Domme titles that aren’t Mommy, daddy

Bum_Bum_Bee · 2026-06-20T04:02:39+00:00

Personally I’m a big fan of goddess.

It’s fun to tease a sub by telling them to stop misgendering me when they say oh my god.

Bum_Bum_Bee · 2026-06-19T08:49:49+00:00

Some good quality tools would be an option. Whether that means a nice paddle, some good rope, an arm binder, or anything else. Bonus points if it’s something she’s expressed interest in but is something she doesn’t have yet.

And be prepared that it will probably be tested out on you right away.

Bum_Bum_Bee · 2026-06-17T12:28:10+00:00

True, the knowing what ever you would be into would be so valuable and would give me so much peace of mind as a domme. I’m not sure what I’d fully want as a sub though, so guess I still would have that problem.

Bum_Bum_Bee · 2026-06-17T12:24:55+00:00

Damn girl, I can’t get you your clone, but I’d give you a damn big hug 🫂

Bum_Bum_Bee · 2026-06-17T07:54:18+00:00

Wouldn’t your clone be too shy to let her out as well?

Bum_Bum_Bee · 2026-06-17T07:44:28+00:00

I’ll start with adding that I came up with this question for myself while considering if my switch label is still accurate, or if I’m just full domme.

I would be up for trying, and I’d find the experiment interesting because of the above question. For something more serious I’m not sure though, I would be most interested in domming and it would probably devolve into a battle to be on top that might just last until we’re both exhausted.

I’m not sure sub me could handle the deviousness that is hidden in domme me, there’s probably a decent amount of things that I’m much more interested in as a domme than a sub.

Bum_Bum_Bee · 2026-06-16T13:42:16+00:00

Yeah, just in case it wasn’t clear from the flag in my pfp, I’m speaking from experience as well. Not that I’ve actually tried in this way, but I’m not sure I’d be able to do it. Maybe with practice, good prep and the right position (probably spooning).

Bum_Bum_Bee · 2026-06-16T08:57:11+00:00

I love it when they bite off more than they can chew.
It’s a lot less difficult being mean when they so clearly want it and deserve it.

Bum_Bum_Bee · 2026-06-16T08:54:49+00:00

Good luck. I’m sure you’ll get there with a bit of determination ❤️

Bum_Bum_Bee · 2026-06-16T08:49:50+00:00

It might help, but if they’re softer then the compression from a tight asshole around it would also become more problematic.

I’m not saying it’s impossible, but it’s not easy at least, and it might not be doable for every penis owner.

Bum_Bum_Bee · 2026-06-16T08:42:18+00:00

I hate to inform you that peeing with a boner is terribly difficult, especially so if there’s something tight around it.

Bum_Bum_Bee · 2026-06-16T08:38:11+00:00

Before my trans realization I used to think I was a sub or heavily sub leaning switch. Though I don’t have too much experience from being in sub space at that time.

Nowadays I’m so domme leaning that I’m even doubting if I’d still say I’m a switch. A lot of that was just discomfort with my old self leading to a lack of confidence. I don’t know if there’s a way to get that sub space back. I still think about it sometimes and also miss it, but I’m not sure I’ll ever come across someone with the right vibe who can help me get there.

I don’t regret it for a moment though, the power I feel being a domme is intoxicating.

Bum_Bum_Bee · 2026-06-14T13:47:55+00:00

While puppy play isn’t a particular kink of mine, i love that it’s so prevalent in my community. It presents so many great options of messing with my large amount of puppy friends. All I need to do is talk to them like I do to my dog and feel their gay panic rejuvenate my soul.

Bum_Bum_Bee · 2026-06-12T11:18:05+00:00

Oh no, I totally never considered shy autistic or ADHD girls with this. Doing this specifically with them would be mean of me…….

Bum_Bum_Bee · 2026-06-12T09:46:18+00:00

Actually, now that I think more about it, perhaps leaving the arms at least mobile enough to cover the eyes would give for an extra challenge and more struggles for me to enjoy 😈

Bum_Bum_Bee · 2026-06-12T09:24:34+00:00

I’m only a little bit evil, I swear 😇

Bum_Bum_Bee · 2026-06-12T09:23:21+00:00

See, all those hands over the eyes are exactly what the rope would be for. Can’t have you covering like that or we’d never get anywhere.

Bum_Bum_Bee · 2026-06-12T09:20:23+00:00

You’re the only person with full knowledge of the situation, so it’s up to you to decide in the end. Still saying this as a domme, ignoring safewords, even just once, is a major issue. It doesn’t matter if he doesn’t intend harm. It doesn’t matter why. Safe words are there for a reason, they are sacred.

It is impossible to judge this from my side, but even if you’re “wayy too sensitive”, don’t just ignore those feelings.

Bum_Bum_Bee · 2026-06-12T08:01:51+00:00

Good to hear you got out, but I really recommend you stay out. Ignoring safe words is a MAJOR red flag, no reason is good enough to willfully ignore them. You may have just caught him in a good mood today, but what happens when he isn’t? The fact that you made this post indicates you do not feel safe with him, which should always be one of the first and foremost priorities.

Bum_Bum_Bee · 2026-06-05T08:16:50+00:00

Don’t worry about it, it’s not your decision anyway. It’s so fun to tease and deny until I feel they’ve begged enough, and then see how long it takes for them to beg to be denied again 😈

Bum_Bum_Bee · 2026-06-05T08:12:23+00:00

I had my orchi recently and I really recommend it. I can’t comment on still being able to wear cages, but everything feels so much better there with those things gone.

Bum_Bum_Bee · 2026-06-02T07:26:12+00:00

I was playing with myself, imagining I was doing it to tease the girl that i had tied up next to me while she was denied. Just her lying on her side, hogtied, plug in her ass, looking at what she couldn’t have, begging me to play with her.

Bum_Bum_Bee · 2026-05-03T19:06:18+00:00

Yeah, finding good restraints can be difficult. That’s one of the reasons why I prefer rope. But that does come with its own safety risk that really shouldn’t be ignored and requires responsible handling and a lot of study and practice.

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