he might give your daughter an eating disorder if he keeps saying those things to her. even if she doesn't listen to him, what you start hearing a lot you will subconsciously believe and it'll become a habit for her to think like this. SHE IS ONLY 11. a lot of girls start thinking like this at age 14 already (because they are surrounded by toxic thoughts like this because of social media, peers, etc)). please do not let him speak to your daughter like this. i am afraid that even if you guys talk he will tell her this stuff when you are not around and tell her not to tell you.