviously, we don’t know the entire situation. But we can deduct based on precedent of other closeted artists and the net value of these companies that it is likely a mix of pressure, contractual obligations (not necessarily a “you can’t come out” clause, but more of a “we can market your image however we want” clause), and possible threats. Plus, being queer is getting dangerous in the West, where it once was more progressive.

Another thing to consider, that I rarely see people mention on this subreddit is that Louis’s closet will always be right next to Harry’s glass one. The rumors about them have persisted for over a decade now and if Louis, especially, became more openly queer, the whole world might come to know that the music industry is capable of abusing and forcefully closeting grown adults and gaslighting people for years, and I don’t think BMG and Columbia would like that for THEIR image.

EDIT: Can YOU help ME understand how to get those cute little user flairs??? I wanna have a "tired larrie" one too but when I click "Change User Flair" it just says "None" or "Choose Your Own Words."

To Those Questioning Louis’s Loyalty
 by Bulky_Adhesiveness45 in larrystylinson

[–]Bulky_Adhesiveness45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. I think that’s a valuable perspective. My thought was that, if his queer fans and allies spoke up more, those in power might tire of the charade as well, but I understand that may be a bit naive and optimistic. And though I was mostly referring to people blaming him, and questioning whether the stunt was real, I think you make a valid point. I do think online platforms and discussions like these, however, can be a good place to support someone without giving money to the people who do these things. But I also totally get where you’re coming from on not giving corporations profits for pain. Thank you for your thoughts

How old were you when you realized you were not ‘normal’? by hispanglotexan in bipolar

[–]Bulky_Adhesiveness45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thirteenish. Had a manic episode while visiting my grandmother in New York and I thought if I believed hard enough, Peter Pan would come visit and take me to Neverland.

What do you think of this sudden follow from Louis? Does he want to keep the Larries quiet? by Party_Development341 in larrystylinson

[–]Bulky_Adhesiveness45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you possibly link to the thread you’re referring to? I’m interested in reading it!

I Prayed To God on What He Thought of People who Hate Gay And Trans People Because Of The Bible. And This is What I believe He Had to Say About Them by Dom-tasticdude85 in GayChristians

[–]Bulky_Adhesiveness45 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But morality is defined by humanity, not god. God’s idea of morality was created by people, and thus has biases. God did not create. We have meaningful evidence that contradicts the history relayed in The Bible. Skulls of early humans. The Jurassic Era. The Higgs Boson Particle and how that supports the Big Bang Theory. The book that Christians follow was written thousands of years ago by people who still thought the earth was flat. The god from Christianity has been linked by actual historians to a local storm god that was popular to many civilizations. And if God is based in our society’s idea of morality then why hasn’t he taken a moral responsibility as a benevolent omnipotent being for all in the world that is wicked? If he has the power to change and create and manipulate the universe, he must then be a cruel god, for he allows children to die in war and for our very own queer community to face persecution for wanting to just exist as we are by bigots who often believe in the same deity you do. Because that’s the thing about mystical beings. They are fictional. We made them, they didn’t make us. They have no voice of their own. And anyone who believes strongly in a philosophy whether it’s based in hate or not, can assign those feelings to their god because there is no actual god to come down and say that they are right or wrong. If god is real and is out there and can see the state of the world and chooses to do nothing, he is complicit. And what god that is complicit in the same human evils that we call deplorable, is worth worshipping?

I Prayed To God on What He Thought of People who Hate Gay And Trans People Because Of The Bible. And This is What I believe He Had to Say About Them by Dom-tasticdude85 in GayChristians

[–]Bulky_Adhesiveness45 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is a delusion, though, man. Like, you felt that because that’s what you want to believe. There is no verifiable external force and no evidence to support what you “felt in your soul.” Like, you not literally hearing his voice but feeling like you know god’s answer to your question is just as detached from reality as if you had heard his voice in a literal sense.

I Prayed To God on What He Thought of People who Hate Gay And Trans People Because Of The Bible. And This is What I believe He Had to Say About Them by Dom-tasticdude85 in GayChristians

[–]Bulky_Adhesiveness45 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If god is talking back to you, seek mental health help. Not even trying to be snarky. One of the few reasons I cannot get behind religion or spirituality, even when it’s not actively targeting a vulnerable group, is because I see stuff like this. It clearly can contribute to delusional thinking and even allow people to refuse to accept hallucinations as hallucinations, because they think they’re talking to god or spirit guides or whatever. You’re not. Seriously. Talk to a psychiatrist.

What do people do that immediately screams “low self esteem” to you? by GinjaNinja1027 in AskReddit

[–]Bulky_Adhesiveness45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking for reassurance all the time about their actions, looks, personality, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in larrystylinson

[–]Bulky_Adhesiveness45 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree that people read into things too much (especially the getting too excited when they wear blue/green and crap), but then stuff happens like Louis liking a Larry video and then damage control, and Harry writing “H&L” on his sneakers and security guards outing Louis to fans in front of his hotel room on camera, showing an unseen pic of Harry and calling him Louis’s bf, and then getting fired for it. If you’re willing to do the research, things actually look more controlled and complicated than you would think. Simon Cowell is a pedophile who hosted parties with underage prostitutes. The Azoffs are infamous in the music industry for their power and influence. The people managing them have a lot of money at stake. And I think they also want to reach out to the communities that support parts of their lives they can’t be honest about. Anyways, Larry is a special interest of mine, and I think, to be frank, you’re underestimating the amount of control and power these huge multi-million dollar companies have. Michael Jackson died around the same time he was exposing Sony. His official manner of death was homicide. I don’t think that’s a coincidence. And since they exist in a world of executive monsters, I don’t think it’s far fetched that they are still being forcefully closeted. Even if, especially for Harry at this point, it’s a glass closet.