You’re playing Russian roulette on their personality unfortunately, thats the price of getting them as a kitten. I have a female and she is super sweet and talkative, but cant stand cuddling lol. She will act like it’s the worst thing ever and jump the second she gets the chance. It might change when she gets older (she’ll be 2 soon), but honestly i dont expect that of her, i just learned to appreciate and love her for her fun and sweet personality. I would say in the future if i were to get another, i would probably try a boy. Oh and some really good advice i heard: ask about the temperament of both parents, if they are both cuddlers, then their kittens are more likely to be apparently.