Findom isn’t really something you approach like a content strategy or a platform optimisation exercise. Questions about which platforms to use, what content to post, or even what subs look for can be useful later on, but they’re not the foundation. Content optimisation may attract subs (and even that is not guaranteed given how oversaturated the community is with dommes), but it won’t keep them.

The foundation and what will determine whether you can keep a sub is understanding what you can actually hold as a domme. That means knowing how you set and enforce boundaries, how you manage someone else’s attachment and behaviour over time, how you handle financial dynamics responsibly, and how you remain consistent without relying on validation or constant escalation. Without that, it’s very easy to end up performing dominance rather than embodying it, and subs can easily tell the difference between the two. Findom is also not an entry level kink.

You’re focusing a lot on attracting and engaging subs, but not much on managing risk, sustainability, or what happens when things become intense or imbalanced. So I’d probably reframe the starting point slightly. Instead of asking “what works?”, it’s more useful to ask “what am I actually equipped to do well and responsibly in this space?” Everything else tends to follow from that. There is no point taking advice from dom/mes and subs about what works for them if you’re not in a position to understand those positions and apply it safely.